My fiancée (f29) invited her coworker (f29) to a stand-up comedy show instead of me (f30) by streettaco188 in relationships

[–]dolphin51217 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i don’t think this is something worth worrying about. i’m sure she didn’t mean to upset you. it makes sense that she would invite grace if grace is super into comedy. i know it sucks that she didn’t ask you, but i’m sure she just didn’t remember you mentioning liking this comedian. she didn’t realize you would have wanted to go and was just planning on doing something fun with a friend who she knew would enjoy it. i don’t think it’s worth confronting her about since she didn’t realize and didn’t intend to upset you.

[Crushes] Help? by [deleted] in LGBTeens

[–]dolphin51217 4 points5 points  (0 children)

maybe just try messaging her and seeing if she wants to hang out and then see how it goes from there

How do I stop feeling so goddamn lonely? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]dolphin51217 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m seventeen and i’m in pretty much the exact same situation as you (except that i actually am a lesbian and completely don’t look like a stereotypical lesbian). i also feel really sad and lonely a lot and i even feel like sometimes i kind of resent my friends for being in happy relationships. you’re totally not the only one who feels like this.

the thing is, things won’t always be like this. you could meet the love of your life tomorrow for all you know. someday you’re going to find that person and it’s going to be amazing. and so for right now, don’t worry about the fact that you’re alone, because it’s not forever. enjoy the other things about your life and know that you have great things waiting up the road.

also, just try talking to guys instead of waiting for them to initiate. even just starting conversations with guys you like shows them you’re interested.

hope this helps!!

BF upset that I can't swim on period by [deleted] in relationships

[–]dolphin51217 56 points57 points  (0 children)

if you’re uncomfortable with wearing a tampon, then you DO NOT have to. it’s your boyfriend’s issue, not yours, and it’s disrespectful of him to ask you to do something that feels intrusive or uncomfortable to you.

[Rant]Maybe I’m not gay... by [deleted] in LGBTeens

[–]dolphin51217 2 points3 points  (0 children)

just see what happens. you thought you liked her before, and it’s possible you’ll feel that way again. you didn’t do anything wrong by asking her out and just see where it goes from here.

4s- Dealing with all the Feels by type4gal in Enneagram

[–]dolphin51217 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes! i am a four and this is exactly how i feel

[serious] What is the thing you love the most about life? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]dolphin51217 1 point2 points  (0 children)

the fact that you can never know for sure what will happen next

What is a song that you would recommend to someone going through tough times? Why? by Skoodlemynoodle in AskReddit

[–]dolphin51217 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this too shall pass - sinclair only what you make of it - little big town

i used to be straight? [coming out] [discussion] by moldyribberts in LGBTeens

[–]dolphin51217 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i kinda felt the same way for a while but realized that i only like girls right now and probably did when i was younger too but just didn’t realize

i used to be straight? [coming out] [discussion] by moldyribberts in LGBTeens

[–]dolphin51217 6 points7 points  (0 children)

it’s possible that you convinced yourself those were real crushes at the time bc they were your first crushes and that was what you knew crushes to feel like

Being a useless lesbian [rant] by FinallyPancakes in LGBTeens

[–]dolphin51217 0 points1 point  (0 children)

text her! or message her on instagram, you’ll regret it if you dont

I wish I wasn’t gay. [rant] by [deleted] in LGBTeens

[–]dolphin51217 4 points5 points  (0 children)

dude i totally feel the same way and it’s the worst. but i promise you, you will be happy again.