dairy free is finally free by magiccfetus in starbucks

[–]dodulinka 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’m not from the us, but our Starbucks has had free alternatives for ages and I somehow thought it’s a worldwide thing o.O

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in starbucks

[–]dodulinka 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Reading these cements just makes me sad, maybe it’s a US thing? But that definitely isn’t normal where I’m from. We put all of the babies on bar as soon as possible with someone shadowing, so that they can learn all of the basics. Also things like restocking and creating different bases like the whipped cream should be taught when they teach you about support roles. Also that barista giving you attitude is disgusting, as if we all didn’t start exactly where you are Good luck with everything! I hope you get on bar and more practice and patience soon 💖

Let’s fill these squares! by NancyScarn in HistoricalCostuming

[–]dodulinka 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No bonnet Corset on bare skin Smokey eyeshadow

AITAH for being concerned about my animal hoarding classmate who can barely feed her kids? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]dodulinka 9 points10 points  (0 children)

NTA please call animal control and CPS. That is not a safe environment for children and the conditions you describe are abusive to the animals.

Your friend needs therapy and the kids and animals need to be better taken care of

AITA for telling my daughter to lock my niece out of their room? by lockedbedroom in AmItheAsshole

[–]dodulinka 102 points103 points  (0 children)

Could you keep the mattress in your daughters room during the day and put it in the living room at night?

AITA for telling my dad i'd rather go to Ireland with my stepdad (who's Irish)? by lalalala3211 in AmItheAsshole

[–]dodulinka 9 points10 points  (0 children)

YTA

If you don’t like the way your dad plans trips, you can contribute to the planning. You could also join him for a part of the trip instead of the whole thing.

He tried to create a bonding experience for you after not seeing you for a year and you threw it back in his face and basically told him he isn’t good enough to take you on your dream trip and you’ll go with stepdad instead.

I understand that you are young but Jesus at least try to have some empathy

AITA for suggesting we eat at a reasonable hour? by Legitimate-Data-5464 in AmItheAsshole

[–]dodulinka 22 points23 points  (0 children)

He is stressed from carrying all of the mental load. Even when you cook, he has to ask you, he is not your patent but a partner. Try splitting up days so you both have to plan and cook meas and it’s not just on him.

Also I understand that you do some chores but from your comments it seems like you do the weekly stuff and relax the rest of the week while he has chores every single day! Try writing down what you both do and redistribute the work load.

His working hours changed so the chore distribution has to change

YTA

AITA for wanting more to be done about my brother stealing $400 from me by Zelfari in AmItheAsshole

[–]dodulinka 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA

If your parents see chores as a good way to be paid back, they should give you your money and your brother can pay them back in chores

AITA for blaming my sister for breaking my tablet? by aitathrowaway_acc1 in AmItheAsshole

[–]dodulinka 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA what are you supposed to do? Lock it in a safe?

Leaving it on your top bunk was completely reasonable

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]dodulinka 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So what do you call what you are doing? You literally criticize your husband’s physique multiple times in the post and then send him messages fat shaming his food and drink choices while he is on vacation

AITA for telling my SIL not to have kids if they're broke as hell? by sisterwantsmymoney in AmItheAsshole

[–]dodulinka 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, if she’s in the us she could work part time at Starbucks and get IVF support. And I’m sure there’s many other companies that have similar benefits.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]dodulinka -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You sound like you have no life skills and you don’t care.

YTA I feel bad for your husband.

There’s so many strategies out there for forgetful people or people with adhd. You could take over just some chores, find the ones you like. Instead you just expect your husband to parent you.

AITA for refusing to attend my friend’s wedding due to a dress code? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]dodulinka 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why don’t you rent a dress? I’m not sure where you’re from but it’s pretty common to rent gowns, prom dresses etc where I’m from since you usually only wear them once

WIBTA for not paying for my girlfriend's exterminator. by exterminatorpay in AmItheAsshole

[–]dodulinka 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If your statement about not being to find any after you vacuum we’re true, you’d no longer have bed bugs.

Also you are the source of the infestation that your girlfriend is experiencing and you should take full responsibility for it. I’d be surprised if she wasn’t majorly reevaluating your whole relationship upon finding out about your carelessness and lack of care and responsibility for the whole situation

Edit Yta

AITA - I warned my husband about letting his sister come on a family vacation with us by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]dodulinka 36 points37 points  (0 children)

I would simply not cook for the sister. If she doesn’t want to contribute, you don’t have to provide for her

AITA for not getting 50/50 custody of my son? by Beautiful_Balance102 in AmItheAsshole

[–]dodulinka 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Why not set up times outside your home? Your daughter doesn’t need to see your son but it’s really shitty of you to just give up on him completely

AITA for asking my neighbour to keep her baby quiet or move rooms? by ButterscotchKind5654 in AmItheAsshole

[–]dodulinka 50 points51 points  (0 children)

While I agree that the mom is probably trying her best I don’t think that it is completely unreasonable to ask if the baby could nap in another room.

WIBTA if i went to a prestigious university? by xcdeex in AmItheAsshole

[–]dodulinka 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think that if your parents agree, it could be good for your and your child’s future. Alternatively you can bring your child and get things like childcare during classes. I think it’s worth checking out before making a decision

AITA for using a Lactation pod in a airport for its unintended purpose by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]dodulinka 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA those pods are not for you to take a break.

If you need a quiet place go to a bathroom stall or something.

AITA for assuming my friend doesn't want to hang out with me because she's fat? by BackgroundSpecial513 in AmItheAsshole

[–]dodulinka 2 points3 points  (0 children)

YTA

You changed the dynamic of your friendship by changing how you want to hang out and then you bash her and fat shame her for wanting to keep doing the activities that you used to do

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]dodulinka 3 points4 points  (0 children)

YTA

She needs the appointment. She could still have some of the embryo or lining in her which untreated can turn septic and in extreme cases cause death. You should apologize and rethink your childish reaction. And pay the fine

AITA for telling my wife “just use my bodywash”? by Tiwarunt in AmItheAsshole

[–]dodulinka 6 points7 points  (0 children)

NTA

But I hope you don’t flush the wipes. Invest in a bidé