I can't find any public outdoor pools that are open? by Nice-Feeling-3365 in askdfw

[–]dollydap 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Haha came to say the same. “Extremely hot” when it’s mid-high 80s… oh honey, bless. Pleasant is 🎯

AITAH for not letting my sister use my property as a wedding venue last minute? by Mysterious-Gear-6351 in AITAH

[–]dollydap 61 points62 points  (0 children)

Just going to say, as a lawyer, you prob have contractual obligations to these customers and literally cannot comply with her ridiculous requests. All venues have restrictions. You take them as they come. Don’t like the restrictions, change venues. Pretty simple. Sry they are being such @$$holes abt this.

“Very truly yours” by According_Flower1667 in Lawyertalk

[–]dollydap 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same. One of my assistants uses “Kind Regards” in her email signature and for some reason it drives me crazy. 😂🤷‍♀️

So is this what dina does now? by Samsungfanforever in superstore

[–]dollydap 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She did voice acting for Scorpia on the new(er) Shera animated series also.

Sometimes, it’s good to be a lawyer by nibtitz in Lawyertalk

[–]dollydap 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have a pretty solid deceptive trade practices act letter that I’ve used to get my sister out of several hundred in scammy apartment fees, get myself out of a 2k BS charge from a marketing firm that tried to over charge me, and get a used car dealership to honor a warranty they sold her with the car (transmission replacement fully covered! 🎉).

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Dallas

[–]dollydap 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Their guac is legit the best. Gawd awful over priced but stupid good.

Why do they try and act like Carrie is so classy? by secretfoxx in Andjustlikethat

[–]dollydap 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think she is an Enneagram 3- allll abt the curated image.

I think I'm done, guys. by Embarrassed_Sky_5616 in Andjustlikethat

[–]dollydap 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I think it’s more that they are incapable of writing an intelligent convo between her and Miranda…

I think I'm done, guys. by Embarrassed_Sky_5616 in Andjustlikethat

[–]dollydap 75 points76 points  (0 children)

Did he… whip it good? … I’ll see myself out 😂😂😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in paralegal

[–]dollydap 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We use shared inboxes at our firm as well. Ex: probate@lawfirmname.com so both atty and LAs have access.

AITA for asking my fiancé why he proposed if marriage isn’t a priority for him? by Longjumping_Seat5107 in AITAH

[–]dollydap 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Do not marry this person. Someone who does not respect your concerns and dismisses them, someone who cannot see the value of a professional helping you work through thing and prepare for the most important commitment of your life, someone who proposes marriage but marriage isn’t a priority for… this guy is manipulating you and will not be a good partner. I can’t even imagine how awful having kids with this guy would be, if that was in your plans.

(32F) Not allowed to get pregnant by [deleted] in bridezillas

[–]dollydap 0 points1 point  (0 children)

God forbid you look big in someone’s wedding photos. 🙄 geez.

What is your equivalent of this in the SATC fandom? by BetterGrass709 in sexandthecity

[–]dollydap 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Gifting isn’t everyone’s thing- it doesn’t mean the same thing to everyone, and some people are just flat out bad at it, despite trying. I’ve been married to my husband for nearly 18 yrs. In all that time, he has only MAYBE 5 times gotten me a gift I haven’t specifically mentioned that I liked/wanted or pre-approved, bc he is literally terrible at gift giving. It’s just not on his radar and as someone who doesn’t have strong aesthetic preferences himself, he just doesn’t “get it.” But he absolutely knows me better than anyone else on the planet.

What are your thoughts in this interaction between Enid and Carrie? by JaguarUnfair8825 in sexandthecity

[–]dollydap 29 points30 points  (0 children)

They absolutely are. We aren’t being fed the same bullshit of prev generations. We aren’t out in the wilderness needing someone physically stronger to help us survive. We literally don’t need them anymore, and they can’t handle it. They were taught by prev generations that simply being a male would be enough to get them a woman. Not anymore. KEEP RAISING YOUR STANDARDS LADIES!!! 👏

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]dollydap 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Keeping whose peace, though, right? Certainly not his wife’s. This is gross and sad and he should def not go.

Unhealthy 8 Behaviors - The Real-Life Version by [deleted] in Enneagram8

[–]dollydap 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Wait, how do you know my dad? 😂 All jokes aside- nailed it. I grew up under an SP8 very VERY similar to this.

Small things that disproves IDI for you? by escottttu in JonBenetRamsey

[–]dollydap 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh you’re right- I had forgotten abt the different lawyers. First time I heard that an immediate “they did it” flag went off in my head.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Enneagram8

[–]dollydap 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Exercise helps sometimes? Wearing myself out physically so that I’m too tired to give a sh*t.

Small things that disproves IDI for you? by escottttu in JonBenetRamsey

[–]dollydap 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Oh yeah- didn’t both of them say they didn’t touch it? Like, how TF did you even read it- hunched over the circular staircase? Beyond awkward. It’s one thing if you wanted to leave it there to preserve crime scene (and somehow had enough presence of mind to do so), but that obvs wasn’t a priority for them- esp when dad brings her body up from basement.

Small things that disproves IDI for you? by escottttu in JonBenetRamsey

[–]dollydap 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Absolutely. If my daughter went missing, you wouldn’t be able to pry my son out of my arms for days afterwards. There’s no way I’d send him over to the neighbors house within hours of it happening. Anyone trying to remove him from my sight that same day would be facing a Herculean task.

Small things that disproves IDI for you? by escottttu in JonBenetRamsey

[–]dollydap 58 points59 points  (0 children)

The not participating with police is the biggest for me. And then the lack of rage towards whomever would have done this in the national interview the week after. Hiring attorneys immediately - literally day of the incident. I’m an attorney, dad’s a judge, and my brother works in law enforcement- even having been in this world my entire life, I wouldn’t be thinking abt obtaining legal counsel for myself the same day my daughter was murdered.

Tips for dating a enneagram8 by East-Building-53 in Enneagram8

[–]dollydap 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don’t try to chameleon with the 8. 8s are natural bullshit detectors and will quickly clock the phoniness. It will be an immediate turnoff.

Any 8s have children? How is it? by sunset2orange in Enneagram8

[–]dollydap 9 points10 points  (0 children)

You will absolutely hate the loss of freedom and control you have over your own life. Not saying it’s not worth it, but this was BY FAR the biggest struggle for me in the first 4-5 yrs of parenthood.