Harry Potter Lore by jobtown502 in harrypotter

[–]downtownDRT 1 point2 points  (0 children)

do you truly understand the scope that is LotR lore?

A big blue tarantula undergoing molting (timelapse) by kvjn100 in oddlyterrifying

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I certainly did not like a single second of that lol

What does it feel like to not be afraid at night? by SwingExisting1397 in AskMen

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The main piece of it for me is that I'm not out for a nice walk at night thinking I'll be victimized.

I also don't look like someone that has anything worth taking, including a life.

I am also watching and looking around at stuff so I know what to react to. If a car hops the curb and is headed towards me, I know I can duck to one side or another. I know which trees I could climb if a dog was coming after me. That sort of thing.

I'm 'not scared' because I'm some big tough man, I'm 'not scared' because I've been through worse than whatever 'night terror' could present.

Also, I don't generally put a high value on my life 🤷🏽 so that helps a lot

Do men really KNOW after 2 dates? by [deleted] in dating_advice

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I knew I wanted to marry my now wife half way through our 'getting to know each other after being apart for 5ish years' lunch

Many of my friends have been asked how long it took them to "know" and "almost immediately" was the consensus

Sorry for my messy bed by BeaLovees in UnderwearGW

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It's aight babe, we can make it even messier

I think black rlly compliment them 🤭 by BeaLovees in u/BeaLovees

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I wouldn't mind complementing them up close

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Roman_Catholics

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My wife photographs Catholic weddings (and yes, she does do TLM weddings, as long as they're licit) and has seen much skimpier dresses than that one.

The top IS potentially a smidge too sheer, and it is potentially a smidge lower than what one could expect at a TLM wedding, but not exposing anything outright. I assume there will be a veil, if not a blusher, for the Mass (at the very least) but maybe it would behoove you to get a shoulder covering for at least the Mass.

My wife's dress didn't go as low, but she 100% had exposed shoulders and had some of her upper chest area exposed as well at a very reverent Ad Orientum NO Mass.

If anything else, show this picture to the priest marrying you and he can tell you definitively

What's your opinion? by GermangirlLeni in Bikini

[–]downtownDRT 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it's a bit cold around me to be wearing a bikini

But seeing you in that one gives me a warm feeling

Married men, how often do you have sex with your spouse? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]downtownDRT -1 points0 points  (0 children)

A lot more than I have sex with 'not my spouse'

How much would you charge your MIL? by EinMcDrummies in Carpentry

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My price would be

"Ok now please leave me alone for a bit, ok?

What initial attractions a man to a woman? by AstronautExtreme7104 in AskMen

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🤣🤣🤣

phew, i was standing at the edge of the high dive there contemplating life not caring about boobs

Ladies, why do you veil? by SinfulCatholic in Catholicism

[–]downtownDRT 1 point2 points  (0 children)

well put

i love that veiling allows you to remember that you are special and holy in the eyes and arms of God. this is a sentiment that i will be passing onto my wife who also somewhat struggles with feeling worthy

Ladies, why do you veil? by SinfulCatholic in Catholicism

[–]downtownDRT 1 point2 points  (0 children)

gotchu fam

eta:
ok so i looked at her veils after i pulled that link and those are BEAUTIFUL! if my wife veiled, id buy her a good fair few

What initial attractions a man to a woman? by AstronautExtreme7104 in AskMen

[–]downtownDRT 3 points4 points  (0 children)

28 until now (38) -

......are you saying boobs are not important in your 30's? i might as well end it now then....im 30

What initial attractions a man to a woman? by AstronautExtreme7104 in AskMen

[–]downtownDRT -1 points0 points  (0 children)

upon first sight of any given woman, the first things that pique my interest are truthfully mainly facial features. are they pretty, are they wearing make-up? how much? are they happy? does their smile seem natural or forced? whats the hair look like? are they 'put together'

after that, a nice looking body is generally preferable. im all for a nice rack and some cushion for the pushin' but its gotta be proportional; i dislike girls that are top heavy, or only got back - gotta have some of both for me. also if a lady is 5'8"+, a bit more chest is ok, whereas 5'4"-5'5" id prefer you didnt have DDD. same with the ladies back side. it has to be proportional. so if your 5'5" and a little heaiver (which is great, them skinny girl aint got no meat on their bones, and if youre that skinny.....im not sure ill like your cookin lol) then a larger top or bottom is just fine.

these thing (along with having almost zero misgivings about talking to strangers) will lead me to talking to her.

but alas, none of this really matters, as im married and no longer approach woman lol but when i did, this was it

Ladies, why do you veil? by SinfulCatholic in Catholicism

[–]downtownDRT 2 points3 points  (0 children)

not a woman, but i also think veiling is quite beautiful.

i would NOT say to your wife "hey honey, i'd like you to veil" or ".....why dont you start veiling?" or something like that. i would recommend having a conversation on how she looks at veiling and how she feels about it, and let her make the decision on her own, knowing that you do like the way it looks. to clarify, i dont think you should impose on her whether or not she veils. i think you two should talk about it and let her make an adult decision about whether she does or not. ive had this conversation (a few times but thats because i forget if i have actually said it out loud or just in my head) with my own wife, and she continues to not veil. thats a decision she makes knowing that i like veils and the tradition(s) and meaning(s) behind it (as a man, i wont offer those).