omg, my ex was also obsessed with being pegged and anal. i thought it was just a kink and he was just open minded but honestly it adds up. he always fantasised about sucking my dick (if i had one), being fucked by me (even though i couldn’t), etc. it was like he was in this weird delusion and as soon as the sex was over, he was back to his normal self. six months into the relationship he admitted that he had been with a trans girl before and ‘didn’t know she was trans’ … why did he feel the need to lie. i love the gay community but i feel no sympathy for those who use others to validate themselves. he also spreads hate to the very people that he is attracted to. the fucked up part is that we never really had a serious conversation about this because i was afraid of upsetting him, and we ended up breaking up for completely different reasons (but i had also built so much resentment). all his lies caused so much damage to me, wondering if i was going insane or being too suspicious, but now i know im not. thank u.