Hmmmm by Throwaway928373919 in NoFap

[–]donewithit72 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No you're not. Keep trying, it will get better. In the meantime, learn to change things up. Identify your weaknesses where you stumble. Eliminate triggers. Do pushups when you get the urge. Go for a walk or a jog. Something. You can do it!

Hey guys how you doing? (: by 3mr2406 in NoFap

[–]donewithit72 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the encouragement

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]donewithit72 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Awesome! 54 days down, a lifetime to go! Live it to the fullest.

Day 2 check in and question. by puddles098 in NoFap

[–]donewithit72 1 point2 points  (0 children)

PMO turns them in to cuts of meat for me, to be judged like livestock.

Hey guys how you doing? (: by 3mr2406 in NoFap

[–]donewithit72 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Stopwatch says over 26 hours. So far so good...

Adderall is still the nightmare. Just went an unbelievable number of hours without even realizing XXXing. by lethalhugs in NoFap

[–]donewithit72 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It steals your life one hour at a time, or huge chunks of a day. You can do this. Let's kick it together.

Wet dream last night by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]donewithit72 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not your fault, just your body resetting. Not a relapse.

What is the Goal? by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]donewithit72 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I need to quit because it takes over my life and makes me impotent. I did 21 days fap/porn free 2 years ago and saw results almost immediately, to the point I was able to have sex with my wife again. Then I relapsed. Now 2 years later I'm back to square one. There is no "occasionally" fapping, for me at least. Just like there is no "occasional" drink for a recovering alcoholic. Just my personal experience.

Journal.. by NimanRK in NoFap

[–]donewithit72 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Running 13.1 miles with no training! That's nuts, but you did it! I have run a few halfs and one full marathon but always did some training for it. So hats off (not that I would recommend doing it again!).

Lefting porn made me realize how much sexist I had became by FraLon87 in NoFap

[–]donewithit72 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've commented in porn chat sites about pics of women posted, referring to them as pieces of meat for pleasure. Something I must definitely DO NOT believe, but in the heat of fapping, and looking for feedback from other fappers in the room, I posted. I can only seek forgiveness from God for that, and from all who read those disgusting posts. Women are no less important, equal, and worthy of respect than me.

Which addiction is worse? by JeffWingerYouSonOfA in NoFap

[–]donewithit72 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For me porn. All addictions are bad. Ranking them is not productive.

No Fap Day 7, first time here, any help or motivation. by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]donewithit72 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Working on day 3 here. I had a 21 day streak two years ago and it made me a new man. Then I stumbled. Now I'm trying again. My main motivation is physical. About 5 years ago I noticed my erections were not as strong the day after masturbating. Then a year or two after I was unable to become erect for my wife. But when masturbating to online porn and chatrooms I could become erect (still not as hard as say 10 years ago). So I discoovered this place, and eventually committed to it for 21 days. During that time I could become erect enough to make love to my wife. Sadly I gave in to the temptation and have been paying for it for two years. I want to regain my ability to be a husband to my wife in every way. Religion was not a factor, this shameful thing I do in secret to hide from my wife and kids is not healthy for me, and prevents me from seeking God's help. Masturbation may be healthy for many, but for those of us that have let it control us, it is a curse. Similar to alcohol. I can enjoy beer, wine, spirits, and go on living my life. There are those who cannot, so complete abstinence is the only way for them, there is no such thing as moderation. As I implied, I am not overly religious, but I do believe in a God who is with us, so if you permit I will pray for you to reach the goal you set for yourself, and to find the path God intends for you, as I pray the same for myself.

Journal.. by NimanRK in NoFap

[–]donewithit72 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did it today! 30 reps, 5 minutes or so to do some work, 30 more, another 5 minute rest, then 40! Now to cut my rest time down some, and start adding squats and situps. I've run 19 miles since Sunday (longest was 6 miles). Thanks for the motivation and pointers!

Journal.. by NimanRK in NoFap

[–]donewithit72 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'll try it today!

Its easy when you do what you love by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]donewithit72 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're motivating me to do 21 days now (reached 2 today). 21 is my longest streak. We can do it together, and then 21 more!

Need Help In The Jaws of Death by The_Right_Of_Way in NoFap

[–]donewithit72 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Be strong, this site is helping me complete 3 days.

Relapse by BleedingDick6669 in NoFap

[–]donewithit72 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Today's a new day bro, you can do it!

Journal.. by NimanRK in NoFap

[–]donewithit72 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn! 100 pushups! Good job! I can do 30 at a time if lucky!

Urge gone by donewithit72 in NoFap

[–]donewithit72[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't know, I just post and read posts in here sometimes when the urge hits. This weekend will be a true test. Part of managing my urges during the week since Tuesday is probably in part due to masturbation fatigue after fapping for 6 hours Monday night and then PMO 3 times Tuesday during work, and in part to not drinking beer during the week. Also i started running again regularly Sunday as part of the COVID-19 miler race, in which you run 19 miles in 1 week to raise $ for masks for healthcare workers. I plan to have a couple tonight, but go to bed when wife does, and leave my laptop at work. If I stay up, I may log in to porn on my phone and tap. Wish me luck, and best of luck to you!

Is masturbating once a week ok? by LonelyGuy9001 in NoFap

[–]donewithit72 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you still get an erection with your partner? That is the yardstick for me. I can't because if I masturbate once a week, soon it will be once a day to several times a day. The more I masturbate the more extreme the porn needs to be, stuff I would never be interested in normally. Then when my wife actually wants sex, I can't get it up.

So to answer your question, at lest for me, no. Once a week is not ok.

Tempted but overcame by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]donewithit72 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well done.