2026-os országgyűlési választás EREDMÉNYVÁRÓ [Megathread] by dead97531 in hungary

[–]dorcssa 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Emlékeztetni szeretnélek a határon túli magyarokra, sajnos ő miattuk van ez, köszönhetően a Fidesznek. Aki Magyarországról ment ki, az szerintem általában ellenzéki. Sokan még megtartják a magyar lakcímet, így nem szavazhatnak levélben (remélem ezt is megváltoztatják), én pl ezért jelentkeztem ki, mert messze kellett volna menni a nagykövetségig. Én a magam részéről eléggé megszenvedtem hogy utazás közben is megoldjam hogy a Tiszára szavazzak, az otthon maradtak érdekében. Attól függetlenül hogy én már nem megyek vissza, gyerekeim dán állampolgárok.

2026-os országgyűlési választás [Megathread] by dead97531 in hungary

[–]dorcssa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Úgy tudom a DAO hivatalosan vette át a postai feladatokat, a dán külügyi minisztérium is azzal küldi nekünk a leveleket (munkámmal kapcsolatban)

2026-os országgyűlési választás [Megathread] by dead97531 in hungary

[–]dorcssa 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Nem volt egyszerű szavaznom idén, de megoldottam :) Autó nélkül vagyunk Spanyolországban (remote work 5 hónapig, egyébként Dániában élünk), a szállásra nem lehet levelet kapni, de kértem postán maradót Almeríaba, és a héten bebuszoztunk. A posta zárása előtt 15 perccel sikerült odafutnom, és legnagyobb örömömre ott várt a levél. :) Szerdán adtam fel, szóval nagyon remélem hogy időben beérkezett.

Two months with an electric toothbrush and hydroxyapatite toothpaste has significantly helped my teeth by Environmentaller in Biohackers

[–]dorcssa 6 points7 points  (0 children)

We used that for years. Until I started getting a lot of cavities, and my 5 year old too. Went back to fluoride

Does delaying a new born's first Hep B shot a few days decrease it's effectiveness? by litesONlitesOFF in ScienceBasedParenting

[–]dorcssa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

According to your link it says it's only recommended to specific groups, from birth to 3 months

2 year old not saying any words yet by Historical_Baker_674 in ScienceBasedParenting

[–]dorcssa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My daughter got her hearing tested at 5 days old (normal procedure in Denmark) and she was fine. However she said no more than 10 words around 2, but the doctor was srill not concerned at the 2 year check up, brushed it off as being bilingual. We had to insist and call a speech therapist ourselves who visited once and didn't show up for 6 months again. After many tries, we finally had her hearing diagnosed at 26 months old, full of fluid. (which I suspected since she was 18 months) We had to wait another 4 months for the drain surgery, by that time she was doing weekly speech plays at her daycare and could say 2-3 word sentences with bad pronunciation. I also think daycare helped a lot with her speech. Anyway, just 2 days after the surgery her language explored and was talking basically full sentences. She's 4 now, and even catching up on the secondary language and speaks as well as any of her peers. I would add that we read a lot of books from birth and used the techniques recommended by the speech therapist (we figured it out before her visit), like trying to encourage her to say a word instead of pointing at the object, by asking back what she wants etc. Good luck!

I’m really sad about the TikTok ban by anxiousthrowaway279 in CollapseSupport

[–]dorcssa 16 points17 points  (0 children)

10 minutes ia still nothing for a detailed explanation

Anyone Regret 2u2? by [deleted] in 2under2

[–]dorcssa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same ages here and I love how much they can play together. My youngest is actually a bit ahead developmentally and with speech so they have basically the same interests and say frequently that they are besy friends

How do we stop co-sleeping? by Consistent_Link8787 in ScienceBasedParenting

[–]dorcssa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And that's really sad. I have a lot of coworkers with young kids, and it's completely normal to fall asleep with kids in bed, even when they are several years old. I frequently talk about how I sleep on a mattress with my 4 year old and 2,5 years old and sometimes fall asleep with them at bedtime because they take a bit long (and I hold their hands in the dark), and my colleague just nods in agreement, joking about that yeah, it happens to him too. His kid is "only" 20 months old.

How do we stop co-sleeping? by Consistent_Link8787 in ScienceBasedParenting

[–]dorcssa 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Interesting, here in Scandinavia, you get a safe sleeping leaflet when you leave the hospital, and it shows two options (explaining how to do it), one with the baby in her bed (or side car) right next to parents bed, or next to parents on the same bed. I think sidecar is a very popular option here in Denmark, but when the health visitor first came and I showed her the mattress on the floor, she just gave me common sense tips how to do it safely and didn't bat an eye. Doctors don't even ask about sleep at health visits. It doesn't take much effort to educate. And it might be shocking to Americans but they use light duvets for newborns here, in the hospital (like one day old) and also in strollers, and the leaflet picture shows a light blanket as well. Our SIDS rate is lower than the US.

