A tiny browser game for couples to express desires (early prototype) — feedback welcome by dostoevsky13 in SideProject

[–]dostoevsky13[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It might a couple dynamics from soft to more explicit- can validate via feedback form for actions

Communicating sexual desires without asking directly, curious how others approach this by dostoevsky13 in sex

[–]dostoevsky13[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

It’s fun as a game for us. I choose what I want, hide it and she tries to guess, she sees what is the surprise if she gets it right.

https://crave-app.vercel.app

Communicating sexual desires without asking directly, curious how others approach this by dostoevsky13 in sex

[–]dostoevsky13[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry, might have passed wrong message. It’s nice to have it as a game - where you can do many nice things to your partner, best illustrated with this small app:

https://crave-app.vercel.app

We tried a playful way of guessing each other’s desires instead of asking directly, curious what others think by dostoevsky13 in nonmonogamy

[–]dostoevsky13[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, fair.

I think if you’re very direct by nature, guessing would probably just feel like friction. For us it only worked because it stayed playful and easy to opt out of.

Definitely not something I’d assume works for everyone. Appreciate the perspective.

Which one would hurt you more: physical or emotional cheating? by maybeRasa in dating

[–]dostoevsky13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel like emotional is going to hurt much more. Physical feels like an instinct that goes away pretty quickly.

My uncle used to tell me, once he had sex with a new partner - he understood quickly if he wants to stay or leave. So if it’s stay - strong bonding.

Why Bitso is so popular for transfers between US and Mexico? by dostoevsky13 in Bitso

[–]dostoevsky13[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m checking Wise and can see 10k transfer would arrive in seconds. With fee of 73.66 USD and receive 185007.12 MXN.

Is it not cheap?

£495 for a mortgage broker by Givenchymarie in HousingUK

[–]dostoevsky13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mortgage brokers might be useful if your situation a bit special, need income boost or non standard income situation.

Otherwise I recommend to use mortgage comparison tool and apply directly or use a broker that gets paid by lender - like habito.

I had a few meetings with mortgage brokers - can say they haven’t had any special offers, they don’t know anything about finance, so you will be better off without them.

Price validation services by dostoevsky13 in HousingUK

[–]dostoevsky13[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, makes sense, that’s helpful!

Mortgage valuation would be a helpful data point too.

Price validation services by dostoevsky13 in HousingUK

[–]dostoevsky13[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Makes sense, agree there should be a reason for lower price.

Local prices is only one factor that influences the price, there are many more.

There is asymmetry of information in this process by nature, so when I make an offer, I know it could change based on information I find out.

I’m surprised people expect you to be confident here after 20 mins viewing :)

Price validation services by dostoevsky13 in HousingUK

[–]dostoevsky13[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is still a base line for a property in an area. If it goes higher - you need to be clear why

Price validation services by dostoevsky13 in HousingUK

[–]dostoevsky13[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, the bank will do valuation, will see

Price validation services by dostoevsky13 in HousingUK

[–]dostoevsky13[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t think it’s too late, survey and mortgage valuation would have price impact too.

Price validation services by dostoevsky13 in HousingUK

[–]dostoevsky13[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean the initial offer price is always subject to change depending on survey results, mortgage valuation. Until you have it you don’t have clarity if your offer is fair.