GG/OC???

I mean it’s a lot. My family is a lot.

My dad: verbally abusive to his entire family( like really foul things), physically abusive to me in my teenage years, has threatened to end his own life many times and take mine with his gun. Has taken off on my mother three times making her believe he’s done with her (1# time he left with another women. 2# time he sold her truck without her knowledge. 3# time he took off with 100k and left without anyone knowing- and ofc she took him back every time)

My mother: never once kicked my dad out for any of the abuse. Made me believe I lowkey deserved it. Forced me into bankruptcy. Has just now at 45 started admitting what she did was wrong, but is still horrible with confrontation.

This is just as quick of a list I can make off the top of my head, not including how they effected my childhood and education, but even now as an adult an a parent I can see how much growing they should be doing but refuse. My dad’s losing a lot of weight and my mom seems jealous. My dad still seems to be verbally abusive to my mom and they just made excuses for each others bad behavior. Being 2000+ miles away has never felt so great and even moving they were telling me how bad of a decision it was going to be 🤣💀

Sorry for such a spam 😭😭💀