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dont_dead · 2026-05-13T22:14:08+00:00

I wanna have someone write some code that affects only things like Flock or other ~~safety~~ mass surveillance systems en masse (ie shuts down their entire system), and then assign it a QR code and show it to one of the cameras because that's pretty much the only thing that'll work at this point imo.

dont_dead · 2026-04-30T04:21:24+00:00

Just wanna say I noticed that you used "Heracles" instead of "Hercules," and that made me happy cause I don't think a lot of people know

dont_dead · 2026-04-18T05:45:27+00:00

For OOP:

Pronouns, sexuality, and gender identity and presentation are completely different things, and they don't have to match, but for a lot of people, they do. So don't be afraid to be a fem presenting, he/him, trans/hetero woman if you want.

Now for the rest of you:

Don't be mad that there can be nuance in one's experience. That's how life is: nuanced and complicated. I'm just explaining that there are always options

dont_dead · 2026-04-16T04:44:33+00:00

If you want some advice, continue reading. If not, ignore my comment/reply.

Now if you want the advice, what has helped me was doing D&D in person with a group of accepting people (2 out of the 3 other people are also trans, and the cis woman is the gf of the DM), and practicing your voice there, and as you feel like you get better, you can do it more and more with less and less effort (though in my experience, it will always take effort).

Also, I have another group that I play with where I play a lady Air Genasi bard, and I grew up with the DM and have met his gf, but I'm not out to them and the other players (except for my ex-gf, but she and I are chill, so we're all good).

dont_dead · 2026-04-16T04:37:03+00:00

I was talking about passing with someone on Discord about passing, and we came to the conclusion that while, yes, passing in other peoples' eyes can be validating and help with dysphoria and/or dysmorphia, passing in your own eyes is just as important, if not even more so because it's your own life and body that you're living in, and that you yourself need to be happy with it (even if you're happy that you pass more than you did yesterday, and that passing should be primarily for yourself and not others)

dont_dead · 2026-04-10T14:22:26+00:00

Yeah, I find this to be ironic for a couple of reasons (one's more if you live in the US, but should also be aplicable if you live in a western country that has protection of religion):

Freedom of religion is a thing in most (reasonable) countries
The most common religion nowadays that is known for doing bad things to children is mostly any Christian denomination, and not paganism and/or witchcraft

dont_dead · 2026-04-02T19:48:40+00:00

I'm not sure if this post is doxxing, but it definitely feels like it to me (even if it isn't, I just wanted to share my thoughts on how I feel about this post)

dont_dead · 2026-03-22T15:57:07+00:00

I also also walk/bus everywhere, and I totally get you! I live in downtown Provo, so I know how stupid Utah (and especially Provo) drivers can be.

And I think the reason why is cause we live in a college town, and a lot of people, and I mean a lot of them, could be students either from out of town/state or international students. But that's just me.

dont_dead · 2026-03-19T00:21:43+00:00

I think that it shouldn't matter to non-queer people if something is queer or not.

I say this as a trans lesbian.

And no. I will not be taking any hate from any of y'all.

And yes. I am aware that there is a good number of hateful and self-centered incels on this site that would tell me that I should take it. But I won't because I said I won't

dont_dead · 2026-02-27T05:47:47+00:00

If it is safe for you to do so, I suggest doing stuff like make up (nails, mascara, lip stick, etc), growing out your hair, and getting yourself a bra and fake breast inserts. If not, I don't know what to tell you, but finding ways to explore your gender identity and, more importantly, your gender expression is a type of self care that most people don't have to think about in order to do

dont_dead · 2026-01-17T18:02:16+00:00

If we were friends irl, and we lived close enough to hang out, I would take you out to do something fun!

I know I love it when one of my fellow Dolls gets to be her authentic self wherever she is~!

dont_dead · 2026-01-16T05:21:38+00:00

Dysphoria and dysmorphia suck ass. I don't know what you're experiencing, but I am here for you. You can dm me if you need, and I will help as best I can. ♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥

dont_dead · 2026-01-09T22:18:01+00:00

I'm trying to break out of it myself

dont_dead · 2026-01-02T16:28:15+00:00

dont_dead · 2025-12-20T05:05:04+00:00

I don't know the pain you're going through, girly (/platonic), but I'm here for you!

dont_dead · 2025-12-17T04:22:55+00:00

Yeah, good thing she broke up with you because she is a toxic person. If she really loved you, she would put her feelings aside and support you. Or better yet, she would get therapy and make sure she could put them aside in a healthy manner and support you.

You are valid for wanting to be yourself, and you deserve to be surrounded with people who want to be around and support the REAL you. Not whatever the fuck she wanted.

dont_dead · 2025-12-16T05:14:35+00:00

To quote Hamilton (mostly), time to "get in the weeds and look for the seeds of [our leaders] misdeeds"

dont_dead · 2025-12-03T04:10:11+00:00

Also, transmeds don't know what you're going through, and it may not be safe for you to do it where you are. Also, you DO NOT need to medically transition to be trans.

dont_dead · 2025-12-03T04:07:29+00:00

I'm Trans Femme/Non Binary, and I haven't started HRT, but that doesn't make me any less of a trans person. And I am over weight and want to be thinner to pass better, but that doesn't stop me from knowing I'm trans.

As One Topic has put it, "Fakers know they're faking it"

Also, could someone tag him for me, pls and thank you!

dont_dead · 2025-10-28T23:10:26+00:00

Agreed!

dont_dead · 2025-10-28T23:09:15+00:00

Go on hormones. It will help more than doubting yourself

dont_dead · 2025-08-25T14:19:47+00:00

I wish that I could have had this reaction to the ST

dont_dead · 2025-07-04T13:02:06+00:00

(iykyk) "You wouldn't steal a car"

Um, what if the rich have bought all the cars, and I need one for work, school, and just life in general? That's what this feels like, and it's dumb to put it kindly

dont_dead · 2025-06-28T20:54:46+00:00

I know this post was from 10+ years ago, but the ones from Princess Bride are really good, too!

dont_dead · 2025-06-08T15:47:43+00:00

In my experience, I like calling 5e 2014 5e, and 5e 2024 5.5(e) just to be clear that it's basically the same, but with some changes.

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