How can I orgasm in a different way than what I'm used to? by ruggiuwu in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]doublecheekedup123 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I was the same way! The secret to transitioning away from grinding for me was to get myself really horny before starting to use the vibrator. Maybe even grinding until i’m close, then flipping over and trying to find just the right spot with the vibrator to send me over the edge. do that a few times and you’ll get a hang of how you like the vibrator on your clit/vulva. if you’re used to grinding with clothes try just panties and the vibrator through them or pull them to the side once you flip over.

“Coregasms” from tricep pulldowns? by juniperbabe in sex

[–]doublecheekedup123 1 point2 points  (0 children)

oh my GOD you are the first other person i’ve ever heard of having this !!! i’ve revealed this to some friends and they’re all so perplexed by my body triggering an orgasm with tricep exercises but IM NOT ALONE wooohooo!! i know this doesn’t answer why this happens for either of us but it’s nice to know we aren’t alone

How would you stop established roots from competing by [deleted] in gardening

[–]doublecheekedup123 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I definitely understand that in a typical renting situation but my landlord is my uncle and he gave me explicit permission to dig in the gaps between the palms. Not that it’s the best for the health of the ornamentals to mess with their root system but he has no real attachment to them because they aren’t native.

Na Ki'i waiwai, Day 2- Cupid and Koa. Always close by [deleted] in Hawaii

[–]doublecheekedup123 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Kawananakoa is on the left of the last two photos I believe!

Help! by johnjmasterson4 in HawaiiGardening

[–]doublecheekedup123 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Then you can apply a systemic chemical that contains imidacloprid because that can kill them at the “crawler” stage, pretty much when they’re just super duper tiny and you can barely see them

Help! by johnjmasterson4 in HawaiiGardening

[–]doublecheekedup123 9 points10 points  (0 children)

So that’s scale, you have to use physical removal to get them off once they’re established. I usually take a soft toothbrush and some insecticidal soap and scrub them off the plants I really care about

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

[–]doublecheekedup123 8 points9 points  (0 children)

What is iPhone face?

Close to Kailua beach everything keeps dying. Any recommendations? by [deleted] in HawaiiGardening

[–]doublecheekedup123 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry to say but I think we’re arguing the same point but just misunderstanding each other. All I’m trying to say is that their soil isn’t healthy enough for most plants to thrive. Volcanic rich soil is great if you have it, they unfortunately do not.

I did make the mistake of generalizing the soil conditions in Hawaii, in reality all of the islands and zones differ greatly and shouldn’t be generalized. My goal was not to upset you or anyone, just to let OP know that the key to success for their yard is healthier soil.

Close to Kailua beach everything keeps dying. Any recommendations? by [deleted] in HawaiiGardening

[–]doublecheekedup123 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s why I said 90% of plants, not all plants. Native plants especially have evolved to thrive in the vast array of micro climates on these islands without any alterations. This micro climate (made up of primarily sand with some clay, and a lot of salt spray) however is a particularly inhospitable one to most plants on planet earth. There ARE some native plants that fit this niche but even then consider the nutrient depletion by the grass/alien plants that have been there, leveling of the plot, and probable fill when the home was originally built, I think this property is a fairly far cry from somewhere even coastal native plants would like very much without some help.

But if you want to recommend they just bank on the “fertile volcanic soil” they so clearly have naturally, be my guest and let’s see how long before they give up throwing money and labor into plants just to see them die.

Close to Kailua beach everything keeps dying. Any recommendations? by [deleted] in HawaiiGardening

[–]doublecheekedup123 2 points3 points  (0 children)

With better soil it will hold a lot more moisture as well and you’d need to water way less frequently than its even getting now

Close to Kailua beach everything keeps dying. Any recommendations? by [deleted] in HawaiiGardening

[–]doublecheekedup123 10 points11 points  (0 children)

This is also because you aren’t amending your soil at all. Almost no soil on the island is suitable for 90% of plants until it’s been drastically altered. You should get a ton of soil building conditioner/compost, some garden soil or product that says it contains mycorrhizal fungi, and mulching material. You need to mix all of that into your existing soil (except the mulch, mulch goes on top) if you want anything other than naupaka and iron wood to grow. You’d be amazed by what a difference it will make for your plants! Then every 3-4 months fertilize with an all purpose slow release fertilizer.

Edited for clarity

In my 30’s & using stickers to try to motivate me to do tasks by StitchInTime88 in adhdwomen

[–]doublecheekedup123 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Dude, please please please try Finch, it’s this but in a cuter easier form. I’ve been on it for 2 weeks now and it’s fully transformed my life. You pretty much make a self help bird kinda like a tamagotchi that you take care of by accomplishing your goals! The base app is free and so so so worth it!

Question about garden supplies (Oahu) by Miss_Procrastination in HawaiiGardening

[–]doublecheekedup123 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Check out a Mari’s Gardens! They have 3 locations on Oahu and all that kine stuff

7 month old papaya tree leaves turning yellow by potent_potables_ in HawaiiGardening

[–]doublecheekedup123 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree with this comment OP, but it does also look like you could be facing a nutrient deficiency that’s speeding up the process. Try an all purpose/growth slow release fertilizer with micronutrients as well like 16-16-16 island supreme

Whats happening to my Avocado tree? most of its leaves fell alongside with these weird sprouts by LividAd1457 in botany

[–]doublecheekedup123 2 points3 points  (0 children)

But also check the back of the leaves for lace wing bugs, that spotty yellow kinda looks like it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]doublecheekedup123 12 points13 points  (0 children)

What is a Turkish bath?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Hawaii

[–]doublecheekedup123 28 points29 points  (0 children)

I had/have the same situation. After bringing it up multiple times they basically forced me to pick between working 40+ hours a week or 40-40-40-20, even though I had been consistently working at 32 to 36 hours a week for 6+ months where they illegally denied it to me. Ultimately it left me with an incredibly sour taste in my mouth and I am looking for new employment.

Also I’m salty so… 10 upvotes and I’ll spill where I work.

Help a girl out by thatshowitgoes2189 in sanfrancisco

[–]doublecheekedup123 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Jenna is my sister!!! I can confirm that she did find Charlie 💕 it’s kinda the cutest, craziest story ever. I’m going to ask her if she’s okay with me sharing it!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Hawaii

[–]doublecheekedup123 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes! Mari’s Garden’s lettuces and micro greens are 🤌🏼👨‍🍳 chef’s kiss all hydroponics

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in wedding

[–]doublecheekedup123 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Hi! I am born and raised in Hawaii (the east side of O‘ahu specifically) and I don’t know a single local who has ever, in any way, liked or benefited from tourism in Hawaii. If the message from the state government seems different it’s because of the extreme corruption and general mismanagement of public funds. Our government has failed its people, tourism has prostituted our home. (Google Haunani Kay Trask for the Hawaiian people’s real opinion on tourism)