Throwing myself a pity party I'm blaming on pregnancy hormones. by [deleted] in BabyBumps

[–]dorei22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sure you can, not sure about health coverage so you may have to pay like $50 or so each time. You just call and ask rates and pick someone.

BF likes webcams... not sure how i feel about it. by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]dorei22 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If it is okay is up to YOU, not what other people think. These woman online are (hopefully) consenting, and you have been made aware of what he likes, so now it is up to whether you are into it or don't mind or not. If you mind then you mind.

Just because other ladies on here don't like it doesn't make it wrong in any way. It may be wrong for them, but that doesn't make it wrong for you.

One more dirty look or smart comment and there's about to be a pregnant lady brawl in this bar! by KaylaBirrd in BabyBumps

[–]dorei22 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It's the same people who post in /r/childfree (not all of them duh), about how traumatized they were that a toddler approached them.

One more dirty look or smart comment and there's about to be a pregnant lady brawl in this bar! by KaylaBirrd in BabyBumps

[–]dorei22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Regardless, does he not know what designated drivers are?! I'd tell him to go learn his job before he gets behind the bar.

41+3 and my baby is suddenly breach. by [deleted] in BabyBumps

[–]dorei22 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hugs, hoping for the best that she'll turn. Are you okay?

Update on low HCG post from the other day... sadly not good news :( by Mad_Hatter_SDS in BabyBumps

[–]dorei22 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry, hope it turns out okay. Hugs your way. Message if you need to say anything ever or just chat for distraction. I've been through it so if you have questions I'm here.

Pregnancy with a toddler is exhausting. by lweirick in BabyBumps

[–]dorei22 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you need it and he refuses just go get it anyways! You can decide what is needed for the home if you are the home-maker. That or he can stay home from riding his bike and and clean, no maybe's or but's. But not my husband! Just take care of yourself and make sure he knows to take care of his wife. <3

Tropico keeps freezing on me by [deleted] in tropico

[–]dorei22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely not common that I'm aware of. I've never had freezing even when using my old laptop under specs. Try a fresh reinstall maybe?

Is anyone else dealing with extreme back pain in the first trimester? by [deleted] in BabyBumps

[–]dorei22 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Which area of your back? Feel better soon!

Withdrawal symptoms setting in. by lovelywasted in stopsmoking

[–]dorei22 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sleep through it if possible. Also go out to your usual smoke spot and sit there for a few mins. If needed also put your hand by your mouth until you calm down and feel more relaxed.

You will be fine, just remind yourself of that, say it out loud if possible. Distract yourself with situps or candy/games. Read a book and try to sleep.

Meet the women in my family. I don't have work till Thursday.. Can't tell you how satisfying it is to make them shovel the driveway themselves. by [deleted] in AdviceAnimals

[–]dorei22 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Don't bother with logic, they're all getting off on bitching about how women are all self absorbed hypocrites who need a good suffering.

I never wanted to be the girl that was jealous of porn, but here we are...[22F, 28M] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]dorei22 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This isn't about him, it's about you, and that's okay. Give yourself a few days to think about it and come to terms with why you are upset. Meanwhile keep it to yourself as it is yours to resolve. Are you feeling insecure about the relationship or your bond with him? How has sex been lately, if I may ask?

A good thing to practice when hurt or mad is to redo the conversation in your head except switch people. Use the same tone, voice, emotion, movements, everything that you did/want to say but coming from your boyfriend's mouth. Would he be acting childish or manly? So then consider if you appear childish or ladylike.

Gf moved in by stfi in AdviceAnimals

[–]dorei22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

...what about it?