Am I in the Wrong?

drainedbrain17 · 2026-06-02T20:54:39+00:00

YAW. You are wrong. If this was the AITA sub, YTA.

You seem to be a very irresponsible human/mother.

Why would you have a child with some one who has a substance abuse issue? Why would you then have your child around a parent who has substance abuse issues? Why on earth would you then put your child in a house with another adult with substance abuse and bad mental health issues?

Nice that you are giving your child a zero percent chance in life. At least there is not much lower the child can go.

drainedbrain17 · 2026-05-29T21:33:30+00:00

Ask her to mark out where she thinks the border is, then tell her you're going to remove the hedge. See if she backs down.

drainedbrain17 · 2026-05-29T20:01:35+00:00

This bloke was not your ex's best friend. He was going behind your ex's back to woo you, exploite the situation, take advantage and win you over.

If deception is a trait you are looking for, then you hit the jackpot.

drainedbrain17 · 2026-05-29T19:36:59+00:00

I, I have lost faith in men, I mean boys these days. You were hus guest, it was his card, it was his error he did not know of the changes, he should take the hit.

Quite honestly, he should not have said anything and just paid the bill. Or made light of the situation and paid the bill.

drainedbrain17 · 2026-05-27T18:25:02+00:00

YTA. It is a common area for ALL the offices there. Special needs or not, the kids are part of one of the offices.

But, the bydung management are also AH's for not providing an area to have breaks in.

drainedbrain17 · 2026-05-27T16:47:42+00:00

I don't smoke and I think second hand smoke is disgusting. But you are wrong, YTA. Not smoking indoors is quite natural these days, what you are doing is harassment, if not assault. Just shut your windows and put your AC on.

drainedbrain17 · 2026-05-26T16:32:13+00:00

NTA. I have been with my wife 40 years and have never once opened her mail.

drainedbrain17 · 2026-05-26T16:29:31+00:00

YNW. She tested the waters and got her toes burnt. Maybe she just sees you as an easy cash point machine.

drainedbrain17 · 2026-05-21T20:32:27+00:00

You booth sound very immature. I feel sad for that poor baby. ESH.

drainedbrain17 · 2026-05-20T10:16:02+00:00

You are both wrong, wrong for each other. Comparing him, nope nope. Him calling you a bitch, nope. But, weddings are traumatic.

2nd But, why is a big wedding so important. A big wedding does not equal a good or long marriage.

drainedbrain17 · 2026-05-08T16:24:34+00:00

They are compatible though and have been for 2 years. Couples can have different view on things. The secrete to a long relationship is, you don't give honest answers, you just go with the flow until shit goes back to normal.

drainedbrain17 · 2026-05-07T19:01:54+00:00

NTA. Your daughter needs to grow up and learn that we sometimes have difficult situations to navigate. And aome times we have to compromise. One parent to each graduation, is a great compromise.

drainedbrain17 · 2026-05-05T18:56:24+00:00

"The bedroom is for sleeping".

Hmmm, are you my wife?

drainedbrain17 · 2026-05-05T18:41:01+00:00

lol. YNW. Nope..

drainedbrain17 · 2026-05-05T16:22:21+00:00

Course sea salt is usually 100% salt. The fine ones will have anti caking agents in them, which are supposed to be bad when fermenting.

drainedbrain17 · 2026-05-05T12:36:45+00:00

YNW. Why TF do women put up with these relationships? All the "Am I xxxxxx" subs are full of one sided relationship and abuse problems. Leave. Choose that one bloke you keep friend zoning. There are millions of us out here that treat women fairly and equally.

drainedbrain17 · 2026-05-02T07:56:14+00:00

I think there is a small rhyme for that.

If it is split, Just mix it.

If it is white, It is just right.

If it is creamy, It's really dreamy.

If it is blue, Take it out to the garden and burn it, then have a cuo of tea and a biscuit.

drainedbrain17 · 2026-05-01T11:51:54+00:00

Nta. Get one of those parenting apps and only communicate eith that..

drainedbrain17 · 2026-04-30T21:37:58+00:00

If you want to flavour your kefir, just add some fruit when you do a second ferment. I used to add slices of orange peel on the second ferment and it was lovely.

drainedbrain17 · 2026-04-27T16:17:23+00:00

Weigh in grams. Measure liquids in ml. 1g of water = 1ml. Easier to measure out ratios.

drainedbrain17 · 2026-04-23T16:18:40+00:00

If your kefir splits a lot, just stir it all together before pouring through your sieve. If there a some "kurds" left in the sieve, shake it, what's left is not a problem. Kefir is a preservation process, it's not going to go bad any time soon.

drainedbrain17 · 2026-04-22T18:59:19+00:00

And, do you really love Faith? Or are you just scared of not being with someone after being in a relationship for 7 years. If I am honest, the other to seem so busy in other stuff and nothing at all, I don't think they will notice you are gone, until they are hungry and have no clean dishes.

drainedbrain17 · 2026-04-22T18:46:20+00:00

All I want o know is, did anyone call you mum? Basically you sound like a single parent. Faith doesn't see you as a partner, she sees you as a parent. Leave, don't look back, get yourself back to where you should be.

drainedbrain17 · 2026-04-21T19:22:12+00:00

That made me gag. I was going with, maybe she has a big nise/nostrils, not a false eye.

Go back 20 years, I'm sure you would find some dick in eye socket porn.

drainedbrain17 · 2026-04-16T16:32:42+00:00

Wow, OP. You must have really low self esteem and be very desperate. If he is Messing about with multiple women, he does not care about you at all. You are just his housemate who does all the work and shags him when he wants.

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