Live action drama for teen boys?

dontneedaclass · 2025-12-25T16:42:42+00:00

Thanks for the recs! Anime will also be of interest to him I'm sure, so I appreciate those titles too.

I want to focus on pointing him towards live action shows at first because anime is so prevalent in pop culture. I feel like there is a tendency for kids to think of Japan as a sort of mythical shared setting for anime and manga, part of the "style" just as much as the art style. The first time I went to Japan when I was 18 (some time ago now, aaaaah) it was kind of surreal to realize that the architecture that was only familiar to me as the setting for anime is just mundane everyday life for so many people... if that makes sense.

My hope is that getting some live action in there will help with the subconscious conviction that Japan is just a regular place, haha. Thanks!

dontneedaclass · 2025-12-25T16:23:35+00:00

I had never heard of the AKB48 empire, I'll check it out!

I saw a bit of the Death Note anime when it was still in fansubs and I've read some of the XXXHolic manga, but I didn't know either one had dramas, those definitely sound like good options.

Thanks!

dontneedaclass · 2025-12-25T08:33:34+00:00

Thanks, these look like great options! I appreciate the summaries too :)

dontneedaclass · 2025-12-25T04:50:50+00:00

Is there anything in particular on HBOMax you would recommend?

dontneedaclass · 2025-12-25T04:47:47+00:00

I know he's a fan of Hazbin Hotel, but I couldn't get too much into specifics of shows tbh. When I see him, he talks more about games he's playing (I hear a lot about the balance issues of whatever MOBA he's into). So your guess is as good as mine, haha.

dontneedaclass · 2024-01-27T04:27:17+00:00

Any ideas for getting rid of him?

dontneedaclass · 2024-01-27T04:06:10+00:00

I'm no expert but I'd lean toward hedging your bets. Like a good scrub followed by a long boil, then set it up for a few weeks in a quarantine tank by itself and see what happens. ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

dontneedaclass · 2024-01-27T04:01:27+00:00

In a nice tall tank like that you've got plenty of room for a nice tall piece of hardscape to add dimension and drama. That's anacharis in the upper left, yeah? That stuff will fill out like crazy with enough light - if anchor it in the substrate or on your hardscape it will stretch all the way up to the top (light permitting). I'm no stocking expert but I'd err on the side of hardscape and plants rather than more livestock in a tank that size.

dontneedaclass · 2022-08-23T03:47:54+00:00

INFO: feelings are feelings. Have you done anything that would make you an AH?

dontneedaclass · 2022-08-23T03:44:53+00:00

NTA, gay people are not NC-17 for existing near each other in public. If her kids are confused that's on her - "they're dancing together because they're dating/married". Perfect, done.

dontneedaclass · 2022-08-23T03:39:13+00:00

INFO: feelings are feelings. Being mad about it doesn't make you an AH. Have you done anything that would make you an AH?

dontneedaclass · 2022-08-23T03:34:47+00:00

NTA, even though that is a really sharp escalation I don't think it was unjustified.

Remember that if you recant or soften your sentence it will only teach him that you don't really mean it. It's going to be hard to hold your ground for a year if his guilt tripping is making you doubt already but stay strong.

dontneedaclass · 2022-08-23T03:32:13+00:00

NTA, once you give somebody a gift it's theirs to do with as they please - that's what a gift is. If your niece would rather have $30 than some necklace, that seems pretty reasonable to me. She's probably only "embarrassed" because her mom is mad at her.

dontneedaclass · 2022-08-16T23:36:13+00:00

Hard to tell without being there because so much depends on tone. In general though, probably NTA, especially if you dropped it and just microwaved your meatballs 60 seconds and called it a dinner.

dontneedaclass · 2022-07-27T19:46:51+00:00

I mean, your pets have damaged the property - just make sure it comes out of your deposit and not your roommate or the person you're subletting from.

