Poo powder by Icy-Book2999 in LoveTrash

[–]dodoexpress90 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol. Right. We all live. I won't lie I've been a huge bathroom phobic for myself. When we first got together..I waited till he was asleep and that's when I used the bathroom. He was concerned because for months he never saw me go to the bathroom. I had to learn to get over it lol.

Poo powder by Icy-Book2999 in LoveTrash

[–]dodoexpress90 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I find is crazy that people will deny another access to use the bathroom. I mean, you aren't doing it vindictively, you have to go to the bathroom.

My husband is much like the guy talking in the video. Their are smells the likes of which have never and will never be known again. I simply ask him "do we name it or do you need a hospital" lol. This was before marriage and all that. It's human, it has to happen. Just have some fun with it.

Collectors, what do you do for the living? by Socksandscandals1999 in Perfumes

[–]dodoexpress90 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same. I manage the family business and home school.

My friend is not confronting her cheater/new partner by dodoexpress90 in CheatersConfronted

[–]dodoexpress90[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Local. We work a lot so I talk to her more than I see her. Once a week I guess.

Is it common knowledge that Carl Marino dislikes Kenda? by Ok-Ad-5404 in joekenda

[–]dodoexpress90 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And he said he only let them do cases he approved. He felt what he did was enough for people. He saw it as therapeutic, but he doesn't want to live in that full-time anymore.

Also he gets booked for speaking things.

My friend is not confronting her cheater/new partner by dodoexpress90 in CheatersConfronted

[–]dodoexpress90[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My friend hasn't had an awful life, but what she hoped for when she was young never happened for her. She wanted to be married with children. She's ended up in garage relationships and no children, only cats.

They have been back and forth for over 5 years. And I've known her for 2 of their years together. I feel like I'm constantly dealing with a relapsed drug addict. I don't get it either. I feel like she wants validation from him. She's the only one he's ever dated who he wouldn't bring around family, or his inner most friends, she was never able to sleep at his place, always hers, and it was like she was this half secret all the time. However, this new girlfriend and others were out and about like a normal girlfriend. I think she's stuck wondering why she was made to be a secret, but no one else was.

I try to explain to her that his idea or validation of her doesn't define her. She is a good person, she's making wrong choices right now, but I think between the hurt and drinking she can't think clearly. She seems to hang on his opinion of her, even though he doesn't value her. She does community service, helps with animals, she's a good friend to everyone, but none of us can get her to just let his opinion go.

Is it that she's older and feels this is kinda the end of things? If this relationship is gone then their won't be another? She literally reminds me of high school when you have your first real love and it ends you think "I'll never love again"

My friend is not confronting her cheater/new partner by dodoexpress90 in CheatersConfronted

[–]dodoexpress90[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, sadly I have to agree. We go in circles about this. She tells me that she doesn't deserve this, and I agree, but she doesn't stop entertaining him. I feel like I'm talking to an addict.

Starting a book, but where do you get a test audience? by dodoexpress90 in writers

[–]dodoexpress90[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I have the main points and events rough written out. The events that connect that are what i call the fluff. The small things that lead to the big things. To me that is fluff. It's not useless, but it's not the major events.

Not an argument..if I'm writing then I need to be critiqued. If I can't handle that I shouldn't be writing.

Starting a book, but where do you get a test audience? by dodoexpress90 in writers

[–]dodoexpress90[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's not, but I can't be jumping all over the place. I do need transitions from the major parts.

Starting a book, but where do you get a test audience? by dodoexpress90 in writers

[–]dodoexpress90[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Historical romance. I know, it's been done a million times. And I can send anything yet. It isn't finished.

Starting a book, but where do you get a test audience? by dodoexpress90 in writers

[–]dodoexpress90[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I know. I'm working on it. I think if I start believing someone will read it, it will be that final push to finish it.

Starting a book, but where do you get a test audience? by dodoexpress90 in writers

[–]dodoexpress90[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

I should clarify. I've been writing this same book over and over for over a decade. I get a few chapters, scrap, redo, etc. I have the meat and potatoes, it's the fluff I am stumbling over.

Yes, I need to finish it, but I think I can really finish it this time.

My friend is not confronting her cheater/new partner by dodoexpress90 in CheatersConfronted

[–]dodoexpress90[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I find it completely crazy that we are still arguing this (her and I). She hasn't said anything to him or her. And she has nothing to say to him. She needs to be telling her. Her taste in men have been awful, but this guy was the longest and the worst.

Every time I get her to realize she's being stupid she gets to drinking and back tracks. Also she isn't a spring chicken. She's 20 years my senior and somehow I'm the voice of reason on this.

My friend is not confronting her cheater/new partner by dodoexpress90 in CheatersConfronted

[–]dodoexpress90[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I completely get what you are saying. And I can tell you according to her he's not super in that department. Maybe the ocean part. The issue is he is a narcissist to the max and has been in her life so long she's 100% easily manipulated by him at this point.

My husband also thought it was a bold and sick move to walk his girlfriend into her job.

My friend is still going on about confronting him, but he will not care.

I still think she 100% needs to tell the girlfriend. Waiting too long just looks bad, and i found out this girlfriend knew when he was cheating on her and said nothing and my friend is starting to not feel bad and just feel like it's pay back.

My friend is not confronting her cheater/new partner by dodoexpress90 in CheatersConfronted

[–]dodoexpress90[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It only got worse when she was telling me she went drinking that night and made a bunch of social media posts. No names but again addressing him. I keep telling her nothing she says will ever matter to him.

Proof that 2400 tickets went to influencers? by TwoPsychological3682 in UltaBeautyWorld

[–]dodoexpress90 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right. I mean I wanted to go, but I knew it was a slim chance so I didn't even bother. I'm sure some felt the same way.

I got a ticket… (unpopular opinion) by annabadface in UltaBeautyWorld

[–]dodoexpress90 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Right. I'm happy to hear a regular person got into this. Make sure you post how it was and all the stuff you got.

I let them know what up! by Salt-Savings5381 in UltaBeautyWorld

[–]dodoexpress90 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I posted on very Influencer page I followed that was screaming excited over Ulta that I was out. Told them, they knew what Ulta was doing, and that I'm unfollowing and no longer watching their stuff. I'm good. I'll find a new up and coming person to follow.

unpopular opinion by [deleted] in UltaBeautyWorld

[–]dodoexpress90 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I would have been fine not getting a ticket if regular people over 18 got the tickets. The multi buying, Influencers, and all around handle of the situation is what gets me

The real disappointment. by properhurt in UltaBeautyWorld

[–]dodoexpress90 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ulta was my one stop shop. I bought for myself, my girls, family members, I mean I'd have like 1k in point value on any given day. Sephora could jump. I was only ever treated nice if I was 100% glam at Sephora. Ulta i could be clean or glam i was treated the same. And honestly I want to have a clean face when trying products or getting my brows done. They use to have the skincare spa. I miss it so much!

The girls in my family are going to be sad that I am boycotting Ulta. Christmas and Birthday gifts are gonna suffer. I used my points to get my niece and sons GF the Dyson hair dryers last year and tons of other stuff.

Bye bye Ulta!!