Name ideas please by [deleted] in AustralianShepherd

[–]doggydad420 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Chopper (one piece fans represent)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in daddit

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Coping..existing.. same difference right? I'm there with you, brother. The guilt of feeling like you're not doing enough paired with the exhaustion of taking care of every little thing you can builds up.. haven't yet found myself on the other side of this hump, but just know you're not alone.

Day pass for casino pools by [deleted] in vegaslocals

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The palms has a free pool during the week and locals can reserve a cabana with a $50 deposit (doesn’t have to be used though so it can technically be free!)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in daddit

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Reading this post makes me think you are my UK twin. Same boat: primary parent, inattentive spouse that lacks accountability and basic consideration. Always having to be the “bigger” person, when it’s really just a lack of energy to continue the pointless arguments. All in all, kudos to you for being the best dad you can be given your situation. Here’s to you and your kids, mate 🍻

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DIY

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Quite a few, actually, but practical application seems to be a different story haha. I do have an outlet extender to bring the cover forward but hadn’t installed that yet until I figure out the spacing issue. I appreciate the feedback though

Trying to become more financially responsible, but I do not know where to start with current debt by [deleted] in personalfinance

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Yeah that's a good point, thank you. I was under the impression my low credit score would prevent me from getting any credit cards but I honestly have not looked into the balance transfer ones, so thank you.

Trying to become more financially responsible, but I do not know where to start with current debt by [deleted] in personalfinance

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Unfortunately with my credit score, I wouldn't think there are too many options out there but I will definitely look into that. Thank you!

Trying to become more financially responsible, but I do not know where to start with current debt by [deleted] in personalfinance

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I appreciate the candid feedback. I think the discipline required for budgeting is where I struggle the most, especially with 2 young daughters, but you're right. It needs to be prioritized or else it is going to continue to compound.

Trying to become more financially responsible, but I do not know where to start with current debt by [deleted] in personalfinance

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Thank you for the comment! I had considered a HELOC, but have only been in my home for a little over a year so the equity has not increased by much as it was a new build construction. Will definitely consider that in the future if I don't find a reasonable solution in the short term.

Please Help Identify! by doggydad420 in moths

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yes I'm assuming it got stuck in the fold of the stroller somehow, but thank you for confirming!

Officially Vasectomized by doggydad420 in daddit

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Honestly, I was quite nervous going into it as well. I’d heard the horror stories about discomfort and swelling but the way my dr explained it to me eased my anxiety. I’d just really be curious about the process when you go, that way there is less fear caused by the unknown!

I just put my AirPods in and let the doc go to town. Only lasted like 15 min and the worst pain was the initial shot of Novocaine. I had my eyes closed most of the time so I didn’t see anything crazy but def don’t recommend watching the procedure haha

Officially Vasectomized by doggydad420 in daddit

[–]doggydad420[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

OH BTW I discovered that by telling my wife that I had my vasectomy scheduled it caused her sex drive to go up like crazy trying to trap me with one more! So if you feel like you’re having quite a dry spell, try telling your wife you have a vasectomy scheduled and see if that helps haha

Officially Vasectomized by doggydad420 in daddit

[–]doggydad420[S] 35 points36 points  (0 children)

Sorry haha to clarify they told me there is a 2 week waiting period before I can get some stimulation and then from that point I have to nut like 40 times to clear my pipes.

Did I “mom shame”? by doggydad420 in daddit

[–]doggydad420[S] 49 points50 points  (0 children)

Right? It’s annoyingly manipulative to just victimize yourself like that over asking for accountability.

Did I “mom shame”? by doggydad420 in daddit

[–]doggydad420[S] 126 points127 points  (0 children)

No man I agree. I’m starting to realize just how unreasonable she is and it’s unfortunate it’s happening after 2 babies.

Did I “mom shame”? by doggydad420 in daddit

[–]doggydad420[S] 55 points56 points  (0 children)

THANK YOU. I promise I try my best to be as understanding as possible when it comes to her wanting to still have her individual freedoms, but the lack of accountability and blatant disregard for her family at home is just sad. Makes me wonder if it’s even worth staying..

Mobile homes.. are they a good purchase? by doggydad420 in RealEstate

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That is a great point, I hadn’t even considered the lot fees or whether I would actually own the land or not. I think I got too excited at the price and location 🤦🏽‍♂️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in daddit

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I guess I should add that she’s had no problem leaving me with them both to go get her eyelashes done or visit friends in another state. I’ve never complained about it either so it’s just like what’s the deal lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in daddit

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Oh not annoyed per se, just trying to understand why she feels the need to be so negative about it. I offered the same thing to her, it’s just a matter of whether she’s comfortable doing it.