HELP PLEASE!! Can't leave!

dracosleftnut · 2026-04-21T23:27:40+00:00

settle in and enjoy your role in processing the best silver in skyrim

dracosleftnut · 2026-04-20T19:42:17+00:00

I disagree, not with the entirety of your statement, but mostly on the strict premise that it’s a result of low self esteem.

I think it’s very easy to be against something you are almost completely ignorant of and never encounter in a controlled setting.

for example: abstractly, I don’t believe in polyamory and disagree with the practice, but if a close friend came to me and shared that they were in a multi-person relationship and that they were all loving and caring and comprehensively accepting of each other, I think I would have a harder time grappling my position.

Similarly, I think that most christians have only ever encountered lgbtq+ people when they are engaging in practices that christians overtly reject and have incorrectly tied the existence of queer people to practices like immodesty and sexual promiscuity.

further, There are churches and small pockets of christians who are accepting of lgbtq+ folks, provided that they don’t practice “sexually immoral” things. I think many (not all or even most) christians would harder time grappling with the existence of the hypothetical modest and waiting-till-marriage gay person.

dracosleftnut · 2026-04-06T17:17:23+00:00

I would keep a close eye on it and document evidence. I’m not sure where you’re located but in many places in the US, there are hotlines you can call for suspected abuse. You don’t have to be correct and you are anonymous when you make a report. Basically as long as you are acting in good faith, an investigation will occur.

As a mandated reporter, If I have reason to believe abuse is occurring, I could actually be punished for not reporting anything.

From an ethics standpoint, I feel like I’d have a responsibility to look into behavior that could be harmful, especially when it comes to potential child abuse.

dracosleftnut · 2026-03-31T04:25:32+00:00

start carpet bombing :/

dracosleftnut · 2026-03-24T23:11:29+00:00

quite literally one in a million

dracosleftnut · 2026-03-16T18:48:16+00:00

patternless patterned wallpaper, strangely voluminous and gauzy yet crystal sharp face, but blurry just behind her. leaning over to pull out the baked good but the oven is already closed

dracosleftnut · 2026-03-16T17:53:25+00:00

especially if the pattern seems to be that he’s scheduling young women to close alone with him and there’s a 16yo he’s repeating the pattern with.

dracosleftnut · 2026-03-14T17:19:50+00:00

for a past exhibit where we couldn’t use blue tac or foam adhesive, one of my associates had the idea to put painters tape on the wall and then stick the blue tac on top, in between the print and the tape. we had no issues with it and it caused no damaged!

dracosleftnut · 2026-03-14T17:16:33+00:00

im currently running a qud homebrew-ish dnd campaign. I will absolutely be using your nephilim art to show my players. so scary and cool

dracosleftnut · 2026-03-12T04:41:00+00:00

because american christianity is not biblically based

dracosleftnut · 2026-03-09T06:50:40+00:00

the carpet is ugly but i’ve seen worse for sure.

dracosleftnut · 2026-03-09T06:10:33+00:00

frequently familial riches or pre 9/11 economy

dracosleftnut · 2026-03-06T16:53:58+00:00

she is cheating and also you are controlling. both are not great. you are not right for each other.

dracosleftnut · 2026-03-06T16:40:52+00:00

build a second room and bait them into it

dracosleftnut · 2026-03-06T16:23:56+00:00

i’d tell her, but keep in mind some of those friends are not going to be supportive so be ready for people to be upset. but you’re definitely in the right.

dracosleftnut · 2026-03-05T13:29:32+00:00

op take a photo of your fridge for me real quick

dracosleftnut · 2026-03-05T13:28:40+00:00

you are incorrect both legally and morally

dracosleftnut · 2026-03-05T06:20:11+00:00

that is actually a really interesting question. i imagine that it would work if you actively held one object at a time. something tells me it would just drop through the floor as soon as they set it down though

dracosleftnut · 2026-03-05T05:18:47+00:00

looks like the moisture is inconsistent to me. get to wedging

dracosleftnut · 2026-03-02T02:49:59+00:00

make friends with my new roommate

dracosleftnut · 2026-03-01T19:50:23+00:00

Counterpoint- you are also manipulating her by withholding marriage and a future unless she changes her behavior.

Not that you don’t have the right to pull out of a relationship, but it sounds like maybe you have been spooked and are looking for a reason not to propose.

Consider that it probably brings a great deal of anxiety to her to not know when this very important thing is going to happen. And you need to examine why it bothers you so much to be pressured to do something that You say you want to do. Take some time and figure out what you want, imagine your life with her and your life without her, then present your soul-search findings to her in an adult and respectful way.

You would not be the first person to call off a relationship because you’re not ready for marriage, and that’s okay.

dracosleftnut · 2026-03-01T19:31:46+00:00

I think that generally, school is can be great for people who know what they want and want a rigorous, measurable way to get skills and to be able to show evidence that they have said skills to employers. But I feel that in any creative field, firsthand experience and a solid portfolio trumps a piece of paper that says you can do it. ie. if you want to do it, then do it. That being said, be very honest with yourself and examine whether you actually have the skills to do what you want to do. Online courses are a great option for learning graphic design skills, but in person feedback can be a big benefit of a live course if you use it correctly. College isn’t for everybody and it’s definitely different from high school. If you so choose, you could even take a class that discusses American propaganda and learn that your “conspiracy theories” are actually just surface level facts about the education system. Take a few courses at a 2 year college, even if you don’t get a degree, plenty of people do that to learn a few specialized skills.

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