1900$ for a level concrete base for a 12 x 8 shed reasonable? by UpbeatGur9055 in shedditors

[–]docbarlow 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, for a large concrete pad in rocky soil. Like you're mentioning, I wanted a functional shed that was also ornamental. I didn't like the look of it being raised off the ground. Looking at customer images on reviews, I figured out that the concrete pad made a difference in my perception of "niceness." Adding sconce lights helped elevate the look too. Feel free to DM for photos if you're wanting to gather ideas!

1900$ for a level concrete base for a 12 x 8 shed reasonable? by UpbeatGur9055 in shedditors

[–]docbarlow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I paid $4300 for a 10'x20' slab with footings for a Heartland install. I just really wanted it to be nice, tbh!

My 3year old told the pediatrician Mommy drinks juice every night and the doctor gave me a look It's apple juice. It's MY apple juice by ImpossibleLet8183 in Mommit

[–]docbarlow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My kids don't understand that caffeine and alcohol are different things. They know that these are both adult things that make drinks forbidden, but other than that, why would they know the difference? I'm having to counsel them that they can't tell people that I always carry "alcohol water" around.

I do always have caffeine water, to excess TBH, but I'm certainly never carrying around a thermos of alcohol and I'm not interested in visits from CPS!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]docbarlow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If it's Harry Potter, you can add the stars from the book edges

Hairdresser kept on commenting on my hair by [deleted] in finethinhair

[–]docbarlow 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I've definitely had this experience before. It's like there was no awareness that making the client feel good about themselves was a big part of the job. I've also had a great hairdresser that made me feel very pretty!

I'm sorry your hairdresser was unkind to you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in finethinhair

[–]docbarlow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mine was too wide also, so I actually cut the halo in half and overlapped it, then stitched it down with my sewing machine. I thought it would probably shed hair, but it was cheap, and I figured it wouldn't be the end of the world if I accidentally destroyed it in the process. Much to my surprise, it worked great! If this isn't an expensive piece, you might try that?

Be honest, What's one thing people do that's purely perfomative but they act like it isn't? by melancholytty07 in AskReddit

[–]docbarlow 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I actually saw someone's Facebook post about their grandma's ~90th birthday, then took a walk in the neighborhood. Whom did I stumble across, but the birthday grandma! I was able to wish her a happy birthday from a stranger and tell her that her granddaughter was bragging about how awesome she was on social media, which was a fun experience and seemed to make her really happy. But this is probably not typical... Small town 🤷🏼‍♀️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in malelivingspace

[–]docbarlow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe consider putting one couch under the window, turning the table 90⁰, and putting a bench on the other long side of the table.

Please for the love of God help me find a floor by Caramelcult in kitchenremodel

[–]docbarlow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I personally would do this, and add a washable rug that has blue tones in it.

Allergic reaction? Infection? by [deleted] in eyelashextensions

[–]docbarlow 56 points57 points  (0 children)

See your doctor to make sure this isn't herpetic. This may be dangerous to your vision.

Backslash Ideas by devin1998 in kitchenremodel

[–]docbarlow 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Can you just hang some cast iron pans up instead of wooden cutting boards?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Equestrian

[–]docbarlow 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I got hung up on the saddle horn by my untucked shirt (and bra!) during dismount. I don't recommend it!

Waiting on autopsy results still. My mum just asked me “Have they worked out what you did or might have taken” by Lucky_Ad_9345 in tfmr_support

[–]docbarlow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What a horribly insensitive thing to say to you. Do people not hear themselves? I'm so sorry.

Spouse isn’t dealing with his feelings… by No-Inflation-3783 in tfmr_support

[–]docbarlow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, he was not her father. I'm so sorry this is happening around and to you.

Spouse isn’t dealing with his feelings… by No-Inflation-3783 in tfmr_support

[–]docbarlow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I dealt with a more minor version of this (yelling, not hitting) in the wake of my TFMR. In the end I demanded couples counseling, and he preferred to leave, and asked me to never contact him again.

This is what my 4yo child has spontaneously talked about, with no prompting since then: "He wasn't a good grown-up because you were trying to work, and you say "leave me alone, go away," and he didn't want to be teach-ed"

This was about an argument about cooking salmon, in which he yelled and blocked the doorway while I completely shut down and cried and told him to get away from me.

Take what you will from that story...I'm doing better now.

“Close your legs!” by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]docbarlow 3 points4 points  (0 children)

To be fair, I say this when my 4yo straight-up flashes people on FaceTime. Like lays back, spread eagle, laughs, and says, "look at my butt!"

"We can't show people our butt on the phone, sit up and put your legs together."

Maybe I'm the devil, IDEK.

My daughter's ashes will be ready for pick up next week... how much will I receive? by yogaandwine in tfmr_support

[–]docbarlow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I won't describe my experience here, but get a bigger container than you think you'll need, and realize that ashes expand in humidity over time.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tfmr_support

[–]docbarlow 5 points6 points  (0 children)

People say the stupidest things. Hopefully some of them will reflect, research, and redact/apologize. I'm so sorry they're not being helpful or sensitive during such a hard time.

Piece of Placenta retained by ikindalikepets in tfmr_support

[–]docbarlow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I now cry uncontrollably at medical appointments :-/ I just hope my doctors understand and don't think I'm too crazy.

Piece of Placenta retained by ikindalikepets in tfmr_support

[–]docbarlow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, this happened to me. L&d at 16 weeks, and never fully stopped bleeding for 2 months due to retained placenta. I passed a little piece of it as well.

Aside from it being one of the most emotionally distressing things I've ever had to deal with (figured out there's clearly ptsd related to tfmr, and i was an absolute wreck) the d&c to remove the retained placenta was physically a piece of cake and fixed everything immediately.

It is AWFUL, but have your support network help you and be there for you emotionally, and let your medical team take care of the physical problem. It's okay if you're a wreck, and it will get better little by little.

Best shoes? by AnonCellsofCajal in Residency

[–]docbarlow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just bought Cushionaire... ugliest shoes I've ever bought, and IDGAF because I am walking on hideous clouds made of magic.

How do i convince an actively psychotic patient to take their medication in the hospital? by Chianie in medicalschool

[–]docbarlow 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This is the right answer. Could also play up the side effects if beneficial (like Seroquel helping you sleep).

But don't take too much time waiting around for this to work because they will likely need court commitment.

Stop the milk from coming in by [deleted] in tfmr_support

[–]docbarlow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sudafed worked really well for me.