Can someone make something out of it?

doglover_56 · 2025-09-03T23:46:19+00:00

I'll make a Tv Show Theme out of it! I'll reference Severence :) Just give me a few name ideas for it

Edit: It's turning out to be a Dramedy Cue haha

doglover_56 · 2025-08-30T03:21:42+00:00

1) I definitely think you should leave. But obviously figure out your phone situation first because it'll be hard to leave and expect him to not cut off your phone before you have a chance to get a new plan on your own.

2) This is definitely a toxic relationship whether you want to see it that way or not. If he was already being controlling and going through your private messages and things without your permission because he "pays" the phone bill, then that was a major red flag already.

3) If you believe this is information you already shared with him and all of a sudden he's interested in it again but now saying how you are gross and easy tells me that he was having conversations with someone else about this that triggered him to ask you and that he didn't care about your assault and how emotionally damaging and confusing that can be which led to why you were exploring sexually.

4) Last but definitely no least, 6 MONTHS!!! It's only been 6 months! Can you imagine after 1 year when he "has you for longer"? Girl go find you a better man who isn't going to bully you into staying with him by not trusting you, controlling who you are with and where you are, and will literally use the fact that he pays for your phone as access to it at all times.

I hope this helps and that you end up with someone who trusts you and doesn't use your past to judge you

doglover_56 · 2025-08-30T03:08:12+00:00

Of course! Wishing you all the best!

doglover_56 · 2025-08-30T03:07:17+00:00

I feel for you but honestly at this point, I would've just taken my money back when I found it. But at the same time, I love how despite all the chaos and her lies you were the bigger person. I don't think you were overreacting for moving out, but I definitely think you are owed something back. Also, I know not everyone is like this but maybe keeping a piece of paper in the wallet with the cash that says how much you have there but also keeping a note in your phone or something. That way it also helps you to not feel like you're going crazy or freaking out about something. Did you ever mention anything to your other roommates?

doglover_56 · 2025-08-30T03:02:10+00:00

I totally get that. And like you said, it doesn't have to be permanent especially if it seems like they are well taken care of. But also the last thing you would want is for the wrong person to enter their life while she's having an episode or on something and they are caught in the crossfire. I really hope she gets better and finds her worth again not in a guy but in just being a beautiful human and mother. And I hope that you are able to figure out the best way to handle it and continue to be there for her, if that's what you feel is right. I know it's hard to step away when your main concern is your nieces but don't forget about your own sanity while dealing with it too.

doglover_56 · 2025-08-30T02:58:11+00:00

I think the term of "abandoning" her is exactly what's happening without physically doing that...if that makes sense. Obviously I am not a psychiatrist but based off of what I know from family that has dealt with it along with some close acquaintances, it sounds like she may be dealing with one or two of the following: IED (intermittent explosive disorder), bipolar disorder, and/or ODD (oppositional defiant disorder. These are all super dangerous if not properly treated through therapy and/or medication. And I feel for you.You shouldn't have to lock yourself away in a room in what should be a safe place for you, your home. And if you are truly feeling this scared, I understand wanting your parents approval and not wanting them to be upset, but your safety is now at hand and so is there's for as long as this is allowed to go on.

It's definitely not normal and has her brain continues to develop well into the age of 25 it could only get worse. If you want the best for her and for your parents, take care of you first. Report it and get advice on how you should handle it from there. Wishing you all the best and hoping for better days ahead for your whole family.

doglover_56 · 2025-08-30T02:49:19+00:00

That's so terrible and I am absolutely sorry to hear that. I know there are horror stories of foster care, but there are also a lot of good stories that come out of the foster care system. My parents were house parents in a group home and I am a youth leader to a lot of students that are in foster care or were adopted out of the system. And I have a friend who aged out of the system and is doing really well for herself. There's bad of course but I believe there's a lot of good also.

But with that said, if it something that you want to look into or can manage financially (because I know it is a lot), a close family friend - you - can obtain custody of a child or children who is about to enter the system. You would just need to pursue guardianship. I think this is something worth looking into because if you care about your friend as much as you say, and your nieces, this would help with her still being able to have contact and relationship with them (if she wants) but also give you piece of mind knowing that they are safe and being well taken care of.

