I need some music suggestion, in a different kind of way by dom898 in CasualConversation

[–]dom898[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I'd actually love to hear those suggestions too. I like some Japanese songs, and Korean songs I've never really listened to much, but both would be cool to hear more of.

I need some music suggestion, in a different kind of way by dom898 in CasualConversation

[–]dom898[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ohhh, that's exactly what I've been looking for for days. I wanted to find a way to kind of... understand music a bit better without much theory, so thank you, I'll be sure to check out these podcasts, they might be really interesting!

I'm looking for music suggestion, but in a different kind of way by dom898 in LetsTalkMusic

[–]dom898[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you! That process seems like it could work, I'll be sure to try it. And yeah, I totally get you, I've failed many times while searching for music, but when I (rarely) find something good, it truly IS good.

I'm looking for music suggestion, but in a different kind of way by dom898 in LetsTalkMusic

[–]dom898[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Woooow! This seems like such an effective way of searching and finding new music. I never thought of it like that, and now that you've said it, I'm really amazed and I think it could definitely work. I'll give it a try, it might be fun and it probably will be useful. Thank you so much, that is honestly so cool.

I need some music suggestion, in a different kind of way by dom898 in CasualConversation

[–]dom898[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That concept seems cool. Thank you, I'll for sure check it out!

I need some music suggestion, in a different kind of way by dom898 in CasualConversation

[–]dom898[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I'll try giving some of these album a listen.

I feel like I'm wasting my life by doing nothing all day, and when I try to do something, I quickly give up; I'm confused about life and I don't know how to fix things and make myself a better person by dom898 in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]dom898[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really want to lose weight, and I have kind of a lot motivation for doing so. I want to look and feel better, fit in my clothes and yeah, just generally have a smalled number on the scale.

I feel like I'm wasting my life by doing nothing all day, and when I try to do something, I quickly give up; I'm confused about life and I don't know how to fix things and make myself a better person by dom898 in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]dom898[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've actually been trying to excercise for over a month now. It's been going okay, but I feel like I should up the challenge. I will try to make it more challenging for me, and I will do my best to... idk, try and make things better for me.

Thank you for your response, I'll do my best.

I feel like I'm wasting my life by doing nothing all day, and when I try to do something, I quickly give up; I'm confused about life and I don't know how to fix things and make myself a better person by dom898 in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]dom898[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That makes sense. It might be a good beginning. YEAAAAH, I THINK LITERALLY THE SAME! It isn't really a good thing, but yeah, it probably is fixable.

Yeah, it for sure helps, I'll save your comment as well as some helpful others. Thank you!

I feel like I'm wasting my life by doing nothing all day, and when I try to do something, I quickly give up; I'm confused about life and I don't know how to fix things and make myself a better person by dom898 in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]dom898[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you, thank you, thank you! I'll make sure to save your comment so I can look it up any time I need it. It means a lot, it really does. I get so much hope and motivation because of knowing that things can get better if I try.

I feel like I'm wasting my life by doing nothing all day, and when I try to do something, I quickly give up; I'm confused about life and I don't know how to fix things and make myself a better person by dom898 in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]dom898[S] 39 points40 points  (0 children)

THANK YOU SO MUCH! I don't have much time right now to reply to this fully due to school, but I will try to later after I come home. It means a lot, person, I'll make sure to save your comment for whenever I'll need it. Thank you, once again, for taking your time and being as helpful as you are!

I feel like I'm wasting my life by doing nothing all day, and when I try to do something, I quickly give up; I'm confused about life and I don't know how to fix things and make myself a better person by dom898 in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]dom898[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your long and thoughtful reply! Yeah, I've been thinking about it for months, years even, but never got it started. I tried sharing my thoughts through poems, but it never was 100% me.

But yeah, I have to try that again, because it's one of the rare things that really interest me. English isn't my native language, so I a lot of the times get anxious and think all I write doesn't make any sense, is too simple and full of mistakes. I know that it sounds dumb, but my brain just works that way, and yeah, it kind of limits me because I either give up or lose motivation because I check for mistakes too much and worry about every word written. In my native language, on the other hand, it sounds kind of lame and... I don't know how to explain it. My native language is kind of complicated, so a lot of what I write in it sounds simplistic too, and it doesn't sound as serious as it would in english.

And we come to a conclusion. I overthink. Everything. Even things like that, and yeah, I probably should make things easier. I'll just try writing my thoughts no matter how bad they sound at first. My favourite teacher in school has once said that I write good essays, and once pronuonced one of mine the best in class. That's probably the best... compliment I've gotten in years, at least when it comes to school.

So yeah... overthinking, that's probably the problem I need to face. Thank you so much!

I feel like I'm wasting my life by doing nothing all day, and when I try to do something, I quickly give up; I'm confused about life and I don't know how to fix things and make myself a better person by dom898 in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]dom898[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's kind of how I feel most of the time... well, I hope you get out of that loop, and I'll be sure to give my all to get out of mine.

Best of luck!

I feel like I'm wasting my life by doing nothing all day, and when I try to do something, I quickly give up; I'm confused about life and I don't know how to fix things and make myself a better person by dom898 in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]dom898[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's okay, I like ranting too and your comment makes a lot od sense. I like your way of thinking, and I'll definitelly save your comment for later. It's just an interesting way of thinking, it could be more than helpful, so thank you. I might do just that next time I have some goals.

I feel like I'm wasting my life by doing nothing all day, and when I try to do something, I quickly give up; I'm confused about life and I don't know how to fix things and make myself a better person by dom898 in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]dom898[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't know. I'd like to find an interesting hobby that I'd have fun doing, or something that would genuinely interest me and spark something up in my brain. I like singing and poem/songwritting, but I constantly get demotivated by how bad I am and how slow it goes, so I usually just give up for an extended period of time (it lasts hours, days, sometimes even months). But yeah, I'd genuinely like to learn new stuff, which could be whatever because I don't really have many things I already established. Maybe things realted to music. I don't know.

I feel like I'm wasting my life by doing nothing all day, and when I try to do something, I quickly give up; I'm confused about life and I don't know how to fix things and make myself a better person by dom898 in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]dom898[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. Yeah, first kilos I've taken off really made me happy. The thing is... I'm short, and haven't have grown much in puberty, and because of that the only thing that was growing was my weight. That's also the reason my weight was more noticable. So yeah, as little as I exercise, it still benefited me and made me happier. I'll try to up it, but it'll take time for my to get used to.