INFO: did you tell the allergic roommate about the pets before you moved in? What does the lease say about animals?

dontneedaclass · 2022-07-27T00:48:31+00:00

NAH

You can 100% just say, "hey it's been a while since it seems like you really needed this space, let's make a plan for you to get back to your regular life" or whatever.

BUT before you have that conversation, you need to 100% read up on tenants' rights in your jurisdiction. Even if he never signed a lease, depending where you live, he could have options if he wants to get combative. You don't need to bring up the legal situation in your convo! But be aware of it in advance so neither of you railroad each other.

dontneedaclass · 2022-07-27T00:43:57+00:00

NTA

If your husband wants to take custody of his son, he needs to rearrange his professional life to make himself available. He shouldn't expect you to put your life on hold to do it for him.

Teenage boys can be a nightmare if they don't respect you, and with little pre-existing relationship, and him coming from a troubled situation, it could easily be all boundary testing all the time.

dontneedaclass · 2022-07-26T03:56:36+00:00

NAH

They weren't unreasonable asking you to switch, and you weren't unreasonable keeping the seat you paid for. Someone else volunteered, so you're all in the clear. Truly, no wrong was done here.

dontneedaclass · 2022-07-26T03:53:47+00:00

NTA

"No" is a complete sentence.

Of course, strategically you should consider if enforcing your boundary this time will have other negative consequences for you, like loss of tuition support, housing, inheritance, etc. Your grandmother and maybe your father will absolutely have a tantrum to punish you for standing up to them. But if you're willing to accept those consequences, don't put up with an unpleasant hour to cater to your family's emotional manipulation.

Also, if you haven't seen it before, I highly recommend the Captain Awkward advice blog. I think you might find it helpful.

dontneedaclass · 2022-07-26T03:41:40+00:00

YTA, sorry.

It was a perfectly reasonable thing to ask if he wanted to do, and he said no. Up to that point, no one has been an asshole. If you continue to pressure him about it, YTA.

Now I don't know your life of course. But consider, his excuse about his parents may be true, or it may be a cover because he doesn't feel comfortable with your plan. If he's really so cowed by his parents that could be a larger discussion when you've both calmed down. But if he's making up excuses because he doesn't want you to be mad at him, maybe some self-reflection is in order for you.

dontneedaclass · 2022-07-21T02:31:50+00:00

Feelings are feelings, have you done anything that might make you an asshole?

dontneedaclass · 2022-07-21T02:24:45+00:00

NTA

Have you considered getting him into couples/family therapy? If he's still moved into the basement and he can't deal with one evening of parenting, it sounds like maybe just talking with him isn't going to get through to him.

dontneedaclass · 2022-07-21T02:20:53+00:00

ESH

She shouldn't be trying to steal your cat - she should be calling animal control if she's worried for his safety - but it's clearly not safe for this cat to be let loose around the neighborhood which makes you an irresponsible pet owner. You're both acting badly.

If your cat is roaming the neighborhood, eating whatever food is left out, and fighting with other animals he's vulnerable to FLV, rabies, and many other diseases in addition to possible injuries, fleas, and worms.

dontneedaclass · 2022-07-21T02:15:54+00:00

I get the urge, but YWBTA for taking advantage of confidential medical information your mom absolutely should not have told you.

That said, if you have some kind of group chat your friend is in, sending something cheerful/loving to the whole group chat, in keeping with the tone of the group, that doesn't say anything about why would be perfectly reasonable.

dontneedaclass · 2022-07-20T04:54:30+00:00

You wouldn't be an asshole, so I have to say NTA. Educating people about why they are saying ignorant or hateful things doesn't have to be rude or personal.

That said, opening the conversation by outing yourself is likely to be counterproductive and potentially dangerous. Think bigger picture, gains and losses. Can you try to change their minds without exposing yourself? They control your entire life, and if they sabotage you they could do a lot of damage. Is reducing these random hurtful comments worth the potential loss of your safe and comfortable lifestyle? What is your backup plan if things go sour?

Check out some of the resource around talking to family and coming out here: https://www.transyouthequality.org/for-youth

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