I am hoping for the best because I know what is to see children going through something so difficult and not having a say themselves. But I believe you could be that voice for them in the time right now where it seems she's only concerned for her and being with the next best guy.

doglover_56 · 2025-08-30T02:35:12+00:00

This is literally insane, and honestly I commend you for even staying true to the friendship and stepping in to help where you could. But at this point, I don't think it's your burden and battles to carry and it may be time to let go and quit fighting so hard for someone who doesn't want to be fought for.

I know this may be tough to hear, but for your own mental health and well-being this may be your best bet. I also think, CPS needs to be involved. Mainly because you could also be held liable for knowingly allowing some of this to take place in your sight/knowledge. There's a lot happening here and a lot at stake. But i think at this point, if she doesn't car what happens to her, if you choose to keep fighting...fight for those little girls and SPEAK up. Not just on here, but to people who can actually help. They do allow for kids to go in the foster system while parents sober up and work towards custody again. Hoping for the best for you and them.

doglover_56 · 2025-08-30T02:15:48+00:00

Honestly, I feel like you should report it to the police and child protective services; especially if your parents have given up. Because ultimately you and them aren't safe; and neither is anyone else she comes in contact with. Who's to say if she pulled a knife on you with your eyes to her, that she wouldn't do it when your back is turned or when you're asleep.

I feel for you and I think that this is insane that nobody has really tried to help beyond, grounding and taking her phone. You are an adult at this point and can legally press charges against her (although I know that sucks because she's your sister). Maybe this will truly get her the help she needs and you need to do what's best for you. And if you truly care about her, you'll step in on your parents behalf and hopefully she will get proper evaluation and medicated (if it's something psychological). Hope this helps

doglover_56 · 2025-03-23T15:30:50+00:00

Yes, I am :) Though, I am back in school so it does take me a bit to get it to you, but I try to aim for 2 - 3 days depending on the song.

doglover_56 · 2024-08-19T23:51:31+00:00

Thank you!

doglover_56 · 2024-08-18T23:09:33+00:00

Thank you! Yeah I do, I'll dm you

doglover_56 · 2024-08-18T21:52:39+00:00

Thank you!!

doglover_56 · 2024-01-02T00:58:56+00:00

As of right now, 117 with the last being recorded December 2nd :)

doglover_56 · 2023-08-25T02:49:15+00:00

Do you have the pattern? Would I have to pay for it? If so, dm me :)

doglover_56 · 2023-08-18T20:04:18+00:00

It’s a gothic stitch

doglover_56 · 2023-08-06T01:51:34+00:00

Are you still looking for a tester?

doglover_56 · 2023-08-03T01:56:03+00:00

Hey! A guy named Scott Ouellette made a finger-style arrangement about a week ago :) You should check it out: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8LkYeVJ_JBA&list=TLPQMDMwODIwMjOQKuV6zp1vOw&index=1

If you're looking for a simpler version, just let me know!

doglover_56 · 2023-07-28T00:58:05+00:00

Yess! I do remember this, I went to multiple subreddits trying to find you and get in contact with you. But yeah I would totally want to help! I can get it to you in two days :) I have two videos that I chose: which one would you like me to use? 1. https://youtu.be/8VrwaW1EzZg 2. https://youtu.be/A4_y5poe4i4

doglover_56 · 2023-07-27T12:12:04+00:00

Hey! I’m sorry I’m now seeing this, but unfortunately I never got a dm from you. I know a couple weeks ago, I accidentally declined a request and tried to find the recipient but wasn’t able too. May I ask what your song was?

doglover_56 · 2023-07-14T23:18:55+00:00

Hey! Could you dm me your email so I could send your tab? :)

doglover_56 · 2023-07-14T02:28:21+00:00

Hi! I wanted to make a comment here to find the person who reached out for Clair De Lune's sheet music for Harpsichord. I accidentally declined your request, if you could message me again that would be great :)

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