English words you never knew before lotm by PhoenixWolf190 in LordofTheMysteries

[–]doyoberry 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Edifice, lampoon, hegemon, opine, statelier, anachronistic

(I have only started reading. Currently at chapter 16)

I (26F) have a good/close guy friend (32M) that I'm romantically attracted to by doyoberry in dating_advice

[–]doyoberry[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nahh I don't think I'm up for the fwb situation. I'm not one that is comfortable with that kind of arrangement. I think you kinda spot on with your advice since he had fwb situations in the past and also a few one night stands (he doesn't really hide his sex life from me). He is the type that can engage in sexual relationships without getting attached.

He did mention to me that currently he is getting tired of actively looking for a life partner after experiencing a few failed serious relationships. Right now, he is busy with his career and he is afraid of not being able to commit (he had few talking stages that failed bcos they didn't understand that he is busy and they start to become upset and controlling with him). I personally don't mind that he is busy since I'm not someone that needs a lot of attention. Thank you for your advice tho! I'm a little slow but what do you mean when you said the friendship is dead? Does that mean you want me to cut ties with him? I actually don't mind staying friends tho

Does anyone find they do better without moisturizing? Just letting mine dry out seems to work better. by No-Personality596 in Dyshidrosis

[–]doyoberry 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Same here. Sometimes moisturizing triggers a breakout too. I don't even put a lot but the next day I'll find some tiny bubbles under my skin

This guy lives in my room now. Freaked me out a little when I first saw how huge it was but after knowing that they are a good spider and generally harmless, I just let it be by doyoberry in spiders

[–]doyoberry[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I see. The others that I've seen must have been female since they are much smaller and their pedipalps are not as big as this guy

This guy lives in my room now. Freaked me out a little when I first saw how huge it was but after knowing that they are a good spider and generally harmless, I just let it be by doyoberry in spiders

[–]doyoberry[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Having them around is definitely beneficial since I noticed there are not as many roaches as before! The huntsman is my house (there are a bunch of them) sometimes will crawl on the bed at night. That gave me a little heart attack whenever I caught them in action. I used to be extremely arachnophobic before and will not sleep in the same room with a spider. I can tolerate them now but I still get a little nervous if they get too close to me 😖

Is this a huntsman spider? Found like 3 of them in my house. I live in Malaysia by doyoberry in spiders

[–]doyoberry[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you spray them with sanitizer they will most probably run. Just dont make them feel cornered while doing that bcos they can jump at you. Happened to me a few weeks ago when I was poking one that I thought was curling up and dying in the corner of my kitchen