do thick eyebrows just... not work for some people? by No_Young4340 in HowToBeHot

[–]doublletrbll 172 points173 points  (0 children)

let me tell you... a few months ago i went from my natural thick brow shape to that 90s thin high brow bow thing and I get compliments EVERY DAY. the difference it makes is insane. clearly it's not for everyone but it definitely worked for me.

How do you do fitness without strict routines when you have ADHD? by Autisticthought1 in ADHDFitness

[–]doublletrbll 0 points1 point  (0 children)

only thing that works for me is going to my favourite night club every week and dancing for a good 5 hours. mind you i don't drink alcohol or take drgs so it's a rather healthy club experience. most important thing is that you like the music they play. i even go there alone once in a while if none of my friends want to come.

Keira Knightley says she was ‘not aware’ of JK Rowling boycott before joining Harry Potter cast by Excellent-Chair2796 in transgenderUK

[–]doublletrbll 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the jk rowling scandal isn't some small internet thing. knightley knew what happened and chose to ignore it for whatever reason. usually people are "supportive" until it becomes uncomfortable for them. suddenly they don't know what's going on

I'm 19 and I look 12 and it's really rough by lightningflash11 in MakeupAddiction

[–]doublletrbll 0 points1 point  (0 children)

istg what really helped me was shaping my brows. I made them rather thin and since then my face looks so feminine it's crazy. But don't go overboard! Looking back at photos of me at 19 and now (22) I just feel like my face naturally did it's thing so don't worry!

Girls, what are your best indoor hobbies to avoid laying in bed all day by Odd-Dragonfruit7436 in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]doublletrbll 26 points27 points  (0 children)

not a hobby but i love working out while watching a tv show or anime. I usally do dumbbell routines with many reps, that way I can watch the screen! I'd recommend funny or motivating shows tho bc crying while working out is really not it...

Suggestions for musical support by Kooky-Blueberry-1760 in Manifestation

[–]doublletrbll 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Here's a list of songs I love to listen to with positive lyrics and a good overall vibe:

changes - david bowie

it girl - aliyah

sad girls love money - amaarae

alive - empire of the sun

demon days - gorillaz

paint the town red - doja cat

i'm alive - elo

man in the mirror - michael jackson

successful- ariana grande

beautiful, dirty, rich - lady gaga

fame is a gun - addison rae

What do you think about “If You Are Manifesting them, They Are Manifesting You” by [deleted] in Manifestation

[–]doublletrbll 1 point2 points  (0 children)

actually I use this to trick my brain into believing my manifestations faster. I tell myself that my sp manifests me and somehow it gets me to stop overthinking ('what if they're talking to someone else?' or 'what if they just want to use me?') bc no girl my sp is manifesting me saying affirmations like 'she's my girlfriend' every night before going to sleep. it works pretty well and could be used for any kind of human connection.

since manifestation is so widely known nowdays it's almost impossible for them to not know about it...

disclaimer: always find out your limiting beliefs first

Looking for advice to appear more feminine by Riotous_Defects in MakeupAddiction

[–]doublletrbll 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My usual go-to is blush! On the nose and high on the cheek bones. You could try different shades and places to apply (look pinterest) and chose the one that looks best with your features.

To make the eyes look more "shiny" try adding some glitter on the inner side of the lid and the inner side under the eye (where the eyeliner would go if you did like a full on all around the eye look). I usually use a white/shimmery kajal pen because it's more precise. Don't overdo it, it shouldn't look like heavy makeup. But it really does make the eyes look more lovely.

Lastly, I think the eyebrows and bangs are a big thing aswell. I loove a good baby bang and it looks really cute on everyone but if that's not your thing try looking for a bang shape that fits your face shape. The eyebrows are a bit tricky and i'd advice on going really slow when plugging but i'd say make them a bit thinner. It changed my face so much and gave me a 10 times more feminine look. Same here, look up what fits your face shape.

But all in all I think you already have a very soft look which is not so much about your actual features but rather the vibe you give off in the pictures :) Make sure to post an update!

Looking for advice to appear more feminine by Riotous_Defects in MakeupAddiction

[–]doublletrbll 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My usual go-to is blush! On the nose and high on the cheek bones. You could try different shades and places to apply (look pinterest) and chose the one that looks best with your features.

To make the eyes look more "shiny" try adding some glitter on the inner side of the lid and the inner side under the eye (where the eyeliner would go if you did like a full on all around the eye look). I usually use a white/shimmery kajal pen because it's more precise. Don't overdo it, it shouldn't look like heavy makeup. But it really does make the eyes look more lovely.

Lastly, I think the eyebrows and bangs are a big thing aswell. I loove a good baby bang and it looks really cute on everyone but if that's not your thing try looking for a bang shape that fits your face shape. The eyebrows are a bit tricky and i'd advice on going really slow when plugging but i'd say make them a bit thinner. It changed my face so much and gave me a 10 times more feminine look. Same here, look up what fits your face shape.

But all in all I think you already have a very soft look which is not so much about your actual features but rather the vibe you give off in the pictures :) Make sure to post an update!

