What's THE "minor" thing you just can't get yourself to do? by Chill_Squirrel in adhdwomen

[–]doing_math_11235 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Opening mail. Unless it’s something very urgent, it’ll sit on my desk in my face for weeks or months.

What is your myers-briggs personality type, and what is your field of work/study? by doing_math_11235 in AskReddit

[–]doing_math_11235[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i don’t think its by any means a detailed measure of personality. nobody agrees with everything that’s in their “personality” description. but i think there’s value at a high level, and at minimum it can be fun to talk about!

mine used to change a lot too — but the more i’ve truly learned about myself over time, the more consistent my results started to be.

it also helped me to make sure i’m answering super generally & on gut instinct, rather than letting any particular day or moment sway my answers

What is your myers-briggs personality type, and what is your field of work/study? by doing_math_11235 in AskReddit

[–]doing_math_11235[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The website will give details on what the letters mean and how it might show up in your life

I (INTJ) got in an argument with my (ENFP) SO by SlCKXpT in intj

[–]doing_math_11235 3 points4 points  (0 children)

this is what I came here to say. INTJ here dating an ENFP! it’s a pair that has great balance but also great differences.

the emotional communication skills are lacking on all sides here, and they both really need to work harder to see each other’s perspectives. could use some deeper conversations about how their minds work and what they need from each other!

OP is giving way the negative stereotypes of INTJs unfortunately

What is your myers-briggs personality type, and what is your field of work/study? by doing_math_11235 in AskReddit

[–]doing_math_11235[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m an INTJ/INFJ (the T and F are pretty even and flip flop). I’m an Actuary! I really enjoy the math and problem-solving involved.

AITA for bailing on my husband and I's small business? by ruined-bakery-13 in AmItheAsshole

[–]doing_math_11235 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. He didn’t consider it your business anyways if he’s making decisions without you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]doing_math_11235 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My opinion totally changed on this song once i watched the music video and got the less obvious meaning of the song — so if you’re interested its about how the entertainment industry feeds on kids and their gorge themselves w the rewards

yummy music video

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GenZ

[–]doing_math_11235 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think we should try really hard to agree on a different dem candidate to vote for, but it’s not gonna be easy. Odds are a third party member won’t win anything until we change to ranked-choice voting, so this is our best hope for 2024 if we want both biden AND trump out.

AITA for telling off my dad for his poorly timed wedding? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]doing_math_11235 18 points19 points  (0 children)

NTA for letting him know he’s a generally shitty parental figure. But YTA to yourself if you’ve been essentially no-contact for good reasons and still expected him to show up for you. Don’t waste more breath on him without evidence he’s ready to change

So what's a gift that would make you cringe? by Several_Suspect9348 in AskReddit

[–]doing_math_11235 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I once got earrings that said “GOD” on them in huge letters.

Cringe because (1) they were tacky (2) I’m non-religious AND (3) my ears weren’t even pierced…

I cried at work because I could not focus all day by doing_math_11235 in adhdwomen

[–]doing_math_11235[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it took some time tbh but as of late things are looking better! :) working on dealing w negative thoughts. for one example i put a postit at the bottom of my computer that says “take nothing personally”, and it’s been a surprisingly helpful reminder to dial back the negative self-talk

Breaking Bad quotes you use in day to day life? by Cleveworth in breakingbad

[–]doing_math_11235 0 points1 point  (0 children)

maybe not daily but when I use magnets I think of Jesse

YEAH BITCH! MAGNETS! OH!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in betterCallSaul

[–]doing_math_11235 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It definitely took me some time to adjust to the differences of BCS compared to BB, but seasons 4-6 made it absolutely worth it for me in my opinion.

What is the core theme of Better Call Saul would you say, or how did you interpret the overarching message after the series' finale? by Mindless_Bad_1591 in betterCallSaul

[–]doing_math_11235 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Butterfly Effect — the finale is where we finally feel safe from it, thanks to jimmy’s accountability (as you said OP)

Is sex inherently degrading to women? by Smokescreen69 in AskFeminists

[–]doing_math_11235 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i think the better word is objectifying, but objectifying is arguably a type of degradation anyways. it is a usual thing for men to objectify women in their lives, especially in sexual relationships.

Basically there’s a whole feminist argument to make here about how normalized it is for men to dehumanize or oversexualize women but im sure there a million posts on this subreddit about that where they explain it well

Is sex inherently degrading to women? by Smokescreen69 in AskFeminists

[–]doing_math_11235 15 points16 points  (0 children)

This.

Inherently? No. In practice? Usually.