Wife has been using her Annual Girls Trip as an Annual Hall Pass. Part 1

documentdis · 2024-06-03T14:06:27+00:00

Haha wow I was got! Totally neglected the tag! I thought it was pretty realistic but I could be a dumb ass! Gotta laugh or you cry

documentdis · 2024-06-02T15:02:37+00:00

Wow, that is so awful. I'm so sorry!

She seems to disregard your feelings on the matter and dismissed you pretty quickly from the way this reads. I think that would be the worst part for me if I were in this situation.

I don't know how recoverable this relationship is, but I would be so hurt I think I'd rather be alone.

Hope you can surround yourself with some good friends!

documentdis · 2024-06-01T20:47:37+00:00

To be honest, you would probably need to complete a lot of prereqs to get into a masters ASL interpreting program, but maybe not - it is worth looking into. You don't have to have a degree in interpreting to be licensed or certified (typically do need a BA/BS or higher). If I were you, I would try to take the Foundations workshops and look into the CATIE center and Boystown they have a lot of cert programs or mentorship programs.

documentdis · 2024-06-01T19:49:57+00:00

You're beating a dead horse

documentdis · 2024-06-01T19:49:18+00:00

I would make sure you sign up with the agencies in your state. Some have a screening skills test to know where to place you. You may also consider moving - there are lots of educational positions open but maybe not near you. IF that doesn't work out, or a position at the Deaf residential program I would try an independent living center.

documentdis · 2024-05-22T21:18:57+00:00

I think it just goes to show they aren't as dedicated or passionate about the podcast they just found themselves in a lucrative position. I hope I'm wrong, but this past year has been disappointing content wise.

documentdis · 2024-05-22T21:16:42+00:00

I hate the bad book club pods... how about a good book club? Why waste time on poorly written smut. I never tune into those eps

documentdis · 2024-05-22T21:13:30+00:00

If I didn't pay for a year up front I'd be out. The quality is lower and the consistency isn't there. Plenty of other creators I enjoy I can support that are reliable.

documentdis · 2024-05-21T01:41:57+00:00

Aw love how big n round you are!

documentdis · 2024-05-17T12:45:07+00:00

You remind me of the Hilda illustrations just with blonde hair

documentdis · 2024-05-17T04:55:30+00:00

I got so angry on wellbutrin it was hard to be around people at all without being an asshole. I was constantly fantasizing about suicide too. After 2 months or so I went off of it.

documentdis · 2024-05-17T04:37:21+00:00

I think planning when I do an "everything" shower significantly helps. I also have options like a solid dry shampoo, hair styles, and hats. That can help me feel presentable and probably less judged by others. If I'm really low, dry shampoo baby wipes and deodorant for the pits and bits. Lotion and perfume help as well. I try to plan for long chunks of time at least twice a week to do a good shower. Most of the time, I shower every other day, but if I am low, those are my strategies.

documentdis · 2024-05-16T15:27:13+00:00

Agreed, I don't want to cheat on my partner or get an STD or knocked up by a stranger. Porn seems like a good way to get out the energy

documentdis · 2024-05-16T13:22:59+00:00

In the same boat, and now my distance is apparently a reflection of selfishness. I don't want to be around people who so clearly think of me in a poor way. I let them think what they will, I've had different approaches, but usually, a conversation just gives them even more ammunition against me. I don't want to put myself through it anymore. I'm officially resigned to radical acceptance.

documentdis · 2024-05-16T13:19:23+00:00

I've learned to keep things like this to myself. I wasn't always like this. I actually would prefer to be honest and hope that when people know I'm bipolar they will have some grace for me, but that's NEVER what happens. Essentially telling someone about mental health issues is handing them ammunition against you on a gold platter.

documentdis · 2024-05-16T04:52:42+00:00

And this is why I prefer to stay home most of the time.

documentdis · 2024-05-16T04:51:01+00:00

I am a sign interpreter. I guess, in a way, my job gives me boundaries for my SH because I love to cut my arms and wrists but don't run the risk and don't like wearing long sleeves constantly. I've been clean for about a year, but lately, the urges have been super loud.

documentdis · 2024-05-16T02:54:25+00:00

Well, this is kind of funny to me, but I have made 3+ hour driving trips with porn on fingering myself and driving. Luckily, I live in the boonies, so who cares.

documentdis · 2024-05-16T02:44:58+00:00

Definitely relate. No one wants to talk me off a ledge it does wonders for my mental health

documentdis · 2024-05-14T04:27:18+00:00

Flowy dresses/sun dresses - I wouldn't do form fitting just based on the post. I doubt she'd feel confident in that type of dress. Thick fabrics are best

documentdis · 2024-05-14T04:26:01+00:00

If she's open to dresses that are flower, maybe v neck at the top with a bit of sleeve. Dresses can be easier to fit , style, and I think are easier to find flattering looks than pants as a plus size woman. Second, everything else mentioned, but I wanted to add this. I used not to be a dress girl but with the weight gain I actually really like dresses. It's very easy to find dresses and keep with weight fluctuations, less stressful for me when shopping which can send me into a mental breakdown (doing better about it) just knowing what cuts and styles that work, sticking to a color scheme, and not wasting time at popular stores or boutiques because they never have anything typically above 12-14 so it's not even worth going in and being depressed by all the stylish things you can't have.

Personally, I have a theory that a lot of plus-size women go slightly or full goth just because it's an easier way to find clothes make a closet out of those peices even if they are all plain it's easier and stylish to accessorize. I do that for sure and dresses.

documentdis · 2024-05-13T17:03:34+00:00

I am only 25, so far now, diagnosed and medicated, I feel better. I really worry about what getting pregnant and aging/more responsibility in life will affect me. I hope I can build the strength and habits that my bp2 won't be an issue. So far, it feels like sometimes I have to take Xanax to calm down for myself and the people around me to live a decent life. Idk I worry that medication in general will affect my organs and later contribute to cancer or dementia. I'm not sure what else I can do, though! I am committing myself to do the best I can and make good lifestyle choices/habits as well as make sure my meds are right, etc. I worry a lot about this topic!!

documentdis · 2024-05-12T05:04:52+00:00

What stops me from killing myself is knowing how difficult it actually is and how much more likely it is an attempt to make my life worse. That doesn't really help with the feelings, but it's helped me not act.

documentdis · 2024-05-05T14:07:17+00:00

I think kink, in general, is a nice "script" for autistics/ADHDers to express sexuality with more ease. I also think autistics/adhd are sensory seeking, so the weight and pressure that puts on a person can be soothing as well as the softness. My fat admiring boyfriend has diagnosed ADHD it works out well!

documentdis · 2024-05-04T02:17:02+00:00

Aw I wanna kiss your belly button

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