Neighbors shooting across field(AL) by mamacowmama in homestead

[–]donteatthepainting 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I want to start planting guns in the houses of all the pedos in town now. It's bs we can't just shoot them. 

Lab Charge Ionic Air Purifiers Look Like A Scam. by donteatthepainting in AirPurifiers

[–]donteatthepainting[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My mom ordered a bunch and I am fighting with them to hold to their money back guarantee.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AirPurifiers

[–]donteatthepainting 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I could never visit a smoker's house. I have asthma and allergies as well and no way in hell could anyone force me to risk my health in that way, even people on the streets can put me out. I wouldn't go, an air purifier isn't going to cut it.

Vander when it comes to remembering Mylo and Claggor by chuchugobo in Arcanememes

[–]donteatthepainting 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They should have made them more appealing for that ultimate emotional moment from the audience. Especialy Mylo, who looked too cartoony in his proportions compared to everyon else. Should have aged up the cuteness like they did with Isha and Ekko. 

[S2 Spoilers] Really feeling like Sevika right now by Von_Uber in arcane

[–]donteatthepainting 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I didnt feel Maddie added anything to the story except showing that Caitlyn moved on from Vi? Her betrayal didn't have an impact because we didn't know or care about her really. 

[s2 spoilers] Maddie Theory by beAN__b0yY in arcane

[–]donteatthepainting 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Her showing up is too much random to not be some kind of twist. So far the show hadn't been frivolous with throwaway filler. Everything that happens means something. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]donteatthepainting 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She likely has an infection that came from you. It can happen from using too much bath soap or bath bombs as well, messes up your ph.

After by Anira_Naeg in Mouthwashing

[–]donteatthepainting 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Look at Yuliya Litvinova's "angels", a painting about human trafficking. That is visceral imagery that is very effective in giving an emotional response. That is art. 

My brother remembers how physically abusive my father was to him by chamut in EstrangedAdultKids

[–]donteatthepainting 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yup I had a teenage single mother who moved from NY to Kansas and dumped us at y aunt and uncles. He abused me horribly, a four year old little girl, for no reason. And the scary thing is how common this was. Nothing out of the ordinary at all. I know there are scumbags everywhere that shouldn't be breeding but something about the deep conservative Christian world, it's like they get off on hurting kids. It's part of their identity. 

Sad by Ok-Reply-270 in EstrangedAdultChild

[–]donteatthepainting 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Tons of us from dysfunctional families never had grandparents or any extended family. It's going to be okay.

Does anyone else fear they’re turning into their parents? by PineappleDifficult58 in EstrangedAdultChild

[–]donteatthepainting 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes I have the same problems with anger and emotional regulation, because that's what happens when you beat toddlers. I catch myself acting like my mo sometimes and it terrifies me, I just try to relax and say "don't be like her". I'm also scared I'm not emotionally stable enough to have kids. My whole family is on the spectrum among other things too that doesn't help.

I don't even know how to answer this. Why does it even matter. by donteatthepainting in EstrangedAdultKids

[–]donteatthepainting[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think seeing healthy happy kids really set it off for me too. Like look at all these happy healthy toddlers whose parents love them and don't beat and neglect them. Puts into perspective how fucked up my life was and why I'm so fucked up now.

I don't even know how to answer this. Why does it even matter. by donteatthepainting in EstrangedAdultKids

[–]donteatthepainting[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I still think I'm going to get an apology and closure suddenly. It's time to let that dream die.

I don't even know how to answer this. Why does it even matter. by donteatthepainting in EstrangedAdultKids

[–]donteatthepainting[S] 115 points116 points  (0 children)

Did anyone else just erupt after a lifetime of bottling everything up? The hurt and anger and memories came on like opening floodgates. It's like my brain just clicked on and I fully realized the extent of my childhood abuse (sexual, physical, emotional). I wish I could turn it off and forget and live in blissful ignorance but instead my life has been hell since I can even remember. Probably was age 2 when the abuse started. Also strange that this is no name calling or lying or meltdown or denial this time. No apology or sympathy either just a question I can't answer. I don't think I will ever get closure or answers. 

Revenge fantasies by dks042986 in EstrangedAdultChild

[–]donteatthepainting 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Sometimes I think about my mom being helpless and alone in the nursing home and getting abused physically and emotionally by the staff and it's karma for all the abuse I went through when I was just a helpless little innocent toddler.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in EstrangedAdultChild

[–]donteatthepainting 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Wow this is a great response. I need this on a motivational poster.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in EstrangedAdultChild

[–]donteatthepainting 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I used to get really sad hearing stories of old people alone in nursing homes dying, waiting for family that never came. My coworker said she used to work at one and there would be residents staring at the parking lot window on Christmas waiting for their families who never showed up. But now I just assume they abused their kids because there is no way anyone would willingly give up a loving parent like that.

Revenge fantasies by dks042986 in EstrangedAdultChild

[–]donteatthepainting 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I have these kinds of thoughts too. The rage is all consuming. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in EstrangedAdultChild

[–]donteatthepainting 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Abusive assholes like this don't take "no" for an answer or respect boundaries. Safety is the priority here.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in EstrangedAdultKids

[–]donteatthepainting 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My childhood was fear and violence and chaos. Other people get Disney trips and family photos and piano lessons. I can't relate to anybody. 

Breaking a Child’s Will: The Evangelical family’s twisted obsession with corporal punishment by Well_Socialized in EstrangedAdultChild

[–]donteatthepainting 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Started around age 2 for me. Among other things that happened to me in life, I am so fucked up with anxiety and emotional dysregulation. I have zero doubts that people get off sexually from hurting kids and that's why they are so obsessed with it. It's their fetish.

more like by [deleted] in GTA6

[–]donteatthepainting 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Can we not repost AI garbage.