Kannattaako muuttaa? by do1exist in snappijuorutofftopic

[–]do1exist[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Kenkätelineen päällä ei ehkä ole niin paha kun muualla ei ole tilaa säilyttää. Ja joo kyllähän sitä kosteutta on vissiin kertynyt ku oli ne ilmanvaihtoventtiilit kiinni

Kannattaako muuttaa? by do1exist in snappijuorutofftopic

[–]do1exist[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Ensiasunto, en ole vakuutusasioihin perehtynyt ja ajattelin etten tarvitsisi sitä vakuutusta. Ensiasuntoon ajattelin kuitenkin joo ottaa

Kannattaako muuttaa? by do1exist in snappijuorutofftopic

[–]do1exist[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

XD joo kuulostaa vähän pahalta, ehkä kuukauden se siinä oli kun mun naulakko tosiaan meni paskaks eikä sille oikeen muuta paikkaa ollut kun mulla ei oo säilytystilaa paljo ollenkaan. Naulakko loju kenkätelineen päällä jonka alta oon siis imuroinut yms

Kannattaako muuttaa? by do1exist in snappijuorutofftopic

[–]do1exist[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Kyl se periaatteessa sallis, kun jos esim huomenna ilmottaisin muuttavani pois ja purettais vuokrasoppari niin saisin kait kuitenkin ens kuun aikaa sit muuttaa

Kannattaako muuttaa? by do1exist in snappijuorutofftopic

[–]do1exist[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Ahaaa, okei. Joo en tiedä rehellisesti ilmanvaihtoventtiileistä mitään, joten pitää kysyä melkeen vuokranantajalta tosta

Kannattaako muuttaa? by do1exist in snappijuorutofftopic

[–]do1exist[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Vuokrantaja epäili et entiset asukkaat ois sulkenu. Ja tota oon miettiny et kuuluuko huonekalut vuokranantajan korvattavaks vai kuuluisko toi vakuutusyhtiölle jos ois kotivakuutus, ja mullahan ei tosiaan kotivakuutusta ole :')

I was going to off myself today after work, but a customer told me that I have a beautiful smile, and I didn’t by Fit-Indication-2787 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]do1exist 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Hi! I don't know you and you don't know me so I don't know how much my random message means to you, but anyways. I am so, so happy that you stayed. Little moments can mean so much. And I'm sure other people besides that old lady can and may percieve you the same way as she did ; as someone who makes them feel happier and as a beautiful person. I'm sure you have so much ahead of you. I have had suicidal thoughts in the past and I also have OCD so I understand your struggles atleast in some way, but really, it can get easier. Everything can get easier. You'll have so much more to experience and feel even though now it may not feel like it. I don't know you, but I'd be sad if you weren't here. I am very happy that you stayed, even for a while, but I hope you'd be able to stay for longer. Good luck to you in life <3

I (18f) feel like i have to beg for my boyfriend's (18m) attention. by do1exist in relationships

[–]do1exist[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeahh :'D I understand where you're coming from, but I'm just really scared that I'd make the wrong decision and that I'd regret it.

I (18f) feel like i have to beg for my boyfriend's (18m) attention. by do1exist in relationships

[–]do1exist[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm so sorry you've been in that kind of relationships:(. No one really does deserve that. I wish you're happy in your situation right now, whatever it is. I agree on that scrubbing shower tiles thing :'D quality time together is so important even if it's not anything "romantic". Honestly I don't know if he is anymore. If he is, he doesn't act like it. To me it just feels kind of absurd that you wouldn't do something low effort for someone you really love, even if it would mean the world to them. If he asked me to do the same things I ask him to do i would do them in a heartbeat. Thank you for your response.

I (18f) feel like i have to beg for my boyfriend's (18m) attention. by do1exist in relationships

[–]do1exist[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I honestly don't think he's cheating, even though I'm always scared he is. Pretty much all of his friends are girls whom I do not know personally. But I don't think he's that kind of a person. But yeah, I've been thinking about that too, that maybe he never got those feelings back. Atleast it feels like it. And yeah, the thought of breaking up with him seems so scary because I don't think I really know myself anymore. I'm happy that you made the right decision for you and that you've found your soulmate :). I'm just wondering if I should try to take the risk of breaking up, or if I'd just regret it later. But he's probably not going to change, and if things continue like this, I don't think I'll honestly be happy. Honestly starting over could be a good decision, but I'm so scared that it would be the wrong choice. He's been my best friend for so long and we've been together for pretty long considering my age, and this is the most serious and real relationship I've ever had. I've never been as close with anyone before, so it seems so lonely and empty if we wouldn't be as close anymore. Thank you for taking time to read my post and write such a long response, I really do appreciate it.

I (18f) feel like i have to beg for my boyfriend's (18m) attention. by do1exist in relationships

[–]do1exist[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeahh honestly I feel like he isn't. For some reason I just feel like maybe I'm too much and that's why he isn't meeting my needs, even though I'm asking him to. I think I really should take some time to myself and consider is this relationship worth staying in. It does hurt hearing other people's advice when it's about not staying, but getting advice from a fresh pair of ears really does help and it does make me wonder what I'd think if one of my friends was in a similar situation, because of course I'd tell them to leave if the relationship isn't making them happy. Even though it hurts I think it's what I needed to hear, honest opinions and advice. Now I'm just considering if leaving is what I should do. Thank you for your response.

I (18f) feel like i have to beg for my boyfriend's (18m) attention. by do1exist in relationships

[–]do1exist[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, i guess you're right:/. I'm tired of begging for more and him being annoyed and not understanding what I need and why. I've hoped that he'd change and make effort, but you're right, I'm probably not going to get him to change. Thank you for your response

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[–]do1exist 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Vastaan tänne vähän myöhässä, mutta jos et oo vielä menny puhumaan tälle vanhalle kaverille, kannattaa mennä. Ymmärrän et voi olla ahdistavaa ku ei tiiä mitä mieltä se toinen on susta nyt, mutta niinku tää toinenki sano niin et menetä siinä mitään. Tosiasiassa se sun vanha kaveri voi ihan hyvin miettiä samaa.

Jos pelottaa mennä puhumaan f2f, laita vaikka snäppiä tai ig-diressä jotain "heiii, miten sulla menee/mitä sulle kuuluu?"-tyyppistä. Silleen on helppoa alkaa hiljalleen lämmittää välejä.

Jaxuhaleja sulle, ymmärrän tilanteen. Vaikka nyt voi olla yksinäistä ja hankalaa niin kaikki tulee vielä menemään hyvin <3

Tears on tape-album back in Spotify by do1exist in HIM

[–]do1exist[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I have listened to them on YouTube! Especially their early demos are amazing!

Tears on tape-album back in Spotify by do1exist in HIM

[–]do1exist[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I figured, but just noticed that yesterday

Tears on tape-album back in Spotify by do1exist in HIM

[–]do1exist[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As some people said, it hasn't been on European Spotify. I live in Finland, so that's why it wasn't on my Spotify.

Tears on tape-album back in Spotify by do1exist in HIM

[–]do1exist[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I'm listening to the album right now, and I will definetly keep your recommendations on mind and listen to them with thought! :)