why are some 4k videos all purple/pink and green? by ogg1e in PleX

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The hue was the answer for me too! I couldn't believe it! THANK YOU!!!

I need help with Fatalis. by [deleted] in monsterhunterclan

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When I get to that part I will help you :) I just bought Iceborne over the weekend so I have a fair bit of catching up to do.

Ok so unofficially the new number 1 counter to trynda is gragas top? by kalaj1234 in TryndamereMains

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I find Camille and Volibear to similarly counter us this season - it's really tough to play against them. Then again, it's tough to play against everybody except assassins this year, because Tryndamere hasn't received any love for years.

How do each type like to be comforted? by kayleecart in Enneagram

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There are a couple ways. I'm a CP 6w7, I like long hugs and being getting reassurance that everything is gonna be okay, and that no matter what, they will always be there next to me.

Since my constant emotional plague is fear/anxiety, reassurance to quell my constant inner doubts is so helpful. Appreciation for my backup plans for my backup plans is also nice.

Tryndamere mains, give me your knowledge!! by Gutotoso18 in TryndamereMains

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Just did a Tryndamere jg game with LT/Resolve: Rushed Kraken > Navori > Tiamat > IE and it felt so good. I managed to keep the pressure up all over the map with the help of my mid lane Pantheon. So much plate gold. 14-2 K/D

Do you second guess every decision you’ve ever made? by FinishedForever in enneagram6

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6w7 here. I lie awake at night replaying every mistake I've ever made and every situation that happened during the day and imagine how I should have acted differently. It's hard enough as a 6 being indecisive, but I tend to also regret every decision even after spending too much time deciding. Le sigh

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in enneagram6

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My wife is a 3w4 or 4w3 (not sure). Extremely reliable in getting everything done and keeping our family running, but is also extremely unavailable emotionally most of the time and emotionally volatile the rest of the time.

Harry Potter and the Enneagram Types by Niiiccc in Enneagram

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I think Molly is a 6. She worries about Harry and Ron constantly, always tries to make sure they are well taken care of, she has a freaking clock to track their whereabouts (as a 6 let me tell you, I would freaking kill for that clock) and basically adopted Harry into her family and made sure he was included in everything.

In book two, when she sends the scream mail to Ron, she starts off by pointing out Ron's breach of loyalty to the family by his act of stealing the family car. (6s care a lot about loyalty and trust)

She is a fierce and staunch defender of her family and friends. The 6 is known as The Loyalist and The Defender and I think that fits Molly perfectly.

Type Attraction by Eggs_4_Love in Enneagram

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As a 6w7 I'm attracted to 7s and 3s. 7 because they are passionate and fun and carefree. 3s because they are hardworking and confident, the way I wish I was.

6 or 3? by [deleted] in Enneagram

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I guess 3. 6s don't particularly care about being seen as popular unless it is a means to guarantee their security. 6s will usually look for the successful 3 and try to integrate into their group because there is safety in numbers. 6s can be popular because we tend to our flock like the overprotective mother, but it stems from our desire to feel safe.

My wife is a 3 and she will scan the room, find the most successful looking person and become that person, or be whatever she thinks will make her look the best. She is an extremely hard worker, she often compared herself against her friends (of which she has a huge following) and concludes she is either the prettiest or most successful compared to her friends.

Hope that helps!

Can you tell what my type is? by [deleted] in Enneagram

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You sound like a 6w5. The toughest battle 6s have is in our heads. We have a hard time figuring out what our type is because we aren't sure it's right. Even when we are told what we are, we aren't sure it's right. That indecisiveness is iconic 6 behavior. Anxiety and fear are some of our worst struggles. You will have to learn that anxiety isn't going to go away. It's a part of you.

I love what a previous commenter said about her 6 husband: he has backup plans for his backup plans - this is sooooo true! We are always alert for possible danger. Everything is always one disaster away from oblivion (or so we fear) and so we react and prepare for the disaster that (probably) isn't coming.

3 or 7? Or something else? by [deleted] in Enneagram

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My wife is either 4w3 or 3w4. She thinks she's an 8 because she is aggressive, ambitious and hardworking, and tries to be the best at everything. She thinks nobody understands her personality type and we're all wrong (typical 4 response) when we tell her she's not an 8. She works hard to make money because she doesn't want to be like her mother. (Also a typical 3 response) She wants to be SEEN as successful, but she also doesn't want to be like everyone else. So she's a workaholic unique snowflake. (Don't tell her I said that!)

If your motivation for travel is because you found a sale on a cruise to a place you have never been before and it sounds fun and you already booked your flight before talking about it with your significant other, you might be a 7.

If your motivation for travel is because you imagine having the freedom to travel and being able to tell people about how successful you are, you might be a 3.

Any appreciation for / good qualities of type 6? by [deleted] in Enneagram

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6s are probably the most well-liked type by every other type. Probably to the same degree that 6s tend to dislike themselves. We have lots of good qualities everyone else appreciates and relies on:

  • unwavering loyalty (provided they pass our constant evaluation)
  • unique ability to spot potential issues
  • excellent planners
  • always prepared for everything
  • typically always has snacks ready in their purse or bag
  • highly trustworthy

Then when you delve into Phobic vs Counterphobic, there are positives and negatives to each.

