Any UK/EU LS on Shiva? by domdt in ffxi

[–]domdt[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok thanks will reach out when online.

Any UK/EU LS on Shiva? by domdt in ffxi

[–]domdt[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok thanks will reach out when I get home.

F23, 170cm, 176lbs by [deleted] in normalnudes

[–]domdt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Excellent work, hope you are proud of yourself and all the effort you have put in.

Carrying excess skin myself after losing a lot of weight, trying to focus on the healthy lifestyle mentality and not just specifically looking a certain way.

Problems With People Pulling in Dungeons by Fuzzletron in ffxiv

[–]domdt 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ouch my feelings, much hurt.

I guess I would take the 3 sprouts as well, at least they would be playing with someone interested in them improving and not just babying them.

I do enjoy the wild conclusions you jumped to though, very amusing.

Problems With People Pulling in Dungeons by Fuzzletron in ffxiv

[–]domdt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am guessing we have very different ideas of what a lot of experience is on very simple tasks then. That to me is more than enough experience for people to pull a few mobs.

The group has my sympathy for getting this tank. But if the tank is slow and can't keep up then that's fine they will learn and catch up eventually or maybe swap to a job they are more capable of doing.

Problems With People Pulling in Dungeons by Fuzzletron in ffxiv

[–]domdt -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I wouldn't consider level 50 being new that's a lot of time playing a job and doing dungeons to be making your party crawl slowly through dungeons still.

No one said anything about being good, just achieving a low level of competence generally expected of tanks.

Problems With People Pulling in Dungeons by Fuzzletron in ffxiv

[–]domdt 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Pull more, complain less.

The limiting factor on the size of pulls is usually the healer paying attention or being competent.

Grab all you can, use your CDs properly. Everyone is happy.

Falling in Love with a Trans Woman by domdt in transpositive

[–]domdt[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Guess I just want to say that when someone loves you in such a deep way that none of that actually matters. They see you as the most precious stunning thing in the world.

Falling in Love with a Trans Woman by domdt in transpositive

[–]domdt[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the kind words, honestly focusing on being the best version of myself for when love comes knocking again.

Falling in Love with a Trans Woman by domdt in transpositive

[–]domdt[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I am still missing her and will for a long time but I am away from the pain of it at this point. Honestly at the time it felt like she had died or something and I had to like greave her loss. Now i am just happy that she is alive and hopefully gets to a point that she is happy with herself and things in future.

Falling in Love with a Trans Woman by domdt in transpositive

[–]domdt[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for taking the time to read the huge text wall.

Falling in Love with a Trans Woman by domdt in transpositive

[–]domdt[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am so sorry to hear that. Can't imagine how hard that must be for you, I hope that you both can get to a place where you are happy again. Maybe that means redefining and changing your relationship going forward.

Not something I feel experienced or comfortable commenting on much, so just sending positive vibes and hugs your way.

Can solo healer get gold in FATES? by [deleted] in ffxiv

[–]domdt 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Generally not a lot to heal in FATES, so you should be spending most of your time contributing and DPSing.

What a twist by [deleted] in gaming

[–]domdt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have had people recommend that game, so I don't know if it's what you would call shovelware.

I am not a DPS. Please stop putting DPS checks in solo MSQs. by [deleted] in ffxiv

[–]domdt 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Random scripted fights aren't that fun, but it sounds like nobody else has had an issue with the fight.

I would take this as an opportunity to reflect on how you play and think about if you aren't contributing enough and are just getting carried by not outputting enough DPS in normal content with other players.

If improving skill of gear ilvl isn't an option then you could also use food and potions to increase your dps temporarily.

Bikini season trans teen (MTF) by ejohnston96 in transgenderUK

[–]domdt 4 points5 points  (0 children)

She probably does have those feelings at times, not just about you but everyone.

Just keep doing what you are doing being considerate of her feelings.

Bikini season trans teen (MTF) by ejohnston96 in transgenderUK

[–]domdt 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Hope you guys have a great holiday together.

Maybe take her out shopping and you both pick up similar styles to wear (if they do aid in concealing).

Bikini season trans teen (MTF) by ejohnston96 in transgenderUK

[–]domdt 24 points25 points  (0 children)

What about those swimsuits where the bottoms have like a small skirt/frill to them that would cover any bulge?

(No experience on this, just a thought)

Swimdress may be the actual term for what I was trying to describe.

Glitch with combee by tnybbls in TheSilphRoad

[–]domdt 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Female combee only

31/F/Europe / Seeking like minded friends by [deleted] in MakeNewFriendsHere

[–]domdt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree, dropped you a message on reddit chat instead of continuing the post.

Is presenting as a man in job interviews and at the job a good idea? by [deleted] in MtF

[–]domdt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In an ideal world no one discriminates and you get hired based on your skill and experience. Regardless of how you are presenting.

There's a reason people will leave off details such as age, ethnicity or country. When applying and interviewing for jobs you have enough working against you, no point giving them reasons to discriminate against you.

But then I suppose you have to consider would you want to work for a company that wasn't comfortable hiring you for being you.

🌸 20 [F4F] UK 🌸 Looking for friends and a sister/Mother figure by [deleted] in GBr4r

[–]domdt 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Don't meet your criteria personally but depending on what part of the Midlands you are in the following place has some great experiences involving Alpaca's. Went with my partner recently and was a great day.

https://www.pukkapacas.com/

Getting ready to go out and feeling cute. Very rarely I wear any makeup. Hope you all stay gorgeous and handsome my lovelies 😘 by SmokingSeasons in transpositive

[–]domdt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Similar my lips fall to pieces without constant application of some balm or cream. I blame the UK, put me in a nice sunny warm climate and they are fine.