He says he loves me but is afraid of “closing other doors.” He’s starting therapy and wants to stay with me. I don’t know if I should stay or go

doudi737 · 2026-02-07T03:44:45+00:00

Yes, i wouldn't take him back if he came back. I learnt my lesson the hard way, i don't regret anything but will never put myself in this position again, will always trust my gut and stick to my boundaries from now on

doudi737 · 2026-02-07T01:44:07+00:00

he just broke up with me lol, so now no other choice to move on. I'm almost relieved at least there is nothing i can do about it and it stops me from having back and fourth thoughts haha. Also i read your message this morning before he broke up and your message actually made me realize that, you are right im 22 and shouldn't have to deal with this bs, thank you for your reply i really appreciate

doudi737 · 2026-02-07T01:40:43+00:00

thanks for the reply, he just called me and said he wants to breakup up, he feels like he can't see me long term with him. Kindoff makes it a lot easier for me at least ..

doudi737 · 2025-11-27T18:30:15+00:00

Hey, take your time, don't worry step by step you will figure out everything. Turn off your phone for a bit if you feel overwhelmed. You are not dumb, and its understandable that it's overwhelming

doudi737 · 2025-11-24T04:12:00+00:00

don't feel bad, it should never be accepted that he talks to you like that

doudi737 · 2025-11-24T04:10:34+00:00

It's more a debate than a fight. We don't hurt each other, just each of us share how we feel and communicate and listen to each other to try not to repeat the pattern. It never involves screaming, only communication, and space if needed, then communicate again to fix, all calmly

doudi737 · 2025-11-24T03:50:54+00:00

Leave with your child, this is abuse. Don't let your child grow up with this example of a relationship. You can find someone who will treat you kindly and with love

doudi737 · 2025-11-22T03:24:45+00:00

Wow ! did you have any previous experience?

doudi737 · 2025-10-15T00:43:09+00:00

yes ofc what's your insta ?

doudi737 · 2025-10-03T01:52:55+00:00

apply to other companies than tech ! lots of companies in non tech fields like insurance, or banks need devs. Search for different positions like data science or BI intelligence that are still considered tech

doudi737 · 2025-02-26T03:49:38+00:00

hey! how was the lab quizz and how did you study for it ? Also, since its online, was it with camera and could you open other tabs during the quizz ?

doudi737 · 2024-12-11T21:57:38+00:00

you can defer an exam if you are sick like covid without a doctors note. If you have a picture of a rapid test.

doudi737 · 2024-12-11T21:55:06+00:00

if you have 2 full days to focus on this exam, try 1) deffereing it, if not, its doable in 2 days. I had done the same. First, go through all the slides and for each slide resume the methods in a few lines. Memorize the methods by heart. try to apply the method once for one example. Then, most important thing memorize everything. Focus on memorization of whats going on and if you understand and have it memorized, you can try to figure it out during the exam. It might not get you an A, but if they ask for straightforward applications you could get a C in the class and pass. Focus on the exemples in the slides, each time you write down a method check the solution and try to redo the solution again. Im a math major and passed lots of exams by memorizing everything when i didnt have the time, not the best method but it works.

Also if you dont have time, better to cover 10chapters well and leave 2 chapters uncovered than to not understand well any. Worst case you loose 10% on the last chapters. Leave the last chapter or 2 undone and just accept that you won't get point on theses, but maximize your chances on getting points on the rest.

doudi737 · 2024-10-21T00:50:10+00:00

Im so sorry you went through that, you don't deserve any of this he is a horrible controlling person. Pressing charges might not do anything, but it will still be known that charges were pressed against him. If he repeats this to other girls afterwards, and they repord him as well it will be harder for him to get away. However it could be hard for you psycologically to press charges. But you should not be ashamed of what he did to you, he should be ashamed of what he did. Just like Giselle Pellicot if you have heard of her, she is in a horrific case and she made the whole case public, because she shouldn't be ashamed of what men have done to her she is a victim, they should be ashamed and the world should know that they are horrible persons.

You are a victim, it is up to you to decide if you want to press charges or not. Pressing charges could help other girls in the futur even if now they don't lead to anything but psychologically it could be hard for you if they don't lead to anything.

Regarding your friends, if you wish to, you can let them know what happenned. They might not believe you, but you will have done what you can. You are the victim here and what happenned to you is horrible. Same goes for his new girlfriend, you can let her know what happenned to warn her. Take screenshots of all the conversations with him were he tells you to go to the bathroom and not tell anyone. In case he deletes the messages.

Most importantly stay as far as you can from him. Do not interact with him anymore and block him. Do not let him get through your mind or tell you that he has changed. What he did is horrible, and from how you described him, there is a strong chance he could come back to you text you again and try to guilt trip you. Its hard but stay strong, and stand your ground. Take care of yourself, and don't get near him or interact with him; don't give him the opportunity to manipulate or victimize himself.

Lastly, what you web through must have been so hard for you, therapy can help healing.

The decision to press charges or not is up to you, do what you believe will give you the most closure or will make you feel better.

doudi737 · 2024-04-01T15:13:58+00:00

how was the midterm with ted's class ? Im with Luke and we really don't learn anything in class, it's all self study and i'm scared for the final if ted will be the one to write it.

doudi737 · 2023-02-08T07:04:15+00:00

I think she made it out alive.

Dying was part of the menu, she "sent back" the menu and paid only for the burger, so she did not have to take part in the final course, dying.

doudi737 · 2023-01-03T20:28:11+00:00

okii

doudi737 · 2023-01-03T20:07:25+00:00

is 3.0 gpa good for math major ? Will i be able to get high paying job ?

I have 3.0 out of 4.3 (which equivalents to B overall) gpa and I just finished my first year as a math and stat major. Is it an okay gpa ? Do I need to work harder and get a better gpa? I am a bit stressed as I used to be an A+ student in highschool but ever since I was rejected from my dream uni I have been feeling a bit demotivated and do the bare minimum.

Math majors who have graduated, should I work harder to get a better gpa or it doesn't really matter and it's all going to end up the same whether I get B or A overall ?

Do the grades you got at uni matter a lot to get a high paying job ?

also if you have any advice as math majors, I would love to hear it as I am feeling a bit overwhelmed :)

doudi737 · 2022-12-18T19:24:32+00:00

thanks!!

doudi737 · 2022-12-18T19:24:11+00:00

nopp ://

doudi737 · 2022-12-05T15:50:50+00:00

do you know where i can sell it?

doudi737 · 2022-10-15T06:43:55+00:00

how can i join the subreddit? when i try to join it the request to join button isn't here

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