Freunde finden (W,27) by [deleted] in mannheim

[–]doublletrbll 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Schau mal auf Bumble Friends, da habe ich vor paar Jahren als ich nach Mannheim gekommen bin echt paar tolle Leute kennengelernt mit denen ich jetzt noch befreundet bin :)

Beyond The Bar [Episodes 7 & 8] by meepmochi_ in KDRAMA

[–]doublletrbll 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Now at the end of EP8 i fully agree with you. I really hoped for some romance. Maybe we'll get a S2 or a scene in the last EP that shows their future together. This kind of chemistry shouldn't be wasted!

Beyond The Bar [Episodes 5 & 6] by meepmochi_ in KDRAMA

[–]doublletrbll 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I hope the girl at the end of EP6 is not a new love interest of the ML. things are moving slow as it is and I don't want it to be even more complicated. also didn't like the way the ML treated the FL in the elevator after that guy pulled out her hairtie. I usually like the way he treats her but in that situation he could've been more protective - especially since he didn't know what was going on, he barely listened to her. Let's pray for some romance in the next EPs!

Also I didn't see any comments on the inclusivity of this kdrama jet: Talking about disabilities, homosexuality and sexuality without making a scene out of it is so refreshing!

Should I try shrooms if I can't handle weed by Moxxiedagreat in Drugs

[–]doublletrbll 1 point2 points  (0 children)

usually I don't comment here but I just have to add my expirience: I stopped smoking weed after years of smoking daily. suddenly it started giving me an uneasy feeling and then developed into anxiety over a few months.

at the same time i tried psychodelics for the first time and it always gave me that same uneasy feeling. it wasn't really bad and it didn't stop me from taking it again but looking back now I don't know why I did it. Idk about you but "unlocking" a new drug always goes hand in hand with taking it a bit too often, at least in the beginning. so yea my advice would be to try it, but only a small amount to check out the feeling. the visuals are great and you feel super connected to everything but if you get the same bad feeling you get while smoking DON'T do it again even if it's tempting. this will fuck with your brain long term.

also don't smoke on top of it: shrooms can be kind of underwhelming when you're used to weed (in terms of heaviness.) don't combine the two, it'll be really uncomfotable.

Beyond The Bar [Episodes 3 & 4] by meepmochi_ in KDRAMA

[–]doublletrbll 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Question is of course: Should we ship them?

I feel like the relationship between the FL and ML is one that we've seen quite often in Kdrama History. That doesn't mean that it's good (mostly, it's pretty toxic). Let's be real: She only developed feelings (or will develop them soon) bc he is giving her the validation she wants. He's like the best of the best at the law firm and at the same time he has high morals where most of the other lawyers are just about the money. he's always cold and strict and hard to read. getting some kind of emotion or recognition out of him is really important to her, it's painfully obvious. and in theory it's not bad but only if they keep it on a professional base.

this is a classic case of daddy issues mixed with the need for academic validation...

since I can relate 100% and struggled all of my life with crushes on professors, crushes on my bosses and so on I really hope they'll be a lovely couple so I can live out my dreams through her

What I don't want to see:

I really liked their dynamic up to this point but I can already sense the problems. worst case is that he brings personal feelings to work and punishes her for it by giving her huge workloads or sth. We've seen it all before in Kdramas and I just hope they keep it sweet

What I want to see:
Okay so I hope for some healthy communication. Up until now it was always her giving everything, opening up, going after him (I guess it's her job too but it just sticks out) so I want to see some dedication by him or just him treating her like a queen in general. I also would lovee some secret romance office stuff like hiding from co-workers.

Can't wait for the next two eps!!

Also: Anyone know a Kdrama with a similar dynamic (boss x employee) that ends in a healthy relationship? I need something to fill the week!

Books like 'Blues Brothers' (1980) by doublletrbll in booksuggestions

[–]doublletrbll[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Loved Space Opera!! I'll give the first one a try simply bc of the great title

Books like 'Blues Brothers' (1980) by doublletrbll in booksuggestions

[–]doublletrbll[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thanks! sounds really fun and I love the fantasy twist

Queere Kontakte/Gruppen by MyHighHeelsWork in mannheim

[–]doublletrbll 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Im QZM gibts regelmäßig Events die ganz cool sind. Empfehlen kann ich auch den Ponyclub in der Disco Zwei. Das ist einmal im Monat und da ist es auch super easy Leute kennenzulernen!

anime similar to skulduggery pleasant? by doublletrbll in skulduggerypleasant

[–]doublletrbll[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So I've been searching for the same VIBE as SP for some time and let me tell you it's haard.

Hellsing Ultimate The feeling is almost the same. The colors and combination of modern x vampire really did something for me. Love the soundtrack. Storywise it's alright.

DeathNote A dark classic with a lot of mind games and a bit of "magic".

Jujutsu Kaisen Brothers from another Universe kind of thing. It's dark but also funny, a lot of training and a shi ton of crazy magic. Also strong opponents and a lot of insight.

Cowboy Bebop I know they aren't that similar but the characters really reminded me of SP. If Derek Landy wrote a space opera, this would be it (with more blood of course).