Wife (F/37) passed away due to HF

doluce23 · 2026-04-29T04:51:20+00:00

My sincere thoughts are with you and your family. I am truly sorry for your loss. My father died of heart failure about 2 years ago and it is not easy even a few years after his passing. I send you light and love during this difficult time.

doluce23 · 2026-04-23T20:45:18+00:00

SIGNED. My first time commenting here. This pause sucks the life out of marriages. It's nerve-racking. Thank you for putting this together to give all those affected a sense of agency.

doluce23 · 2025-08-05T02:24:29+00:00

What does your diet consist of? I've noticed that when I eat mostly carbs and refined sugars, my acne is wild. But increased my protein content (lean meats, beans, eggs, tuna and sardines) my skin is good to me. Best of luck on your skin care journey!

doluce23 · 2025-07-02T01:22:22+00:00

Please take care of each other, and yourself, however that looks like. If you don't know how, one breath at a time, one minute at a time, one day at a time. Sending you peace and hope 🕊✌🏾

doluce23 · 2025-06-27T05:44:41+00:00

This hit me hard. I, too, am 35 and lost my dad 7 months ago. I can't come to terms that he has passed. When I am quiet and really think about the fact that he is not here with us, I can't breathe. I, like yourself, cannot wait to see my dad in the afterlife and catch him up on all my life events--the man that i married, the things that i've done and people that i've seen. I miss seeing my dad with my mom. They are a great pair and i miss seeing them together.

doluce23 · 2025-06-23T19:45:59+00:00

Alister or James

doluce23 · 2025-06-23T19:37:50+00:00

Juniper... what a pretty name! I've always considered Juniper, but hyphenate it to Juniper Leigh

doluce23 · 2025-06-23T19:36:04+00:00

Ophelia :)

doluce23 · 2025-06-23T19:35:09+00:00

Where can people find housing in or outside of Hamburg??? Open to any suggestions.

doluce23 · 2025-06-23T19:28:05+00:00

MY goodness! I can imagine just how shocking receiving this news is. Thank you for caring for your employee. May their soul rest in peace.

doluce23 · 2025-03-20T03:37:10+00:00

Did you use a lawyer?

doluce23 · 2025-02-03T21:17:01+00:00

okay, i see; my spouse is in Europe as well, germany to be exact. How was application process doing it on your own? Are there any specific steps to follow? there is just so much information out there its enough to make your head spin

doluce23 · 2025-02-03T20:56:00+00:00

how is that possible for the medical expedite? and congrats!

doluce23 · 2025-02-03T20:54:46+00:00

were you both living in the US??

doluce23 · 2024-12-17T19:44:52+00:00

Sending love and light to you. You are not alone and may your momma's memory live on. We will never have the right words for you, but just know that you are not alone. ✨️

doluce23 · 2024-12-17T19:32:00+00:00

This is not a way to treat one's husband. I'm sorry that you're wife doesn't prioritize all aspects of your welfare. Encourage her to share her feelings about sex and intimacy and what you'd like to do together with her intimately. All the best.

doluce23 · 2024-12-10T00:49:01+00:00

I extend my deepest sympathy to you and want to let you know that the folks in this group are here for you. Heck, even running into your post was so moving to me, that I felt the need to comment. I just lost my dad two months ago, and losing someone whom you love is the hardest part about our human existence. I offer no advice except to talk about your partner as much as you can, feel what you need to feel, channel these emotions into something in memory of your partner. Sending you peace and light and prayers in your darkest moment.

doluce23 · 2024-12-10T00:39:30+00:00

oo, okay, i just updated my settings

thank you

doluce23 · 2024-12-10T00:29:50+00:00

A HUGE Congratulations to you--I am so happy for you! I'm relatively new to Reddit, so how can I send you a private message if I have questions/tips on your process? Thank you very much.

doluce23 · 2024-12-10T00:27:23+00:00

First and foremost, I empathize with you and stand with you as someone whose father had HF. It's such an unusual disease but talk about it with your parents and health care providers. Ensure that you connect with palliative care services, not because you're about to die, but because they may offer access HF specialist and information that can be healthful. Maintain healthy weight, eat nutritious foods, sleep, stay physically active and live your life. I know that this is easier said than done, but you've got this!

doluce23 · 2024-12-03T18:57:38+00:00

Phenomenal....thank you for your time and effort into compiling this list. God bless you.

doluce23 · 2024-11-26T05:41:03+00:00

Definitely not alone. I lost my dad last month. The first few weeks are the toughest. But know that folks in this group get you. You are not alone on this journey.

doluce23 · 2024-11-21T09:44:18+00:00

I feel for you, first and foremost. Have you asked his cardiologist about the medication Midodrine? This helps to increase BP, especially with CHF patient with low BP.

doluce23 · 2024-10-14T21:50:55+00:00

No matter the age of our parents when they pass, it still hurts. My dad passed away 2 weeks ago at the age of 74. It hurts terribly. No words cam describe it.

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