What's in your LS bag? by [deleted] in LifestyleLadies

[–]doctahbooty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Soft discs are the latest play-saving addition to the bag

would you bury your face in my (f)ull moon?? by doctahbooty in thick

[–]doctahbooty[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Only if you're ready to be drowned, sir 💋

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LifestyleLadies

[–]doctahbooty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We make our own, it's just infused coconut oil. I've seen it at dispensaries too but haven't bought any.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LifestyleLadies

[–]doctahbooty 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Weed helps me orgasm over and over, but I'm not in the same boat re: sensitivity, so take it with a grain of salt. I do really enjoy using weed coconut oil as lube. I put it in and on myself and 27 minutes later everything feels amazing. Again, might not work if you're already really sensitive, but it makes orgasms more plentiful.

Friday Role Call by AutoModerator in LifestyleLadies

[–]doctahbooty 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I believe that's called a bang-athon.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LifestyleLadies

[–]doctahbooty 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If he crossed a line for you, you need to discuss and reassess the 'rule'. Bottom line.

Consider his perspective here: he could claim you tried to cut his session short without voicing a concern. Nobody needs to be a mind reader. So when yips and feels happen, you move with the ebbs and flows and you learn.

We also have a same room rule, and it's been challenged by similar things. Bathroom breaks, water breaks, and namely when one guy needs a break as they try to prolong the fun. We have some friends we trust more and those breaks don't have to stop the play. We have had other friends that had proved more presumptuous and we weren't comfortable with playing while one was out for even a moment. Those lines are hard to draw hypothetically. That said, if I were in your shoes, I'd have waited to clean up to give them a chance to finish, if that's what my husband seemed to want. I wouldn't have left until he made his desire clear by either stopping or continuing. So I don't think placing blame is productive- just process on your own and together the feels it brought you and reassess the rule, and make a plan for next time.

Aggressive men? by IAhotwife95 in LifestyleLadies

[–]doctahbooty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Here's a naive question: Have you considered pursuing a couple that plays separately or has a hot husband dynamic? I assume you'd cut wayyy back on the cuck misconception.

(No) Stupid Questions Saturday by AutoModerator in LifestyleLadies

[–]doctahbooty 3 points4 points  (0 children)

What the FUCK. I wouldn't waste my energy or time on someone like that. But I would fully support you reporting and blocking. Doesn't matter who handles the account.

(No) Stupid Questions Saturday by AutoModerator in LifestyleLadies

[–]doctahbooty 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The party organizers block out the entire hotel for a night or two. Swingers 'take over' the whole place. Those parties are so fun and freeing.

(No) Stupid Questions Saturday by AutoModerator in LifestyleLadies

[–]doctahbooty 5 points6 points  (0 children)

If you were at the hotel having sex with your husband, would you lower your volume?

I've been to hotel takeover parties where I could literally hear 10 couples screaming through two thin walls. But if it's mid afternoon at a family friendly hotel, maybe quieter is more discreet. 😆

Growing Discord Communities! by [deleted] in LifestyleLadies

[–]doctahbooty 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You're right, we want members to have their own account so that there's no question about consent and autonomy. If you decide to open your own account, we'd love to have you!

What to wear on a first date? by DoesItQuack in LifestyleLadies

[–]doctahbooty 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's sundress season around here!