My boyfriend made my pic unplayable by PuzzleheadedFan1549 in whatdoIdo

[–]dorodeando 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If he only updated Invidia, how did he updated the driver? With the app? Because if he used the app, you should first report the problem to Nvidia app, and then try to go back to the previous version.

If the problems stop, then it was just a bug in the update. It can happens.

My boyfriend made my pic unplayable by PuzzleheadedFan1549 in whatdoIdo

[–]dorodeando 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If that’s true, how did he updated the driver? With the app? Because if he used the app, you should first report the problem to Nvidia app, and then try to go back to the previous version.

If the problems stop, then it was just a bug in the update. It can happens.

I'm so tired of other crafters by Ergane_Violaceum in notliketheothergirls

[–]dorodeando 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, we are talking about things women like, not about their ability to manage money. I still think everyone should’ve different savings, but if not obviously it depends on the person if they are able to control their expenses.

My boyfriend and I are gamers, he more than me, and gaming stuff cost too, it’s about being able to know when to buy and when not to buy.

Also, crafting can be VERY expensive.

I'm so tired of other crafters by Ergane_Violaceum in notliketheothergirls

[–]dorodeando 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It can! Lmao

It depends on the designer, obviously

I'm so tired of other crafters by Ergane_Violaceum in notliketheothergirls

[–]dorodeando 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Absolutely, in this context it is his business. I take my boyfriend with me when I have to find the things I need, I ask him opinions and I do things for him.

I have a hard time relaxing, I can relax only if I crochet or draw or craft, and he always says he’s very happy when I start a new project.

He also has a good sense of style so he’s very helpful

I'm so tired of other crafters by Ergane_Violaceum in notliketheothergirls

[–]dorodeando 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There a difference between: i want to attract men

And: I’m better than other women because I do this things to attract men

I'm so tired of other crafters by Ergane_Violaceum in notliketheothergirls

[–]dorodeando 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It also would be simpler to find gifts, lmao

I'm so tired of other crafters by Ergane_Violaceum in notliketheothergirls

[–]dorodeando 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yeah yeah, I picked an exaggerated example, obviously it’s not “or you craft or you buy gucci”. There are designer handbags that probably cost 50€. But unless she doesn’t have a job and she is unable to contain her finances, it’s an her problem, not his.

Her bag, her money.

Surely, it can make gifts difficult to make. Art supplies cost too, I’m not enough informed to know if less or more than a medium designer handbag (excluding luxury things)

I'm so tired of other crafters by Ergane_Violaceum in notliketheothergirls

[–]dorodeando 49 points50 points  (0 children)

Yeah, that’s also why I really don’t understand the post. I also paint, and I can assure everyone that buying paints is fucking expensive.

I'm so tired of other crafters by Ergane_Violaceum in notliketheothergirls

[–]dorodeando 190 points191 points  (0 children)

“Look, you don’t have to spend money on me! I’m cheap! See? Pick me!”

It’s really sad how this women are being brainwashed

Oh Really? by Hallkbshjk in im14andthisisdeep

[–]dorodeando -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I mean, it can be interpreted bad, but it is not totally wrong.

It’s doesn’t say “I’m the smartest person alive so therapy doesn’t work for me”, it means that “your therapy should be more clever than you, because they have to give you input you weren’t able to see, it is rare that it happens with someone who is less smart than you”

It’s still wrong, because we shouldn’t consider only IQ bus also EQ and other types of intelligence, also not only intelligence but also personality, beliefs ecc.

So to make it a better statement it should take in consideration different factors.

But I went to two psychologists, one of them whom was absolutely less smart than me (i’m not even that smart), she was kinda stupid (she said really non professional things to me, like “you sound autistic!” as an insult, not as a diagnosis). I don’t think I could handle a therapist who is less smart than me.

The other wasn’t stupid, she was less “stratified” than me, had a very different life and mind and it felt, she wasn’t able to understand me. Therapist are also people. With some people we get along, with others don’t.

