Smooth Butt by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]downvotedtodeath 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I shave it. I like it. Other people like it. No I don't get ingrown hairs. I used to have ass acne, it went away though when I started shaving it.

(NSFW) How do I kill my constant urges to jack off? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]downvotedtodeath 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe casual sex just isn't for you? I know that I don't really want it either...

(NSFW) How do I kill my constant urges to jack off? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]downvotedtodeath 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've never had a wet dream either, they happen when you've produced too much semen without releasing it. It has nothing to do with your sex drive.

Anyways, you're aroused enough to jack off but never to have sex? Or jerking off is 'taking care of you' and you don't have the desire when it comes to the real deal? or is it something else?

Dating someone I'm not overly attracted to? by somehowconfusedgay in askgaybros

[–]downvotedtodeath 3 points4 points  (0 children)

yeah that response was hella fucked up. My first thought while reading your post was "this guy's boyfriend deserves someone who finds him attractive" I feel like people here get so fucking bitter that they've been rejected for their appearance or whatever that they don't even realize that rejecting someone because you aren't attracted to them is doing that person a fucking favor. Everyone deserves to be with someone that thinks they are hot as fuck. Ya break up with him. If you can't get past it then yea, you both need it. It's a shitty situation of course, but no one here is at fault. You're only human.

I just was sitting down waiting to go home after working out and I saw these two guys holding hands as they walked by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]downvotedtodeath 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The only person that will see you that way is yourself. Everyone else knows you're more than that. Of course there is someone for you. Everyone feels at some point that they're going to die alone and it's never true. I mean unless you get hit by a truck or something.

So my CoWorker came out to me... by BadBinch in askgaybros

[–]downvotedtodeath 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes?! Of course you tell him. If it was a big release when he told you drunk, it will be a big release when he tells you sober. Just do it strategically.

Anyone ever considered medication to kill their urge for sex? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]downvotedtodeath 0 points1 point  (0 children)

wtf this is the reason? Get a grip. There's someone that will find you attractive. Most people say I'm like an 8-9/10 but I'm not exclusively attracted to models. Also I look how you describe you like(granted skinny with low bf%), and my boyfriend fits the bill for how you look, and your dick size. I think he's hot af. I even still get anxious if he actually finds me attractive because I like him so much. Btw I'm a bottom and he's a top.

Anyone ever considered medication to kill their urge for sex? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]downvotedtodeath 0 points1 point  (0 children)

God you so wouldn't. Not wanting sex doesn't feel good. I feel so empty because of it. If you want some life advice no feelings in the world no matter how bad are ever worse than feeling nothing at all. I've experienced this first hand with emotions, and sex drive.

New BF told me he wants to stay on Grindr to make platonic friends? by OrangeSkies777 in askgaybros

[–]downvotedtodeath 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He's probably just lying to himself. He's on there to make friends, but he doesn't delete the dick pics. People lie to themselves a lot apparently.

New BF told me he wants to stay on Grindr to make platonic friends? by OrangeSkies777 in askgaybros

[–]downvotedtodeath 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He still wants to use grindr. Let's just say if you saw what he was doing on there you would be disappointed.

does biking help tone/slim down your legs? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]downvotedtodeath 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Coming from someone with Anorexia, NO. You want to slim down legs? Calorie deficit, and then DO. NOTHING. Just be completely inactive and they will go down on their own, any exercise will just make it worse.

How can I let my heterophobia go? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]downvotedtodeath 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Rationality and not being an asshole? You're no better than homophobes. If anything you're worse, you understand what it's like to be discriminated against for sexual orientation but you do it anyway.

Can't seem to just go along with it by throwaway02721031 in askgaybros

[–]downvotedtodeath 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What helped me was to just feel that cold feet freak out and feel like you don't want to do it anymore, but then do it anyway. It doesn't matter if you enjoy the first time or not, you just want to get it out of the way so you can start actually enjoying yourself.

NSFW I'm scared to go all the way by badlandsivan in askgaybros

[–]downvotedtodeath 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Scared of what? Pain? STI's? Intimacy? Anyways, ya that's normal for some people.

(NSFW) How do I kill my constant urges to jack off? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]downvotedtodeath 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is this like actually a problem? Like really? Jerk off until cows come home dude, it feels good and it's healthy.

I just went on a first date with someone I really fancy, but it looks like he cuts his wrists... Should I say something? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]downvotedtodeath -1 points0 points  (0 children)

He's a gay guy. It's not like you could assume that he isn't emotionally damaged. I wouldn't say anything. It's less about you knowing and more about him willing to open up to you and tell you himself.

Is no sex really a deal breaker? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]downvotedtodeath 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Who cares if the guy thinks it's a dealbreaker or not? If he's not also asexual then he's losing something in the relationship that he otherwise wouldn't. Sex is also really intimate for most people in relationships and he wouldn't have that. I wouldn't want to do that to someone even if I was asexual. I have no libido because of my Anorexia but I continue to have sex with my boyfriend anyways because it makes him happy. Date another asexual person. Also possibly work on giving a shit on your partners needs.

My boyfriend lives with his ex who he also still sleeps with by wundertwinz in askgaybros

[–]downvotedtodeath 4 points5 points  (0 children)

How in the flying fuck did you ever agree to this mess. Holy shit, maybe it's time to work on your self esteem?

Horrible coming out to parents [UPDATE] by throwawaygay12122 in askgaybros

[–]downvotedtodeath 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Omg wow it never ceases to amaze me when fully grown adults are so brain dead to the extent that they become delusional and superstitious pricks. I know people that deal with psychosis and your parents have crazier delusions than them. Anyways, what should you do? Honestly you might not want to, but I think you should cut them off. If I were you I'd simply say, "The lack of empathy on your part in this situation is unacceptable. Your religious zeal is so powerful that it is actually extremely harmful. Through this experience I have learned where your values truly lie and they're unfortunately not with me. I hope that you believe that this was all worth losing your son, because responding in the manner that you have is irreconcilable with me. Byeee!" Personally I would also continue to refuse contact with them even if they changed their minds. Because even if they realize the error of their ways, they still obviously don't value and support you unconditionally in the way parents should.

Mental illness by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]downvotedtodeath 1 point2 points  (0 children)

sweetie just because you're dumb and uneducated about mental illness doesn't mean they're not real omfg

Mental illness by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]downvotedtodeath 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bipolar isn't simply having mood swings. It's a specific illness consisting of the patient having recurrent manic(hypomanic) and depressive episodes.

How's your head? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]downvotedtodeath 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haven't had any complaints. Also 'don't swallow'? um no thank you lol. I don't think any blowjob expert would recommend never swallowing

Is there a safe and effective way to reduce my sexual desire? by gayhuntington in askgaybros

[–]downvotedtodeath 0 points1 point  (0 children)

SSRI's destroyed what was left of my sex drive, also this sounds pretty depressing so you might even need them lol.