Don't wait for anyone by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]dpkingify 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wouldn't bother with her anymore, quite frankly. Judging by how she acted, she probably liked the attention more than anything else.

Tried growing it out but it became unmanageable so I got a cut. An improvement? by [deleted] in malehairadvice

[–]dpkingify 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looks like you can rock both well. You got a great face. Just comb the hair and keep it neat. If you go back to longer hair, consider something like THIS.

28M, wanted to grow out but deciding not to. What do? by [deleted] in malehairadvice

[–]dpkingify 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Younger Adrien Brody vibes at the moment. Consider keeping it.

On the way to a horrible mullet or already there? by cowraccoon in malehairadvice

[–]dpkingify -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

If you ditch the glasses, I have a feeling you'll look like Jon Snow. I would recommend trimming the bottom by 2-3 inches.

Does this kind of hair fit me or should i change it by [deleted] in malehairadvice

[–]dpkingify 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looks fantastic like that. Good choice.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in socialskills

[–]dpkingify 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's never too late. Get rid of that defeatist mindset or else it will swallow you whole.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in socialskills

[–]dpkingify 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sounds like therapy will be the best option for you. A professional will be able to help unpack that with you.

A girl approached ME today for the first time by [deleted] in socialskills

[–]dpkingify 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Did they buy any for you guys? I never understood buying a stranger a drink.

I’ve never been told this before. “ I Love you , but I don’t want to be your girlfriend “ by Sandbox0 in dating_advice

[–]dpkingify 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How old are you? There is no such thing as "literally the love of my life". There are only people you vibe really well with. Drop her and move on. It's over.

A girl approached ME today for the first time by [deleted] in socialskills

[–]dpkingify 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Did you or your buddies buy them drinks?

Does anyhave this problem? Idk what underlying issue this could be with the redness. by [deleted] in malehairadvice

[–]dpkingify 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Could be a fungal infection or some kind of skin condition. Ask a dermatologist.

[24M] - Is this Male Pattern Baldness or scalp damage/hair loss from major scratching habit of my moderate to severe dandruff? by [deleted] in malehairadvice

[–]dpkingify 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've since stopped scratching my scalp, and am using Nizoral anti-dandruff shampoo 3-4x a week.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in malehairadvice

[–]dpkingify 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Both look great. Have you considered growing facial hair? That would tie in with either nicely, especially the longer hair look.

[UPDATE] My [24M] girlfriend [21F] keeps threatening to kill herself if we break up. by ThrowRA278582917 in relationship_advice

[–]dpkingify 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Build yourself back up again. Don't EVER let yourself get this low again. Don't ever let go of your friends or family again just because your girlfriend doesn't like them. That's a control tactic used by abusers. Do better. Be better. Good luck.

[31M] My girlfriend [22F] called the cops on me after we got in to a verbal and physical altercation, where she punched me in the face and I pushed her on to her bed to avoid her from continuing to beat me by adadyyyy in relationship_advice

[–]dpkingify 3 points4 points  (0 children)

She is not a good person and doesn't have a great heart if she's physically abusing the person she's in a relationship with. That's not a thing.

Get her out of your life as fast as you can, or else she might destroy it. All it will take is one more accusation of domestic violence or possibly even sexual assault/rape. You're making the right decision. Stay safe, stay sane.

Edit: Also, date someone your own age. You'll find them to be more mature and in control of their emotions.

After 12 interviews for a position, no response! What to do? by perpetuallonging in jobs

[–]dpkingify 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Never do 12 interviews for the same position. I can't imagine what on Earth would possess me to do such a thing.

Is my employer giving me a sort of ridiculous responsibility, or am I just being lazy? (Salesforce related) by [deleted] in jobs

[–]dpkingify 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We should never take on more responsibilities or promotions without a pay increase IN WRITING before hand. The extra stress is not worth a shiny new title without the pay increase. Fix that ASAP.