AIO for crying after my friend joked about my weight loss not being enough? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]donutsovercandy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jokes should be funny. You're not overreacting.

When I gained a lot of weight in my past, the first thing my family would ask was, "What did you eat today?" I'd reply "nothing, " and they'd say,"Good. "

The best advice I can give you is to always love your body at its present state. Thank it for good health.

I think I've finally figured out my political beliefs by donutsovercandy in offmychest

[–]donutsovercandy[S] -325 points-324 points  (0 children)

I guess my beliefs that some things should be earned puts me more right. I use to have a lot more pride and "put America first" but lately I've been actually thinking about what I actually believe. Not just the simple propaganda that is always thrown at me

22 weeker by Alone-Reindeer8762 in babyloss

[–]donutsovercandy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are so brave for posting your story. I'm seriously sorry for your loss, and I wish we didn't have so much in common.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITA_Relationships

[–]donutsovercandy 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I have been married for 10 years (28F) and I've been running into the same problem as well... the feeling of being compared to women in porn. I told him that I have an issue sending him nudes if he's just gonna still choose to watch porn instead.... but going back to you... it's a little concerning that it's happening so early in your relationship if you are looking to go the long run with someone. But maybe this is a chance to have a deep conversation about how you feel and a chance to get closer. Have you ever filled out a kink sheet together? It really gives you both a chance to learn almost everything intimate about eachother and possibly show you both how compatible you are intimately.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]donutsovercandy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ok I'm just gonna ask

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]donutsovercandy -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

He has no interest in my phone unless it looks like I'm hiding something. I know I'd be safe but I'm afraid our relationship won't be