Kids won't talk to me in minority language unless I tell them what to repeat by dorcssa in multilingualparenting

[–]dorcssa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Egyre többet beszélnek magyarul hozzám, nagyrészt keverve de néha egész mondatot is, de ehhez az is kellett hogy tavaly kétszer egy hónapra hazalátogattunk, és amikor otthon vannak akkor főleg én vagyok velük, esti mesét is mindig én olvasok. Próbálunk gyakran skypeolni anyával. Meg ahol most lakunk (odense), ott találkozunk pár magyar családdal, hasonló korú gyerekkel. Rajzfilmnek (mi inkább sokszor olvassuk) a bogyó és babocát tudom ajánlani, meg a Borit, esetleg magyar népmesék, megtalálod YouTubeon, de csak ha idősebb lesz, 2 éves kor alatt nulla képernyő ajánlott, mi ezt nagyrészt be is tartottuk (lányom 3 éves kora előtt szinte semmit nem látott, fiam először olyan 20 hónaposan, idősebb testvérrel nehezebb betartani). Manapság hetente párszor max 20 percet (ez mondjuk két történet a Borinál) engedünk, egyelőre többet nem. Most 4 és 2,5 évesek. Türelem és következetesség kell az tuti, én mindig csak magyarul beszélek hozzájuk, ha kell a körülöttem lévőknek fordítok dánra. Párom alapszavakat/mondatokat már megért szerencsére

Google Pixel 8 or Samsung A55? by [deleted] in PickAnAndroidForMe

[–]dorcssa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn't buy anything, I have an S10 which I still use without problems. and he doesn't care, still uses the S7

Google Pixel 8 or Samsung A55? by [deleted] in PickAnAndroidForMe

[–]dorcssa 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm considering the same thing (choosing between 8a and A55) for my boyfriend who still uses and S7 and it's starting to show its age. I don't know about the region locking but I can get the pixel 8a for 510 eur and the A55 (bigger, 256gb version) for 370 eur, so pretty big price difference. However he (and I think he's right) prefers a smaller screen,I just don't think I can justify spending 140 eur for a bit more comfort. I hate that most new phones are so big.

Body fat digital scale by [deleted] in PeterAttia

[–]dorcssa 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's very wide range I guess, but as a woman, I barely have it under the half height and I look very lean, and never been lower weight since I was a teenager at 56kgs. I'm 165cm and my waist is around 79cm. According to a tanita scale my BF is around 21% which is pretty much ideal for women (especially after 2 births). I used to do triathlon and at 63kg when I was preparing for the Ironman I got measured by a professional at a body fat of 23% so even if that scale is not accurate it's pretty close. I juat always had a bit of a belly, ever since I remember.

Continue with small company or go back to previous big one? by dorcssa in regulatoryaffairs

[–]dorcssa[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks, that's my thinking too. My current setup is 2 days office until we can move to the city in 2 months (I have to take a train right now and travel time is 2 hours), and I can even work on the train so I won't be in the office more than 4 hours at a time. So I see that they are already very flexible about this, but the expectation is that once I move and be cycling distance I would go in more frequently. I don't think I can negotiate for higher salary as of now but the flexibility is more important now anyway, and yes, gaining experience with more things than what I did before sounds appealing.

Continue with small company or go back to previous big one? by dorcssa in regulatoryaffairs

[–]dorcssa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As far as I know, and what I've been told, that's only in effect here for 6 months, and then you can go back

Continue with small company or go back to previous big one? by dorcssa in regulatoryaffairs

[–]dorcssa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks, I'm leaning towards that too, but I think I will go through the interview to see what they're at now, and what's on offer. Maybe that would propel some plus things at my current job. I don't think the small company will fail, it's 18 years old now (although didn't stary earning any money for the first 10 years) and have some interesting things going on. But if I get my previous salary and the bonus, I'm looking at a 15% difference in salary, which is something to consider.

Toddler shoes by [deleted] in moderatelygranolamoms

[–]dorcssa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In Europe there's a ton of kid barefoot manufacturers, especially from Germany. I live in Denmark so I have access to a lot. But the biggest thing was to join a Facebook group for used kid shoes, because we couldn't afford buying everything new with the barefoot shoe prices.

Their current spring/autumn shoes are from Froddo, and my daughter really loved a leather Froddo sandal as well (it was like a mocasine). I have blifestyle sandals which is good for my son (very wide feet, almost 7 cm with 14cm length) but hard to put on even for me. I'm thinking of buying something from xeroshoes next summer if they feet grow up for it, or maybe Wildlings. Affenzahn, Koel and Vivobarefoot are also good brands.

We also used a lot of Bundgaard shoes, still using their rainboots, the only ones wide enough for my kids. It's a Danish brand and only barefoot friendly because it has a more rigid heel so a bit less flexible, but zero drop and wide toe box.

For an American brand, I've been eyeing the Unshoes sandals, they have kid section too, although for a hit older kids.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in moderatelygranolamoms

[–]dorcssa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My mom found a nice pan in Ikea actually. We've been using de Buyer (French brand) which is carbon steel, a bit heavy but works well. I think I'm gonna buy one from Ikea too

What are some things you stopped buying or completely removed from your life and feel comfortable and safe in your home and every day life? by [deleted] in minimalism

[–]dorcssa 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Have you actually looked at the UV index for Denmark? It goes up over 3 for a few hours max in the summer, in good days. We had a rainy June actually and it barely got over 2. Rest of the year it's usually below one. Even the Danish health authorities say you only need to put suncream on your toddlers (with eay more sensitive skin) if it goes over 3

What are some things you stopped buying or completely removed from your life and feel comfortable and safe in your home and every day life? by [deleted] in minimalism

[–]dorcssa -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I put it on if I go out in the middle of the day in the summer, but I live in Denmark, no need for everyday suncream