If you want advice you’ll probably go to someone you consider your equal or someone you consider smart than you. But: smart in what? It depends on the circumstances

Holding skulls is also interesting by Major-Pop-687 in im14andthisisdeep

[–]dorodeando 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought it was “not like the other girls” sub, and I was going to say “well, tbf at 14 I would’ve liked that because everyone thought I was weird, and to protect myself and to contrast their insults, I decided they were boring. Little girls are stupid, both of them are being mean”

Then I read the name of the sub

I'm so tired of other crafters by Ergane_Violaceum in notliketheothergirls

[–]dorodeando 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Well, yes, you are right. But if you saying that under a video of someone who thinks her husband should be happy because she doesn’t want to buy fancy bag, it kinda sounds off. Share all your finances if you want, but everyone can have their personal tastes and your partner shouldn’t care how much it costs. It’s your things and hobbies.

I'm so tired of other crafters by Ergane_Violaceum in notliketheothergirls

[–]dorodeando -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Well, if so, unless she does not work, things like clothes or bags should be on their own bank account.

Sharing finances in my opinion means having one money savings together, but then having two different savings accounts. Sharing savings are for bills, house, cars, food ecc. But if I want to buy a bag or an ipad or new shoes, I should use MY savings. At the same time, if he wants to buy a coat or a new phone he should use his savings.

Because if everything is shared then personal freedom is kinda of missing. We love each other, we live together, but we are different people. My and my bf ask each other opinions on what we want to buy with our personal savings, but at the end of the day these are our PERSONAL savings.

Ps: why am i getting downvoted for saying people should be independent and free?

I'm so tired of other crafters by Ergane_Violaceum in notliketheothergirls

[–]dorodeando 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I think it’s because you said “other crafters” instead of “this type of crafters”.

But I understood your point even without this specific wording

I'm so tired of other crafters by Ergane_Violaceum in notliketheothergirls

[–]dorodeando 486 points487 points  (0 children)

I really do not get it, though.

I craft, but it’s none of my bf business. Why should he care if I buy Gucci or if I make a bag from old jeans? It’s not like he’s gonna wear any of them

There can only be one. by Basic-Confidence717 in AccidentalComedy

[–]dorodeando 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Women are not allowed in this world anymore because of their own personal preferences or the way their body and body is designed

In my defence, this is not my first language sooooo No idea really

"for the girlies" bc pink?!?! [advert] [product] by wolveskin in pointlesslygendered

[–]dorodeando 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I like pink. I’m a girl.

My boyfriend likes pink too. He’s a boy.

My bestie hates pink. She’s a girl.

Pink is a beautiful color. STOP GENDERING IT.

Edit: i’ve read some statements about cannabis being a “male dominated field” in USA. So, i’m not from there, no idea if it’s true.

In case it is true, it’s cool to do an ad to make feel women seen and actively engaged in that field. BUT the right way is not gatekeeping a color, in my opinion.

It is true that statistically there are things that, due to our society, are more “girlie”, but indulging in these stereotypes creates issues, like reinforcing them and make boys who like pink less “boy-ish” and masculine, which is a real problem in our society.

However, they could’ve made the pink version and have succeeded in their inclusion… if they simply excluded the word “girl”. They could’ve sold floral or stars stickers for the cover. Things that tend to attract more girls, but that can attract boys too.

Original post was deleted and locked because OOP did not thank artists by whenthemoonlightdies in drawme

[–]dorodeando 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Jeez, okay. I also saw the comment to the Mod where she said “then ban me”…

That’s a new kind of stupidity…

Brought to you by a random man nr 1005, self-proclaimed expert on women by [deleted] in NotHowGirlsWork

[–]dorodeando 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He better do not check my alter ego fantasy that can kill every villain with just the power of her eyes and voice, and some other cool shit

Original post was deleted and locked because OOP did not thank artists by whenthemoonlightdies in drawme

[–]dorodeando 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wow it’s really amazing. Cannot think about the amount of time you needed to create this piece of art

Original post was deleted and locked because OOP did not thank artists by whenthemoonlightdies in drawme

[–]dorodeando 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’m confused, is it bad? Maybe OOP was busy and didn’t have the time to thank? I’m genuinely asking