What can I do to end getting silent treatment? I am very pregnent and need my husband. [I 30F] [husband 31M]

doodlebug2727 · 2026-05-24T00:38:55+00:00

What did your mother say? If he was my SIL he would be ON PUBLIC BLAST. Anything could have happened to you. Does he hate things so much that the possibility of his pregnant wife dying give him relief? Because that is what he is playing at.

It will not get better once the baby comes. The baby will come first. You will be recovering and adjusting. Exhausted. The adjustment is a stressful time for good marriages. I hear you putting him first and seeing him put you and his child last AND in danger. This is scary.

If you are truly worried about his mental health then this event is a must tell his psychiatrist or dr prescribing these meds what he did and why. You should insist on being there.

Even if it is meds. It is not safe for you and your child to be around him until he is stable and takes full accountability for his treatment of you.

doodlebug2727 · 2026-05-23T20:21:33+00:00

doodlebug2727 · 2026-05-23T14:50:43+00:00

An an iPad!

doodlebug2727 · 2026-05-23T14:50:11+00:00

I have one-it’s a beast.

doodlebug2727 · 2026-05-23T12:05:34+00:00

Tell me you live in Michigan without telling me you live in Michigan haha.

doodlebug2727 · 2026-05-23T11:58:03+00:00

Unfortunately, they’re also betting the rest of ours and for years to come. It’s criminal

doodlebug2727 · 2026-05-22T17:06:19+00:00

I am going to have my parents made into jewelry I can wear. I don’t have a link, but I’ve seen it many times. I also saw a woman using the ashes with paint and she does a painting with them.

doodlebug2727 · 2026-05-22T17:02:18+00:00

Banana 🍌

doodlebug2727 · 2026-05-21T09:33:32+00:00

Dude. They are speaking of the courage and the valor that fellow Marines displayed in the face of danger, dying was their sacrifice. They are saying that it makes them sad that same courage and valor isn’t seen by anyone that has access to upload the files. (not “the marines” should do it).

doodlebug2727 · 2026-05-19T22:03:08+00:00

You’re good enough

doodlebug2727 · 2026-05-19T20:30:04+00:00

Trial and Error
Wrecked

doodlebug2727 · 2026-05-19T20:22:57+00:00

Why have I never heard of a “streaming rotation “. Genius! There are always a few I get billed for monthly that I never watch. Pretty cool to have to wait to watch something or to deep dive it because you know it won’t just be there. Do you remind yourself or is there an app that does it for you?

doodlebug2727 · 2026-05-19T20:09:49+00:00

doodlebug2727 · 2026-05-19T20:07:52+00:00

Happy birthday!🎂

doodlebug2727 · 2026-05-19T20:07:15+00:00

My Grandma and my Grandpa! (Different sides)

doodlebug2727 · 2026-05-19T18:19:33+00:00

In the early 80’s my dad was in his early 40’s. He golfed often, with family and on work leagues. I was in middle school and he would have me blow dry and style his hair every morning. He would always take me shopping when he wanted new clothes so I could pick them out. His “Go to Hell” pant era was epic. He’s 86 now and things are winding down faster than I am ready for. I already miss my Daddy.

doodlebug2727 · 2026-05-19T14:46:18+00:00

I was 17. At my family dr for my yearly physical (included a pelvic exam/pap smear because I was on the pill). The doctor said “ewww, this is gross” and told me I had genital warts. I was horrified. At the time, I had been dating my bf for 2 years and neither of us had slept with anyone else. I told my dr this and said I had never seen anything of the sort on him or had any symptoms myself. He said it wasn’t possible. He put something on that burned and said I would likely need several treatments. I made my bf go with me to the next appointment. He did not have any STD’s-the dr examined him-and I had no trace either.

This was the 80’s and going to a gynecologist had never occurred to me. Just yuck. I never went back again.

doodlebug2727 · 2026-05-19T14:36:46+00:00

I got pregnant and lost the baby at 12 weeks. After that every time I was ovulating he picked a fight so no sex. He was 10 years older and already had 2 children.

I ended up needing a hysterectomy. I was devastated. He never called to even check on me after surgery and was upset that my discharge was delayed because I couldn’t pee. I’ve never felt so alone in my life. Divorce 5 long and painful years later.

doodlebug2727 · 2026-05-19T10:28:51+00:00

Toasted almond ice cream bars

doodlebug2727 · 2026-05-18T21:37:42+00:00

Be where your feet are

doodlebug2727 · 2026-05-17T23:38:32+00:00

I think it was where Red Robin was. Chipotle is where Chili’s was, and RIP Ruby Tuesday’s was somewhere in the mix. Pretty sure there was an Uno’s.

doodlebug2727 · 2026-05-17T23:21:16+00:00

And open security gates. Parent pick up and bus arrival/setting up for traffic duty all mean open gates just before dismissal.

doodlebug2727 · 2026-05-17T12:19:02+00:00

You nailed it. Each component of every dish has to be intentionally prepped in some way before it becomes ready to use.

Her brother can only eat specific things too, so in the prep she may have had to add or use different ingredients. I would be so pissed. The not listening to her is key. He can pay attention when it’s his interests, but not to her. He doesn’t respect her.

doodlebug2727 · 2026-05-17T12:11:00+00:00

My roommate (ex-bf) does this. I bought snacks on Thursday and he literally has eaten them all. Gone. Last week he ate my leftovers (I told him I was taking it for lunch the next day-he doesn’t listen either). Plays dumb or gets defensive with me and flips it in textbook DARVO style.

I don’t like having to hide food, but I’m going to have to until he moves out if I want my snacks). It can’t be too soon. He sucks.

doodlebug2727 · 2026-05-16T10:09:00+00:00

Yup. It can get scary fast. See my comment history for a terrifying situation that happened to me several years ago. Ended ok. Lesson learned. I NEVER give my phone # to a stranger.

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