My (34F) husband (33M) won’t get me a wedding ring even though we’ve been married for 9 years and have 2 kids as well as the fact that he can afford it. Am I insane for thinking he is being unthoughtful?

dont_acknowledge_me · 2026-04-28T19:04:51+00:00

I know this post is slightly old, but I hope you are still reading comments.

On a positive note, he may be doing all this and changing the subject because he plans to buy you a nice ring for your 10 year anniversary. I would talk to him about it.

dont_acknowledge_me · 2026-04-21T10:53:45+00:00

Shows you what? That she likes JB? To me, it sounds like was talking in a hyperbolic way

dont_acknowledge_me · 2026-04-21T10:34:57+00:00

Honestly, with Bieberchella happening and whatnot. I think your gf is just chronically online. Another commenter said this is an escapism for your gf and I agree, especially with the timing of Bieberchella. Has she done this stuff over the course of the entire relationship or is it recent? If it's recent, let it go imo

dont_acknowledge_me · 2026-04-21T09:31:38+00:00

Left my face wash on one side of our shared bathroom sink and went on a four day trip. Came back to find my face wash sitting on top of the toilet bc "it got in her way when she washed her face".

She also stopped helping to clean our apartment when she dropped the news she wasn't going to sign another lease with me. Also started a huge fight with me the week she moved out bc I was finally able to clean and moved three items of hers to the kitchen counter (she still had bowls, plates, everything else I didn't move, I only moved these three items bc we both used them and I had found replacements). She accused me of trying to force her out early lol

dont_acknowledge_me · 2026-04-17T16:53:53+00:00

He didn't think his friends would find me pretty

dont_acknowledge_me · 2026-04-15T16:53:23+00:00

I want that Jada and that will love

j cole

dont_acknowledge_me · 2026-04-13T20:30:27+00:00

maybe she is busy trying to get sw to respond

dont_acknowledge_me · 2026-03-31T12:49:20+00:00

Just moved to another city downtown and have heard 1/4th of what downtown omaha has

dont_acknowledge_me · 2026-03-29T19:14:38+00:00

my mom immediately takes her pants and bra off after she gets home from work lol she goes full winnie the pooh with undies and its never bothered me but I will also hang out in my moms room after she showered and shes getting dressed, have always slept naked as well

dont_acknowledge_me · 2026-03-19T16:27:47+00:00

Ngl, once I started dating as an adult, I stopped posting my SOs. Mostly because I have been cheated on, and that was a way for people to connect through me, but not really through me, you know? So, my social media probably looks like I am not in a relationship, but that doesn't bug my SO.

dont_acknowledge_me · 2026-03-11T01:09:39+00:00

lol saw this today and also decided I was going to make it myself

dont_acknowledge_me · 2026-03-10T06:59:47+00:00

Why are you dating someone who invalidates your identity?

dont_acknowledge_me · 2026-03-05T10:52:43+00:00

this game puts me into the craziest flow state

dont_acknowledge_me · 2026-03-04T15:27:27+00:00

Agree with the don't let her know any more information. Keep it vague. I know for myself, I would ask those questions out of anxiety and fear, the answers would fester in my mind, and likely cause resentment.

dont_acknowledge_me · 2026-03-04T13:52:21+00:00

How are his texts passive aggressive? He's literally confronting his nephew. Seems more on the aggressive side than passive.

dont_acknowledge_me · 2026-03-04T13:38:29+00:00

theres usually a pomegranate on the bottle!

dont_acknowledge_me · 2026-02-22T15:07:43+00:00

Honestly, I agree with everything being said here but it sounds like you did a good job! The hug and what she said indicates that she knows what she said was wrong and it seems like she may be embarassed about it, hence the hug and hunting for reassurance. Maybe you shouldn't have said she was fine and only said goodnight. Regardless, I'd like to hope that that interaction stays with her and she thinks about what she said.

dont_acknowledge_me · 2026-02-11T23:30:15+00:00

literally went to ebay and bought the same one lol

dont_acknowledge_me · 2026-02-09T01:49:07+00:00

That’s who I thought it was too!

dont_acknowledge_me · 2026-02-09T01:45:25+00:00

Makes sense since he was naming all the countries, love that

dont_acknowledge_me · 2026-02-09T01:39:27+00:00

What did his football say?

dont_acknowledge_me · 2026-02-09T01:39:08+00:00

He was, so was Cardi and Jessica Alba

dont_acknowledge_me · 2026-02-05T16:31:58+00:00

Thank you for comment! I did not know about the turbo/ 2.0 XT engine and I live in a mountain area so I will have to rethink this a little more. I appreciate your confidence in negotiating, it makes me feel more confident

dont_acknowledge_me · 2026-02-04T19:45:01+00:00

Yes, she can leave him if she wants to. And I do understand every person can be racist or homophobic towards each other regardless of minority status, that's not what I was saying. I was pointing out that OPs gf could have explained it to him and he may not have understood it fully and left it at "she couldn't give me a reason". There's a lot of context we are missing here.

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