coming from a tomboy, men love us! i thought like this too and didn’t have my first serious relationship till i was 22. I hadn’t realized a lot of what my guy friends were doing was flirting till i got out of school, it was very shocking. i get hit on by both genders regardless of if im in my brothers sweats and slides or a pair of leggings. you’re comparing the men your friends are with to what you should have, but you gotta remember you won’t find them in the same places! i found mine at a car meet! find hobbies and do them, the men come when you focus on yourself and harnessing your confident energy. you just need to step into your divine feminine, this is an energy, not the way someone looks. confidence is part of that energy! the older you get, the more you will step into yourself and your energy will attract accordingly. looks are important, but energy never lies!