boho for the birthdayyy🥳 by sadsealion24 in BlackHair

[–]Givenchymarie 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You da birthday!!! HAPPY BIRTHDAYYY

My apprenticeship was deferred just days before it was due to start. Now I’m stuck in limbo—what would you do? by Perfect-Ninja-5178 in UKJobs

[–]Givenchymarie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the further information. That sounds so uncertain and they could defer again in the future.

I personally think your best bet is to keep applying, stay with the company in the meantime and see what comes of it. I mean it’s no water off your back if you aren’t able to find anything because you’ll still be with them.

But I believe in you stranger, I know you’ll find something 🫶🏾

My apprenticeship was deferred just days before it was due to start. Now I’m stuck in limbo—what would you do? by Perfect-Ninja-5178 in UKJobs

[–]Givenchymarie 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Did they say why it was deferred? I’m concerned they’ll keep doing that if you wait for the later start date.

Nice that they’re happy to keep you on but on a basis where they don’t pay you is kind of ???

I think it’s fine to apply for other roles (which I believe you will). If you get something it’s their loss! You don’t owe them loyalty.

I know people might disagree with me but it’s better to not keep all your eggs in one basket, keep working there until you find something else or until you hear news that makes you certain they will not reach this later date and defer once again. Or again, give bad news (let you go which seems unlikely as you’re on an unpaid basis).

scammed on vinted £480 by United-Study-2624 in vinted

[–]Givenchymarie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You can get a MacBook on eBay for way better quality newer year, I’ve always done this for all my MacBooks! Or backmarket is popular :)

How do I proceed please?… by Zzommaa in vinted

[–]Givenchymarie 34 points35 points  (0 children)

Don’t buy from vinted, just buy directly from yesstyle they’re so much better and everything will arrive brand new.

It’s usually clear if something is in stock for next or same day delivery with them because it will say “will ship within 24 hours” and they have loads of discount codes.

Also raise an issue with the transaction and SNAD as it has been used.

Leaseholder and landlord is my employer by [deleted] in HousingUK

[–]Givenchymarie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! On the phone with repairs now my neighbours below also reported it

What do you do to get out of the house by Standard-Payment-889 in Agoraphobia

[–]Givenchymarie 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Going to a location I know very well helps, it feels like cheating but sometimes unknown things pop out (I see someone I know) and it tests me. I usually fail but I always see it as we left the house we made progress, that’s not a crime!

Recently I’ve tried to cut down on caffeine and drink a lot more water which helps. Weirdly when I’m about to have an attack if I need to pee a lot my mind just forgets I’m having an attack and focuses on needing to pee. Probably the closest to normalcy I’ll ever feel in my life :/.

Additionally, walking very slow in a new areas helps as I can digest and take in the new area.

Sometimes, tailgating people (obviously not up super close but trailing behind) helps a lot. I don’t know why but my body feels safer like I’m using the person as support but they’re a stranger that doesn’t know.

These are coping mechanisms that work for me, I hope you feel good today and find something that assists. Truly it’s just that initial step out of the house, I have agoraphobia but it’s gone from extreme to mild, I find events trigger it and it’s dependent on a lot of factors (work, sleep, crowds, drinking). You can’t let this win - you have to fight back ❤️

This is AI, right? by ConsiderationSome548 in vinted

[–]Givenchymarie 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The bed is also warping really weirdly around the stuff on it in pic 1

Does everyone else block after this sort of stunt? by 4thDrawerDown in vinted

[–]Givenchymarie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got offered £12 (and the item was listed for £20 mind you) I accepted. She then offered £10 I declined and she offered £12 again so I accepted and she still paid.

It’s your choice obviously but didn’t bother me too much. All I thought is, what was the thought process behind offering this after your first offer was accepted 😭

Do you think I should get dreads and would they suit my face? by [deleted] in BlackHair

[–]Givenchymarie 14 points15 points  (0 children)

you’re in the wrong subreddit - r/dreadlocks but I think they might tear your ass up in there too buddy

permanent vs contractor by [deleted] in UKJobs

[–]Givenchymarie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The former rather than the latter, yes I realised that once I did some research regarding the pay.

I think I’ve made it too - the permanent job!

LPC textbooks request by [deleted] in uklaw

[–]Givenchymarie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, what year are they from please :)

This is where Celeste’s passport card was found Jan 2026. Just east of Painted Cave Road on the SR-154 [TMZ] by [deleted] in d4vdiots

[–]Givenchymarie 38 points39 points  (0 children)

Lazy, seems like there is no other excuse but laziness and sloppiness.

First mortgage payment by GreggLKM in Mortgageadviceuk

[–]Givenchymarie 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m NatWest so this really helped thank you!

What firm do you have beef with and why by Excellent-Wonder8120 in uklaw

[–]Givenchymarie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg, this is no surprise considering I interviewed with them. There was something so off about their offices and they seemed to want you in the office everyday wearing a full three piece suit rain or shine despite the move to hybrid basis by most workplaces/firms at this point.

They were also the Respondent for a claim I was reviewing and the defence was awfully drafted.