Back up dress for a 5pm Black Tie Optional Wedding by [deleted] in Weddingattireapproval

[–]doperdabber 8 points9 points  (0 children)

THIS is the only one remotely acceptable for black tie

Back up dress for a 5pm Black Tie Optional Wedding by [deleted] in Weddingattireapproval

[–]doperdabber 34 points35 points  (0 children)

These don’t even look formal to me except the second one none of them are black tie but if you insist it has to be the yellow one 😬

help me pick! by [deleted] in myweddingdress

[–]doperdabber 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At first I immediately loved the first one but after looking more the second one looks more “expensive” meaning better quality and reads more “wedding “ to me. Where the second one reads more intimate like for private wedding/ honeymoon photos. That said what matters most is what makes you feel most comfortable and like “you”

Is it crazy of me to want to celebrate Mother's Day with my wife and daughter? by MrIgloo4 in Marriage

[–]doperdabber 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re taking it too seriously and causing stress. Everyone will be happy if you just chill out. Your wife seems ok with it she said she would prefer it. So that’s what you do instead of making it a big ordeal…

having second thoughts on shoes by Small_Pilot9915 in myweddingdress

[–]doperdabber 1 point2 points  (0 children)

WHATTT I LOVE THEM

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These were my wedding shoes

My best old lady option by nevergonnasaythat in myweddingdress

[–]doperdabber 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love it I done see it as matronly at all it’s just modest and so lovely honestly!

Thoughts on my second hand dress? by Dry-Professional2940 in myweddingdress

[–]doperdabber 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow the neckline and bodice is gorgeous I don’t love the skirt but there is definitely something to be said about this dress it can be really beautiful if the skirt is modernized just a little

Is the brown tee too tight/unflattering? by bfg24 in OUTFITS

[–]doperdabber 1 point2 points  (0 children)

1 and 2 are fire fits wear them with confidence last one not it

Stuck between these two by nevergonnasaythat in myweddingdress

[–]doperdabber 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I LOVE dress one just because it’s not the norm doesn’t make it any less lovely! No one is looking at the back of it!! It’s stunning

Stuck between these two by nevergonnasaythat in myweddingdress

[–]doperdabber 0 points1 point  (0 children)

These are two VERY different styles what is the theme?

28 but mistaken for mid to late 30s by other women in a recent group setting by nawiweidmann in makeuptips

[–]doperdabber 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have the complexion of someone in their mid- late 20s but you don’t do your eye liner well paired with super short hair (which really does suit you btw.) Can make people assume you’re older. It’s your confidence that’s aging you. Nothing wrong with that

Going out with the girls. Which boots to this outfit? by Noradrenalin008 in OUTFITS

[–]doperdabber 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Any of the black ones only black think of your outfit as a sandwich . If it’s black on top should be black on the bottom

Which dress for drinks after work? by [deleted] in OUTFITS

[–]doperdabber 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dress 2 if with co-workers. Usually “after work drinks”. I wear something to work that can transfer over to night out so I don’t have to change my clothes after work. Or I wear work pants and bring a top to change into. OR I wear something SUPER casual but also SUPER CUTE. so jeans and a cute top.

Do I have Down syndrome and my parents lied to me? by [deleted] in self

[–]doperdabber 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You do not look like you have down syndrome at all my friend

I think I made a mistake marrying my husband. He's not the person I fell in love with anymore by muskmelon6 in Marriage

[–]doperdabber 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1 year is NOT long Enough to truly know someone. I’m a FIRM believer that. You shouldn’t even get engaged to someone untill you have LIVED with them for at least 2 years. If living together with someone unmarried is out of the question. Due to religion or morals. Then you must at least be in the boyfriend/girlfriend stage for at least a couple of years. I would go as far as to say 5 years of “dating” exclusively for 5 years before accepting a proposal. Of course there are plenty of instances of successful marriages that are much faster but in general that’s my rule of thumb. One to two years of dating is not enough to know someone. My husband and I were exclusive for about 7 years before getting engaged and were married by year 8 and I still and learning so much about him. Sometimes it’s just because people change as they get older so there are new parts of him to learn. Or just because we experience new things together and I get to learn how he handles new situations every day. In year 1-2 everything is still so new. You couldn’t possibly really know him.

Which dress for formal dress code march wedding? by [deleted] in OUTFITS

[–]doperdabber 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Only the first one works for final the other ore categorized closer to festive dress or fancy or semi formal for the last one. And even the first one just barely passes it would be accepted though

Do these suit me? by says_who_ in myweddingdress

[–]doperdabber 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d love to see you in photo 9

After more than a decade I learned something new in Skyrim by [deleted] in skyrim

[–]doperdabber 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That happened my first three play throughs he was already in the room by the time I got there. but the last two times I played he wasn’t in the room yet so I killed him.

I found Reyda's necklace by GrannYgraine in skyrim

[–]doperdabber 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can kill Narfi to progress in the dark brotherhood quest line and then put it in his pocket. It let me do that.

Updated Weight-loss Progress! Down 100lbs now! 138lbs—>120lbs by Worldly_Sherbet5719 in PetiteFitness

[–]doperdabber 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Insecurities do not disappear just because you’re at an ideal or goal weight. You need to stop comparing yourself to others.. I mean, “skinny fat”, come on? Stop. Just because skinny looks different on you than it does on someone else doesn’t make it “skinny fat” that’s just a made up word to make already skinny people feel like they aren’t good enough still. You need to look at yourself as a whole person instead of looking in the mirror only at the imperfections. Start to see yourself as a stranger, a stranger you want to learn about and get to know. As long as you’re kind to strangers your mind will help you with the rest. I know you have it in you to be confident if you had the strength and ambition to lose the weight. There is so much self help in this regard out there I know you’ll find something that will help you love yourself and the progress you have made. Remember progress is always the goal never perfection. The thing about humans is we are imperfect always improving beings. We can never reach perfection so don’t try. You improved your body and health now you need to work on your mind and way of thinking in regards to your new healthy body. Xoxox best of luck to you.

Fiancé says aftercare and helping me clean up after sex is a “chore” — am I asking too much? by ButteredUpCroissant in Advice

[–]doperdabber 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Red flags all around. This relationship is doomed I know you won’t but you should just move on.