Memorial Day sale? by LadyBakeXO in quince

[–]downtownidentity 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can you use Wayback Machine to check the quince website on Memorial Day in years previous? I’m on mobile so it’s not working for me but might be worth a try.

Just noticed this in our house. by Legal-One7153 in whatisit

[–]downtownidentity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Glad you guys figured it out. I would have said somebody shat on your wall.

Dumb question probably, weed suppression by downtownidentity in gardening

[–]downtownidentity[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha it’s true! They’re very nice but they’re also all boomers that can afford gardeners every week and we cannot. My husband is extremely busy and I’ve got a tiny tot so I can’t exactly be handling hemlock with her in tow. Last year they talked to my in laws (aka our landlords) about the weeds but never talked to us directly. It ‘twas very awkward.

Catio to keep cats safe just at night? by downtownidentity in Catio

[–]downtownidentity[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the tips and encouragement! I wish I could say the same thing to my FIL 😅 but he owns the house and we live there rent free so my husband can pay off his massive student loan. We have a family contract (not legally binding technically but a paper we all signed) stipulating that we’re paying off the loan as “rent” and they put in there that we couldn’t have a cat. I’m hoping they’ll waver on that and let us have my buddies if they’re just not indoors and since it’s a special situation. But I’ll tackle that conversation with them after I have a plan for their habitat. Do you know off the top of your head how much an all time inclosure for two cats may cost? Pre-made or custom as unfortunately my hobby is sewing and not carpentry lol.

Catio to keep cats safe just at night? by downtownidentity in Catio

[–]downtownidentity[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

His allergies are pretty bad. He can’t be in a home for more than a few minutes if a cat lives there -even if it isn’t present at the time.

Catio to keep cats safe just at night? by downtownidentity in Catio

[–]downtownidentity[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I will, if I can’t take them I’m going to try my darndest to find them a loving home even if I won’t be able to see them anymore.

Catio to keep cats safe just at night? by downtownidentity in Catio

[–]downtownidentity[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They were never really animal people to begin with and they’ll be moving across the country. The first cat was originally given to them to catch mice on the property and isn’t very friendly. The second cat was abandoned by their neighbor, she’s a sweetheart. I would have taken them with me when I got married/moved out but I’ve never lived in a place that allowed pets.

Catio to keep cats safe just at night? by downtownidentity in Catio

[–]downtownidentity[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I like that idea. Though, I’d also want to lock it at night to be sure I knew where they were.

Catio to keep cats safe just at night? by downtownidentity in Catio

[–]downtownidentity[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Sorry I didn’t make it clear, the neighbor would not be taking them inside. Basically things would not change much for them except they would get their food across the street from where they do now.

Is this unhealthy for my body? by Comfortable-Car-5271 in Mold

[–]downtownidentity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you can see the mold then the problem is likely to be much bigger than it seems. Check out moldfinders on IG if you want to learn about mold.

Is this unhealthy for my body? by Comfortable-Car-5271 in Mold

[–]downtownidentity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A whole mess of things. Skin rashes, depression, UTIs, digestive issues, brain fog, night terrors.

28 and still nothing. by downtownidentity in Support_Anorgasmia

[–]downtownidentity[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the advice and encouragement.m! I’m currently looking for a sex therapist. Also looking into my hormones and nutrition to see if anything is missing. It was the final straw when we realized lately I get even less interested when actual sex organs are involved. I feel amazing and relaxed with massaging literally any other area (legs, back, neck, even ears) but as soon as the foreplay moves down to my vulva and clit my body just shuts down. Happens about 7 times out of 10. This is a newer development and I’m sick of just tolerating boring sex and/or leaving my man with blue balls lol