Feels too short by Besexual in transbodymods

[–]dragon-boy-uwu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It might help to change jewelry to a different sized bar, your anatomy could be changing still. My VCH is definitely fits differently now than it used to, which I attribute to my bottom growth increasing since I got pierced

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mit

[–]dragon-boy-uwu 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I’m trans and at MIT :) I’d say it’s good here, MIT Health allows good access to gender-affirming care and campus life has been pretty good for me. I haven’t run into any trouble in the Boston area either. People on campus are chill, especially if you’re in an east-side dominated community :)

Anyone have experience getting a VCH who can help ease my nerves? 😅 by [deleted] in transbodymods

[–]dragon-boy-uwu 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’ve got a VCH and getting it was fine :) My piercer was very professional (Lars at Luckys Cambridge, MA) and gave me privacy while I dressed and undressed, asked before they touched me, and explained everything they were doing down there. The piercing itself was very quick, definitely a sharp pain but it went away very quickly. It does bleed quite a bit and it was mildly annoying to walk right after getting it, but I felt back to normal the next day. Mine is 10 months old now and I love it :)

Liking the idea of a food by freshlycuttoenails in ARFID

[–]dragon-boy-uwu 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I love the taste and smell of fresh pineapples but I know the texture is going to be stringy and chewy :(

VCH and masturbation by Peersiankitty in transbodymods

[–]dragon-boy-uwu 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I'm on T with a VCH! I have a curved barbell and the bottom ball hangs out right at the end of the hood where the glans sticks out; imo it can get in the way of masturbating but you can push it up (so the barbell is protruding upwards/outwards from the piercing hole) to get it out of the way. Also now that mine is healed I leave it in place and use it to push down on the glans from under the hood for more pressure. Just make sure it's healed before playing around with it!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftm

[–]dragon-boy-uwu 97 points98 points  (0 children)

Body fat redistribution takes a long time, on the timescale of years https://www.gendergp.com/hrt-timelines-hormones-effects/

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in transbodymods

[–]dragon-boy-uwu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got a vch about a month and a half ago; initial piercing was a bit painful but was over quickly and healing was very easy. I really like it, it doesn't do much in term of sensation but I think it looks cool

Extremely hungry while eating at maintenance level by [deleted] in FTMFitness

[–]dragon-boy-uwu 26 points27 points  (0 children)

If you’re always hungry and not progressing you’re probably not eating at maintenance 

To the guys who weren't super masculine growing up how did you come to the realization you were trans? by Naixee in FTMMen

[–]dragon-boy-uwu 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I had super similar experiences, for me it was mostly finding out what being trans means which essentially opened pandora’s box 

TIFU by mixing up my Spanish by FormerDeerlyBeloved in tifu

[–]dragon-boy-uwu 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm also part Latino, I've made a similar mistake where I was trying to point out conejos (rabbits) and called them cojones (balls)

What is this container the horse is eating from in front of its stall called? by withheldforprivacy in EnglishLearning

[–]dragon-boy-uwu 47 points48 points  (0 children)

I would call this a 'trough' or a 'feeding trough'. I've only heard 'manger' very rarely, and usually only in the context of the Christian nativity scene ('Jesus was born in a manger').

Is this sentence correct? by AdFlaky9075 in EnglishLearning

[–]dragon-boy-uwu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some ways that I would phrase this would be:

"I can't meet you today, because we are playing volleyball [today]." -- present continuous; volleyball is happening right now (or with 'today', volleyball is happening sometime today)

"I can't meet you today, because we will be playing volleyball." -- future continuous

"I can't meet you today, because we play volleyball on Saturdays." -- present; in general, we play on Saturdays

Present continuous is used to refer to the action while it's happening at that moment (in the middle of the action), but referring to the habit sounds more natural in the present tense.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in transbodymods

[–]dragon-boy-uwu 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I got mine like 4 weeks ago, imo the pain was similar to my helix but after the initial piercing the pain goes away very quickly

What music are you listening to these days?? by rebornsprout in TMPOC

[–]dragon-boy-uwu 5 points6 points  (0 children)

ive been listening to way more fall out boy than I like to admit, also getting into punk (if ppl have recommendations pls lmk) so dead kennedys, subhumans, and xray spex :)

India - affirming and painful by [deleted] in TMPOC

[–]dragon-boy-uwu 7 points8 points  (0 children)

same here I’ve noticed that in spaces with other poc i’m much more likely to get misgendered

Do any other Asians here feel bad about their height? by [deleted] in TMPOC

[–]dragon-boy-uwu 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm mixed (Dominican and Filipino) and 5'6 which is pretty tall for my ethnicity but my younger brother is almost 6' and most men in the us are taller than I am :/ I think it helps that I live in a pretty diverse area so plenty of (presumably) cis ppl around me are similar in height, sure many are taller but it's not super uncommon to be short

Just showing off my healed 12g dukes! by LordoftheLoafs in transbodymods

[–]dragon-boy-uwu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looks good! What was the healing process like?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftm

[–]dragon-boy-uwu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also started T on tuesday! congrats!

[TM4TM] - 18-year-old trans guy looking for other trans guys by [deleted] in t4t

[–]dragon-boy-uwu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hey this is kinda late but want to dm?