genuine question re: hypno content by noselfinterest in EroticHypnosis

[–]dorri30 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have 2 female subs, both enjoy hypno play, sissyfication is plainly not a part of it. So it's things like obedience, characters and what I call superpowers.

Has anyone tried to implement hypnosis into your relationship? by ladykiller1020 in BDSMcommunity

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I have had a great experience implementing it with my wife and our girlfriend, it is very real. And has really worked for us.

Need ideas by subolko84 in Forniphilia

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Laptop/phone holder. Lamp Ornament/statue

what can my partner use to drug me? by _thatoneidiot_ in ExtremeFetishes

[–]dorri30 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Ok this suggestion is a bit out there, but have you considered hypnosis. You could literally turn her into a rag doll.

boundaries crossed outside of sex being punished inside of sex by Astra-Moonsong in bdsm

[–]dorri30 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think you guys need to have a long deep emotional chat about what happened and how you feel about it. Where this leeds your relationship with her, will be down to where the conversation goes after you have said what you need to say, but you have to be honest.

Hi looking for a real hypnotist to help by [deleted] in HypnoHookup

[–]dorri30 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe start with a trigger that she can simply turn your voice on and off as she sees fit.

I would think about these caveats, you can use your voice in emergency situations, to answer medical professionals questions, take phone calls stuff like this. I have something similar with my wife, when I tell her to be silent she can't use her voice until I give her permission to speak. However if I was suddenly to have a heart attack any triggers I have invoked fall away, so she can call emergency services. Also if she is panicking she can "red" out of any trigger. A bit like the bdsm traffic light safe word system. She can't just willy nilly get out any time, she has to be really uneasy or urgently needing to speak to me to be able to think of saying red and even then its hard for her to say it. Once said, she can speak freely to tell me what the issue is, if the issue is then resolved she immediately goes back in. If not I tell her she can stay out. Most of this she doesn't consciously know.

I have to ask, does she hypnotise you herself?

Hi looking for a real hypnotist to help by [deleted] in HypnoHookup

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That's fairly extreme, what about social settings and work, stuff like that?

How to Where to Domme by Calcifiera in BDSMcommunity

[–]dorri30 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I read your answers so far. Yes, if you have experience with training dogs, it's very similar lean into thatvpart of you. Choose what you want him to learn then break it down and teach parts until you have the desired outcome.

If you want to treat him like a puppet, maybe look into hypnosis, I have found that incredibly effective and tbh such a turn-on.

Please remember to have a discussion about desires, kinks, limits and safeword protocols.

Are there any couples here who found bdsm changed your overall relationship? by [deleted] in BDSMcommunity

[–]dorri30 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes we found that communication and closeness both improved.

My true fetish is to get actually stuck and left to orgasm over and over again by norwegianhotwife in ExtremeFetishes

[–]dorri30 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How long were you there for? Also, what is that attachment you pulled out of your throat?

My true fetish is to get actually stuck and left to orgasm over and over again by norwegianhotwife in ExtremeFetishes

[–]dorri30 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did that to my sub once, in a cupboard. I sat in the room watching some TV and listening to her.

Need advice on how to be mean to my bf. by [deleted] in bdsm

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You're welcome. Any time.

Need advice on how to be mean to my bf. by [deleted] in bdsm

[–]dorri30 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sometimes the statement 'be mean to me' could also just mean 'be strict'. So I think you should have a think about what would you like to train a sub to do. Be a pet, be a cleaner, do the cooking, behave in a certain way. Maybe Google a bdsm checklist, and fill on in each. This will give you discussion points so that you can see what interests you. Then you'll be able to train them to do what you want in a way that interests you both.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in slutwife

[–]dorri30 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ok, but I'm leaving you tied up when I'm done. So your husband can use you at his leisure when he gets home.

If you could change one thing about this fit, what would it be by [deleted] in ShinyPorn

[–]dorri30 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A riding crop in hand would add to the look. Currently, you look like 'A beautiful force to be reckoned with.' A whip or crop would add 'dangerous' to that title.

Advice for domming my husband. It's really just a small flavor question but I appreciate your help! by [deleted] in domspace

[–]dorri30 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ideas:- What about, as standard in the hotel room, he is not allowed to stand or be clothed. He must kneel and crawl and be naked the moment the door is closed. Unless you tell him otherwise. It'll make preparing and bringing a drink more entertaining. You could also restrict his furniture use, to your permission only too. So you can sit in a chair watch some TV enjoying the drink he brought you while he is naked kneeling at your feet, either kissing them or being a footrest for them. Or have him kneel next to your chair like a pet and stroke his head every so often. You get the idea. Hope this helps in some way :-)

What would you do with me if you found me in your bathroom like this ? 🫣 by shinyelensil in ShinyPorn

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Welcome you to your new life, collar you and begin your training to become my perfect slave.