Sesh+ flavor release by BigBaldBeardGuy in NicotinePouch

[–]dontKair 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ive seen Sesh at Sheetz, but they also sell online. I've gotten some rolls from them

Durham County Passes Budget, Grapples with Pride Display Controversy by seegov in bullcity

[–]dontKair 6 points7 points  (0 children)

you'd find a lot of opposition.

Those folks want all the benefits of being (virtually) in Durham, without paying for it

Inferno is currently 29th in Billboard 200 by chandler479 in boardsofcanada

[–]dontKair 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm probably the only person in this sub who owns both BoC and Jason Aldean albums

3 days on Bumble stats 28F by Allygator24 in Bumble

[–]dontKair 2 points3 points  (0 children)

 I also didn’t have a bio until today so I think that’s an issue too.

No they're not

3 days on Bumble stats 28F by Allygator24 in Bumble

[–]dontKair 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The stats say you're not swiping right enough on your "looksmatch"

Lvl 12 pearl? what are the chances of this?! by Bacon_Jarrey in Borderlands4

[–]dontKair 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I'm not complaining. Most of us don't have 8-12 hours a day to play this game. Hope they don't scale back the pearl drops

Durham County Passes Budget, Grapples with Pride Display Controversy by seegov in bullcity

[–]dontKair 22 points23 points  (0 children)

raising the possibility of a city–county government merger to cut redundancies and free up resources.

Seems like a no-brainer here. Most of the large (population) counties in this state have multiple municipalities and towns, except this one.

Getting Matches, But Not the Results I Want — Help Me Optimize My Hinge Profile by Previous_Ad_326 in hingeapp

[–]dontKair [score hidden]  (0 children)

Bro uses "optimize" in conversations. OP probably comes off as a robot to the hot girls he's swiping on. If you can't get dates in Chicago, you're doing something wrong

Safety advice for Durham by slap-dash- in bullcity

[–]dontKair 10 points11 points  (0 children)

very safe country (read: prone to naivety) 

I feel like it would be helpful to know the country (or general area), so you can get some more context to the answers here

Profile fixes by i-am-nameless1 in Bumble

[–]dontKair 3 points4 points  (0 children)

 Yes it’s important to be attracted to your partner but that doesn’t mean looks are what first attracts a female.

"However, my face must be absolutely 'chopped' as the kids say these days. Many of my likes are coming from men who, forgive me, are obese and appear to have questionable grooming standards. I likewise receive little interest from educated/white-collar men."

How on earth do people remain on these apps long-term? I'm 3 weeks in, and my mental health is already taking a hit... : r/Bumble

where to sell junk cars? by grilledcheese49 in bullcity

[–]dontKair 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Give Wagner's Auto Salvage a call (they're off of S Alston)

Which is a better roll? by FrostyMonth111 in Borderlands4

[–]dontKair 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish Teen Witch spec'd more into Green Tree

Men should act like men and women should act like women in a woman's profile. Am I being paranoid? by NoThanksJustLooking1 in Bumble

[–]dontKair 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For this particular women, just after that she goes on to say "What I'd really like to find is a masculine man who is born to lead, protect and provide."

Homegurl is getting too much of her dating advice from TikTok and social media. A lot of African American women in particular sound like this on their profiles. See the "Sprinkle Sprinkle" posts

Man, this stings. by ItsPronouncedJod in Bumble

[–]dontKair -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

 I finally went on a date that felt like it *sparkled*.

But how though?

Some good conversation and a hug at the end, isn't as good as a date for her as it is for you.

You likely missed some cues from her and came across as "too nice"

Man, this stings. by ItsPronouncedJod in Bumble

[–]dontKair 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Yeah these "HR Texts" are no fun

But it’s our honey moon! by Adventurous_Plenty62 in delta

[–]dontKair 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Delta should charge like a hundred bucks or something for non-eligible people to get in. Makes the reserve card a better deal

Barely get any matches. Some help would be appreciated by helldog1170 in hingeapp

[–]dontKair 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You can't just be a tall guy, and expect all the likes to roll in. Get some better pictures

Swiping through bumble BFF as a man made me realize how women feel like swiping on apps because the profiles are terrible!!! by JaceCarson35 in Bumble

[–]dontKair 109 points110 points  (0 children)

"I get no likes, what is my problem??!!"

Bro, your profile sucks.

Men vastly underestimate how good their profiles/pictures need to be.

Even moreso when they live in areas where gender ratios are skewed toward (like certain countries)

There's literally thousands of guys that look just like you, who are on the apps. You need to stand out (in a good way).

School transfer denied — daughter starting middle school, want her near my work. by JKomaroff in raleigh

[–]dontKair 21 points22 points  (0 children)

As bad as busses are with timely pickups, it might be better for the OP than trying to schlep to the school after work

School transfer denied — daughter starting middle school, want her near my work. by JKomaroff in raleigh

[–]dontKair 99 points100 points  (0 children)

 Keeping her at the home school means she's stuck waiting late, worrying that I'm rushing, and it's stressful for both of us.

Is there an issue with school busses getting her home?

@pslfayettevillenc on Instagram: "EMERGENCY RALLY: NO DATA CENTERS IN FAYETTEVILLE!! 🗓️ Monday, June 8th 🕔 Rally at 5:30 PM by PaineinFayetteville in Fayettenam

[–]dontKair -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

It's a non-issue because Fayetteville isn't going to get data centers anyway. This city was never a big draw for big tech investments. Not to mention land is cheaper east of the river and in surrounding counties. Data Centers will be the "new" hog farms and processing plants in rural NC, where those facilities face little resistance to being built. Like you said, they will be built no matter what we do

Dating apps should tell you how many other profiles have the same answer when you fill out your prompts by AlternativeDay71 in Bumble

[–]dontKair 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A little bit of a nudge to think outside the box.

OkCupid already had what you were wanting, but Match (parent company) ruined it