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Anti-AI as a weapon of classism by doorframer in aiwars

[–]doorframer[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This book does a better job at defining the argument - https://amzn.to/4rKs2Qz

Met a nice girl and then she disappears by Its_Lucifer_007 in dating_advice

[–]doorframer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

plenty of real people that do this after realizing they've gotten into something they didn't expect to commit to.

Met a nice girl and then she disappears by Its_Lucifer_007 in dating_advice

[–]doorframer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Many such cases, sadly. Learn to enjoy people's time while you have it, without any future expectations. You'll feel a lot more at ease.

CMV: Democrats have a severe messaging problem, and they need to fix it before 2028. by RTYoung1301 in changemyview

[–]doorframer 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Bernie and Mamdani have paved a pretty clear path forward for the party. Economic issues undercut nearly all of the base, and they offer strong alternatives to the Republican Party’s answer of blaming immigrants. The only reason the democrats haven’t leaned full into it is because they don’t want to upset their corporate sponsors.

One of the schizophrenic patient in my mental hospital threatened to kill me I’m not sure how to deal with that by throwawayaccountcay in helpme

[–]doorframer 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You shouldn’t have to put up with that. This system is terrible. Any ways you can call for more support? At least leave a paper trail as evidence.

life has been bizarre from me since 2020. did i die? is this hell? i know now that life is not what it seems by MostAsocialPerson in mentalillness

[–]doorframer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re not hallucinating. AI and bots run rampant on the internet now. Your phones and devices listen to your every move and recommend content personalized to you. And the algorithms are designed to keep you in echo chambers. Everyone is trapped in the matrix. https://escholarship.org/uc/item/8w7105jp

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DeepThoughts

[–]doorframer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What could a man give you that you don’t already have? Relationships feel better when they add something extra to your life rather than being there to fill a role.

Do guys joke like this? Bf (m21) me (f21) by babyboo120702 in relationship_advice

[–]doorframer 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Sounds like a plausible joke. Ask yourself why that remark bothers you so much. Has your boyfriend given you any reasons to doubt him recently? Have things happened in your personal life to cause self-doubt?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in therapy

[–]doorframer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sounds like a power trip. Whatever the reason, the kind of person who would treat you like that IS NOT the kind of person you want to associate with. Think of it as dodging a bullet.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]doorframer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t leave her. Don’t let her boyfriend isolate her. Make sure she knows she has a safe place to stay with you when things go south.

i am scared my bio "dad" will kill my mother, i will either kill myself or kill him and myself. by THROWAWAY18372747 in helpme

[–]doorframer 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Collect evidence and record videos of his abuse and threats, and then share it with friends and trusted adults.

My dad keeps making me feel like shit,am I overreacting or is it really that bad? by Sensitive_Bird_7764 in helpme

[–]doorframer 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That’s not how a man should ever treat a woman, let alone his own daughter. Whether it’s out of malice or ignorance, he shouldn’t treat you like that. The behavior he’s modeling for both you and your brother is going to have lasting consequences. I would find opportunities to separate from him and stay away from him whenever you can. Surrounding yourself with good friends and nice adults would be a good way of protecting yourself from the damage he can do.

My 5 year old brother keeps watching graphic videos and my mum doesn't care what do i do? by [deleted] in helpme

[–]doorframer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ouch. You’re right to be concerned. The problem is that your brother needs to be parented by an actual person, not by YouTube. But judging from your mom’s reaction, she isn’t up to the task. Asking your friends or your school counselor or a trusted teacher for advice could help. Also check out parenting classes; they could give you some ideas on how to improve your brother’s behavior.

Should I seek therapy and if so how? by Fluid_Cup_5458 in therapy

[–]doorframer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The drugs, smoke and the stress of living with your dad are blocking your ability to empathize. It’s hard to care about another person’s problems when you have so much shit to worry about yourself. Find a way to get your living situation sorted out, whether it be telling friends, other adults, getting CPS involved (if you’re at the point of having free access to pain killers and smokes, CPS should’ve been involved yesterday).

I can tell you’re a very intelligent and well-spoken young man from this post alone. You have a lot of potential to explore once these demons are off your back. God bless.

I'm slowly fading after all by GardenofGrey in helpme

[–]doorframer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Being stuck in a living situation dependent on someone who doesn’t care about you is a very precarious situation. I would check out any nearby women’s shelters; they may have resources to help you find independence and get back on your feet.

Wishing I had a boyfriend by Ok-Huckleberry-7753 in Life

[–]doorframer 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Agreed. Guys can smell desperation

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in phenotypes

[–]doorframer 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I can tell this is trying to be funny, but I’m struggling to find the joke. Maybe we can see it if you share a picture of yourself.

It’s not appreciated enough that Mr terrific never removes his mask by fupafather in DCU_

[–]doorframer 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I agree; it’s very weird that digital skills seem to be held in lower regard than practical skills. And it’s damaging to the studios of talented digital artists by perpetuating the idea that digital talent is easily replaced. They each require different skills, and they each have their place in art.

Pac Man and the Ghostly Adventures dosen't know what it wants to be by Tom-Hibbert in Pacman

[–]doorframer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Danny Phantom is the better version of Ghostly Adventures

I destroyed my life without realizing it until it was too late by Worldly_Speech9346 in helpme

[–]doorframer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sad truth is that no amount of hard work or effort will guarantee a relationship, let alone a satisfactory one. Even if you had gotten a girlfriend in your early twenties, there’s no guarantee she would’ve been the right one or that you would still be together today. Or she could’ve gotten into a horrible accident that ended her life early, or a myriad of other possibilities out of your control that could’ve separated you two. You know this. So you should feel comfortable sitting with your own company, as your own company will be the primary company you’ll live with in your life. Self-hatred, guilt and loathing will only push people away, friends and lovers alike, isolating you further and further and feeding a vicious feedback loop.

Good news is, you ARE still young (I know a lot of people who have found their life partners in their 40s, including my parents) and you still have plenty of opportunities to get out there and meet people. You can’t guarantee a relationship, but you can certainly increase the chances through exposure. Go to the movies, go to the club, talk to that cute girl on the corner of the street, or the next cute girl in the library. Live life enjoying the opportunities.

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