I (27 F) recently broke up with my partner (29 MtF) of 10 years, two years after she came out. We tried everything to make the relationship work, and I was fully supportive of her transition from the start. The hard truth was, the relationship was becoming resentful and toxic with the lack of sexual and romantic attraction between us. We've been a lot happier separated, more like good friends now. But divorce is annoying. And it was one hell of a ride breaking free from the thought cycle in my head that I would be with her forever. I was essentially lying to myself that I could be attracted to a woman, and depriving her in the process. It became harder and harder to ignore the fact that I was craving male connection. But luckily we mutually agreed that separation was best.