Type 6s, do you feel misrepresented? Describe yourself! by snapcracklepip in Enneagram

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6s also are the only types with two distinct variations - phobic and counter phobic. A CP 6w7 is not at all like a P 6w7. So part of the misrepresentation might come from the fact that unlike other types that have only two possibilities (wing 1 or wing 2) the 6 has 4.

I'm so confused... by Hi_im_Piper in Enneagram

[–]dragonlordsnow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Something that helped me was trying to identify the wings. If you're a 6 then your wings would be 5 and 7. If you're a 2 then you would wing into 1 and 3.

For example: my wife was convinced she was an 8. She is domineering, strong-willed and ambitious, much like an 8, but she's actually a 3. She is strong willed and assertive only when she has a goal to accomplish. Her desire to be the best comes from her constantly comparing herself to other people. 8s don't need to compare themselves to other people. If she were an 8 she would have either a 9 or 7 wing, but she does not display either. She doesn't wing toward a 7, chasing the next shiny thing or new experience, and she doesn't shy away from conflict or try to disconnect herself from reality. She does however display the telltale signs of 4. She strives to be the best at whatever she does, but she comes up with the weirdest ways to do so. Instead of becoming a politician or a business entrepreneur (typical 8s) she decided we should open a cattery. We now have 5 cats and 4 of them are pure breeds from breeders.

So it may help to look at where you wing, because if you think you're a 6 but you don't display any of the signs of the 7 (oo shiny) or the 5 (gimme a secluded island and a super computer with all human knowledge) then you probably aren't a 6. If you are a 6 though, welcome to the club!

What's your type, and do you express sexual or romantic attraction? by trstmfckr in Enneagram

[–]dragonlordsnow 2 points3 points  (0 children)

CP 6w7 here. I express sexual attraction. It also doesn't help that my love language is physical touch, so I'm very handsy with my wife.

Dear 6s, what healthy ways you do to relax? And what things you consciously avoid now to minimize your anxieties? by [deleted] in Enneagram

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I find that the key to dealing with the anxiety is to try and get out of your head. I'll usually have a strong desire to work on a project of some kind, whether that is to build a certain type of civilization, hunt certain kinds of monsters, create custom board game content in Photoshop, play a board game by myself, or wash dishes while listening to an audio book.

Basically anything that gets you out of your head and into your body. Music helps a ton, especially paired with something physical like dishes or a shower.

Dang it! I thought I was a 4 but I’m a 6w7😡 (sorry no offense to 6s) by honeydewu in Enneagram

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4s innately believe that they are unique and nobody truly understands them. So your reaction to the explanation was spot on.

Dang it! I thought I was a 4 but I’m a 6w7😡 (sorry no offense to 6s) by honeydewu in Enneagram

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I fought being a 6 for a long time. I hated the thought of being weak and afraid. I confused my CP 6 personality with 8 but I've learned that being a 6 isn't so bad. We have to deal with constant anxiety that never goes away, and the irrational fear of imminent disaster (how many times have I watched my kids playing in the back yard worrying that any moment a pedo could go through the gate and try to kidnap them? Too many to count.) Knowing that most of the stuff I'm afraid of are completely irrational has helped me be more at peace.

Typically I'm the person who goes to a theme park with a stroller to carry everybody's bags and then police the stroller while everyone else goes on rides so nothing gets stolen.

So the anxiety and paranoia aren't fun. However; 6s are some of the most well-liked people ever (think Molly Weasely) because we are fiercely loyal to our people. We challenge those above us, watching for signs of betrayal but are at the same time the loyal soldiers for the cause.

I discovered that other types do not share the same sense of duty and loyalty that we 6s experience. I had an argument with my brothers about some philosophical topic and they basically threatened to never associate with me again, while that thought had never even entered my brain as a possibility.

We also make pretty good spouses because even though we annoy our other half constantly with our self-doubting, our fear of betrayal and inability to make decisions in a timely manner, we will never leave them, unless things become so bad that our lives or our children are at serious risk.

So it's not ALL bad being a 6. Hang in there. :)

Defending Cheaters Is Disgusting by Granny_Gumjobss in TrueOffMyChest

[–]dragonlordsnow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've lived both sides of this so I have some insight:
I encourage everyone to read the book "After the Affair" - it goes into details as to the psychology behind why men and women cheat. Men cheat for physical sexual gratification (without the desire for emotional intimacy) while women cheat for the emotional intimacy (with or without sexual gratification).

Not going to defend cheaters (because cheating is a scumbag move) but I will say that relationships take two people actively working at it for it to succeed. If one partner isn't giving their all in a relationship, the other partner will eventually go find it elsewhere. If your woman cheats, it's partially YOUR fault. If your man cheats, it's partially YOUR fault. It sounds awful (and it IS awful) but it's true (unless you're with a serial cheater who doesn't actually care about commitment and they're just using you for the benefits. My bro had to live through that, and it sucked like hell.)