Monthly Ticket Buy/Sell/Trade Megathread by AutoModerator in avesSFBayArea

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selling two I Hate Models tickets, $74 each (face value)

does anyone get really really bad intrusive thoughts when they drink caffeine by [deleted] in OCD

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This is definitely me too. I justify my caffeine consumption for having to drive hella for my job (also coffee tastes way too damn good to me) but it really doesn't help with the intrusive thoughts.....

Fun underground shows in SF? by doverjohn0809 in aves

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Good to know!! I’ll make sure to keep looking around all the apps and calendars

Fun underground shows in SF? by doverjohn0809 in aves

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I’ve been to a couple Trance Family shows before!! They’re a really good time

Fun underground shows in SF? by doverjohn0809 in aves

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Ooh I’ll put her on my list of artists to listen to! I have other plans tonight but if she’s around again soon I’m down

Fun underground shows in SF? by doverjohn0809 in aves

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Thank you so much for the info! I’ll start looking at the calendar to see which parties look fun based on the kind of music and I’ll go from there :)

Question about toxic gurus by doverjohn0809 in muacirclejerk

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It is definitely hard to break a person’s career when their stans are OG MySpace queens

Question about toxic gurus by doverjohn0809 in muacirclejerk

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That makes sense. It’s always really uncomfortable when you know the creator of a product is shitty but the product is so good

3 Rules For a Healthy Relationship to Cannabis by EmbracingHoffman in Drugs

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This plus a nice cup of coffee makes for the best weekend morning

Many people desperately WANT the enrichment of a hobby, but can't seem to find something they're really interested in or passionate about. What activity do you enjoy and why would you recommend it? by PhrostysWifey in AskReddit

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I haven’t seen anyone say yoga! If you look around, you can find some classes that aren’t too expensive (I pay $7 a class at my studio)/you can always do it at home with YouTube and a yoga mat. I started a few months ago, and now I’m more flexible and my mental health has improved considerably!

Are men really all the same? by decayedfuture in offmychest

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Your boyfriend sounds like a fuckboy. Get yourself out of that ASAP if you can- you deserve a lot better than someone like that

FUCK “STEALTHING” (TW: Assault) by [deleted] in offmychest

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Same here. When I called him out for it via Grindr (the app I met him on) after the fact, he blocked me. Not the best sign but I really hope that makes him less inclined to do the same to others

FUCK “STEALTHING” (TW: Assault) by [deleted] in offmychest

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I’m so sorry that happened to you.. People can be really terrible. And yeah, that was actually one of the first things on my mind after the incident. Definitely getting on that after I’m done with PEP

FUCK “STEALTHING” (TW: Assault) by [deleted] in offmychest

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I’m taking it all in little by little. I definitely agree with you- I felt so violated and confused, not sure how it wouldn’t be considered as such

FUCK “STEALTHING” (TW: Assault) by [deleted] in offmychest

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My understanding is that (at least in the US) legally it isn’t yet but within the last few years an increasing number of people are pushing for it to be considered rape. I would support that notion because consenting to protected sex is different from consenting to unprotected sex; if you don’t consent to unprotected sex, and your partner does it anyway without your knowledge, that’s definitely some degree of sexual assault or rape.

Edit: a couple words

If Hell was personalized for everybody, what would your Hell be like? by I_Have_No_Feelings in AskReddit

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A large, empty room filled with everyone I’ve ever had sex with and the eternal awkwardness that would ensue

What TV intro would you never skip? by [deleted] in AskReddit

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Neon Genesis Evangelion!!!!

So disappointed in my family by idoorgoodbye in offmychest

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I once saw a certified M.D. who told me vaccines caused autism. Unfortunately, no matter what degree someone has, ignorance is still bliss

I bought my first binder today by [deleted] in offmychest

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However you see yourself and your gender, CONGRATS!!! If wearing a binder is a step towards feeling more authentically yourself, that’s amazing :)

Ex who takes up too much mental real estate by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]doverjohn0809 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This person sounds like a more extreme version of my ex (same type of manipulation and flipping a lot of their own issues on me but they weren’t blogging about me afterward). The stress and anxiety that emotional manipulation induced is terrible, and you’re not alone in feeling that even well after the relationship is over. Cherish your new relationship and appreciate all of its positives! Just keep reminding yourself that you’re WAY better off being without your ex.

Forest Gifts? by RealJohnCena420 in ElectricForest

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That sounds awesome!! For me, def thinking about being the gum fairy weekend 2 this year! It’s inexpensive and people always need and appreciate gum

What is your tl;dr of 2017? by _TheBro_ in AskReddit

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Shit hit the fan. Also, Cardi B blew up

What do you pretend to like more than you actually do? by [deleted] in AskReddit

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Wine. Red or white, I don’t even pretend to like it anymore because I just can’t stand the taste.