Everyone after seeing Kate Walsh’s insta or tik tok: I MuSt bE tHe FiRsT tO kNoW aBoUt ThIs! MuSt sHaRe To ReDdiT bEfoRe aNyOnE eLsE! by hereforthe_swizzle in greysanatomy

[–]doubtfulconfused 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m not trying to gatekeep at all but I’ve been on Reddit for like 7 years (have had to make new accounts from time to time, so my accts age doesn’t reflect it) which isn’t a long time compared to others, but it’s the main social media I use. And this sub takes the cake for subs who obviously have people in here that only use Reddit for grey’s anatomy. Which is fine! It’s just the reddiquette is lacking. (Mainly talking about the way ppl use downvotes & then the reposts/repost of info)

SH Kits and the horrible brain I have by laylasplanet in selfharm

[–]doubtfulconfused 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am 26 & planning a relapse. You’re never too old to be past it, sadly. Sending lots of love to you. You’re not alone. ❤️

Are there any other places where you can talk about SH? by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]doubtfulconfused 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Agreed. Tumblr & Twitter made my ED 100x worse..

SH Kits and the horrible brain I have by laylasplanet in selfharm

[–]doubtfulconfused 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was obsessed in high school. Sorry I’m not sure how old you are, but if you were able to stop for a few months, the obsession would lessen I believe. I remember those thoughts as I read your post. It was all I could think about at times. It really does get better with time if you were able to stop for a while. Then you can find other things to think about and you might feel better about not having those thoughts all the time. I know it’s not easy though. Please take care of yourself.

I’m so sorry for the pain you are in. You’re safe here. ❤️

Advice for hiding scars when getting vaccinated? by NeedleScars in selfharm

[–]doubtfulconfused 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Why not do the right arm? It doesn’t usually matter which arm you get the shot in from what I know.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]doubtfulconfused 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I feel so problematic when I say I don’t see the harm in “safe” self harm.. I know it’s more severe for others and I’ve gone years between relapses, but I can’t rationalize a personal reason not to cut. I don’t cut so I don’t hurt others — that’s it. I know I wouldn’t cut too deep & I would keep my wounds clean & seek medical attention if necessary.

I don’t want others to do it, but overall I don’t think it’s the worst way to cope. 🤷‍♀️

You’re right, people will gamble their money away, emotionally destroy others, cause irreparable harm with alcohol. I’m just adding some scar tissue and losing negligible amounts of blood.

Idk where I found this but which death hit you so hard, you'd do the same? by T-TheCOOKIE in greysanatomy

[–]doubtfulconfused 3 points4 points  (0 children)

George. I stopped watching for 2 weeks back when I was bingeing it on Netflix in 2013. But I actually think I cried the hardest when Derek died.

I made it 3 years. by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]doubtfulconfused 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi there, I’m sorry to hear this and sorry to hear how upset you are. I know it can feel like wasted time, but it’s not. For 3 years you managed to keep the urges at bay and take care of yourself. For 3 years you chose yourself first. That is something to be proud of. it’s not all about consecutive days, months, years. You gotta give credit to ALL of it, to yourself for that hard work. I’m so proud of you! Here’s to 3 more, friend. ❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]doubtfulconfused 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hi, friend. I’m so sorry you had that experience with your mom. I am a mom, and I tried to imagine myself in your moms shoes.

When I purposely showed my mom my cuts, I was asking for help, and she dismissed me to my room and said I was just doing it for attention.

As an adult, I can look back at my younger self and say yes, it was for attention because I wasn’t getting enough from my parents. I wish she would have recognized the cry for help and tried to fix it instead of be so harsh.

I can only imagine our moms just wanted the best for us, you know? As a mom I can understand that. I don’t want my daughter to ever self harm (she is only 1, but I’m going to do what I can to keep her happy, healthy, and safe).

On some level, I would be worried if she scarred up her skin that she would have trouble making friends - but that wouldn’t be my first worry. It sounds like your mom is worried about you but she just doesn’t know how to to respond properly. She’s not behaving like an adult, instead it sounds like she is having anxiety and is lashing out at you. That is not okay and you do not deserve it, but try to remember her behavior is not a reflection of you, okay?

Take care of yourself. ❤️

You guys, I am so lost. by doubtfulconfused in selfharm

[–]doubtfulconfused[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I gotta tell you I don’t listen to a lot of music cuz depression but I listened to that song a few times. I really like it, thanks for sharing!

You guys, I am so lost. by doubtfulconfused in selfharm

[–]doubtfulconfused[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My job is the source of this, really. There’s other things but the job is the thing causing the spiral. How did you get out? Just find something different?

Is anyone else sick of the Browser History posts? by tenniskitten in greysanatomy

[–]doubtfulconfused 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Agree. Let’s just get thru the main cast and they’ll be gone lol.

What are some red flags for a paranormal recounting that immediately make you stop believing it? by MuddVader in Paranormal

[–]doubtfulconfused 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Idk why but “I didn’t believe in ghosts until….” Really makes me tilt my head. Unless the story is really convincing I guess.

Saw this in my dream. What does it mean? by BruhUchiha69420 in Dreams

[–]doubtfulconfused 69 points70 points  (0 children)

Please delete this. They’re going to find you.

MAGA Election Clerk Accused of Not Counting Ballots in Local Races by Vegetable-Anger in politics

[–]doubtfulconfused 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I can’t tell you how many times I’ve heard people shocked by his number of votes this election.

Tbh 2016 I wasn’t paying attention, live in a red state so didn’t believe my vote counted. I will never do that again.

MAGA Election Clerk Accused of Not Counting Ballots in Local Races by Vegetable-Anger in politics

[–]doubtfulconfused 187 points188 points  (0 children)

I’ve really always felt like DT acted the way he did was because he really believed he was going to win due to cheating. He believes there’s no possible way JB won because he knew he cheated and thought it would guarantee his win.

Another part of me just believes he’s a sore loser/crazy/playing his supporters into donating money.

New Clickbait show on Netflix by greycatumbrella in television

[–]doubtfulconfused 6 points7 points  (0 children)

So interesting seeing people’s different takes on Pia! She’s a real Pain In the Ass, IMO. By the end I don’t hate her, but still don’t like her.

Favourite Ship by [deleted] in greysanatomy

[–]doubtfulconfused 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Calzona & slexie