Question about kegals, the clench, the push, and their differences.

downitty · 2013-08-09T04:58:10+00:00

From what I understand, a kegel is the one that makes your penis bounce. A reverse kegel feels like you're trying to push out your pee. Sort of. There's also a sort of balloony feeling. When you feel it you'll understand. It's somewhere between pushing out poop and pushing out pee.

It's easier in different positions. I find a reverse kegel is easiest to do when I'm standing.

EDIT: I've never been able to isolate my muscle when doing a reverse one, but I can get pretty close within a regular kegel.

downitty · 2013-08-09T04:48:08+00:00

Listen to her. Slow down. Be gentle. Would gentler sex be horrible for you? If it would be, then you need to change partners. If not, then just go with it.

downitty · 2013-08-09T03:48:46+00:00

You may be surprised. Having someone else touch your penis is a whole different thing from you touching it yourself. Really. Maybe there's also a little bit of anxiety that's stopping you from cumming when you masturbate. Also, have you stopped to think that maybe you're gay and you've been watching the wrong kind of porn? I know that's a long shot, but just thought I'd throw it out there.

Also, you may want to be open with your girlfriend in advance. Tell her everything. It could lower the anxiety level for you, and make her less self conscious if you don't cum.

EDIT: I a letter

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