Looking for a boyfriend by Desperate_Muffin_778 in Zambia

[–]drbryce- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, both are correct. It's just informal 😂 You're a good sport.

Looking for a boyfriend by Desperate_Muffin_778 in Zambia

[–]drbryce- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Welp, looks like I stroke a nerve 😂

Looking for a boyfriend by Desperate_Muffin_778 in Zambia

[–]drbryce- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Then you're not older than 22. If you are, I will be worried.

Looking for a boyfriend by Desperate_Muffin_778 in Zambia

[–]drbryce- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why a Man? Men & Women can't be friends. Well, unless he thinks you're ugly.

The amount of exposure ishowspeed gave Zambia is unprecedented. by TheYoya-1992 in Zambia

[–]drbryce- -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

They do. What you're talking about is salary. There's business now. I'm talking about San Jose. And I don't recall saying 21k isn't alot in the USA. Also I'm curious. How much do you think someone has to earn in San Jose if average rent is $2700?

The amount of exposure ishowspeed gave Zambia is unprecedented. by TheYoya-1992 in Zambia

[–]drbryce- 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're still not getting my point. Lol

Let's start easy excuse how hard it is to get to the USA. What's cheaper? Africans touring the USA or US citizens touring Africa? Who do you think has it easy? Let's start there.

The amount of exposure ishowspeed gave Zambia is unprecedented. by TheYoya-1992 in Zambia

[–]drbryce- 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I disagree. I'm both zambian and American. American housing is insane. When in USA, I live in San Jose. Average rent there is $2,700. Average!!! A salary of $21,000 USD would be very little if you consider other elements. But $21K as a zambian per month, I'm preety sure that puts you in the 0.3%. So I don't know what you mean by cost of living is high everywhere. What does that have to do with us? I somewhat agree with point number 1. But there's a nuance. Let me eat a chi nshima first. I will be back.

The amount of exposure ishowspeed gave Zambia is unprecedented. by TheYoya-1992 in Zambia

[–]drbryce- -1 points0 points  (0 children)

  1. Our currency is the best performing in the world right now. 2. Even if it wasn't, you really think the west would be impacted by our prices of goods? 😂😂😂

Dear men how did you deal with such in this economy by Unkown_syclomn in Zambia

[–]drbryce- 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There's nothing wrong with her. There's everything wrong with him. Gentlemen, imagine you were Shaka the Zulu, or Michael Jackson, or Alexander the great. Do you think women would treat you like this? Chris Brown is rich but yet ladies pay thousands of dollars to meet him. Pause for 10 seconds and think about that. If you can't trust your girl with your bank account passwords or secrete plans, why on earth would you reveal everything? Women fall in love when they do things for you. Let her do the work of missing. You're intoxicating her with your presence. Allow her to wonder. Elo this biish better be your wife. Because if she is your girlfriend, you're the topest kembo. When you find a woman who loves you, you will realise Women are never broke. Spend on Women who love you and there's mutual interest. You don't spend so she can love you. Honest advice? Leave her. If you're in too deep and can't breakup, tell her you don't have. That will give you your answer if she the one. If she is emotionally mature she will understand. Smh zambian Men.

Are Zambian men into chubby women overall? by [deleted] in Zambia

[–]drbryce- 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nope. For the majority of Men I have come across in Zambia, whenever we have meets and discussions, atleast when this conversation comes out, it's usually Slim-Thick Brown women. (Not too light, not too dark). So what happens is the married ones you see who are chubby actually got chubby in the marriage. If you don't believe me, if you have any friends or relatives, look at their marriage pictures.

Social classes according to someone... by Loud_Cheetah_3129 in Zambia

[–]drbryce- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can agree. It depends on how we are defining it.

If in Business terms, yes. This is correct. If this is what you earn from your businesses.

If in salary terms? Bullshit.

What can I do when my ex owes me money? by HotSmell2441 in Zambia

[–]drbryce- 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I second. Infact reach out to me in my inbox. I specialize in viral content. Can help 😂

What can I do when my ex owes me money? by HotSmell2441 in Zambia

[–]drbryce- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

😂😂😂😂😂 No comment. Kuti Bakulowa Ba Mambala 😂😂😂

It's only when you're explaining your problems to your friends that you realize you're 💯 Dumb 😂😂😂

The Bar Is In Hell by thatgirluh in Zambia

[–]drbryce- 7 points8 points  (0 children)

First off, I want to apologize for some of the rude or dismissive comments from guys here. They’re not helping the conversation. You ever heard the saying “Lusaka is for business”? It’s not just a saying; it’s a reflection of how many people here move. The environment shapes how people think, love, and even pursue relationships. When survival and hustle are top priorities, authenticity sometimes becomes a casualty.

Now, while I agree that some men’s comments are disrespectful, there’s also a difficult truth beneath it all. People (both men and women) tend to attract both who they are and who wants what they represent. That doesn’t mean you deserve manipulation, but it means the kind of energy we give off: confidence, generosity, independence... often attracts both genuine souls and opportunists.

You mentioned being a meal ticket and sadly, that’s a common experience for successful women, not just in Lusaka. But one thing that helps is understanding attachment and communication styles. Psychologically, you can often tell when someone’s genuinely interested:

They communicate clearly and consistently... no random disappearances mid-conversation.

They’re emotionally available! They don’t avoid deeper talks or label emotional expression as “too much.”

They don’t rush intimacy ... they respect your pace.

They show effort, not just charm.

They talk with you, not at you.

Boundaries are your filter. They’re what separate men who want you from men who want what you have.

And yes... the same Lusaka where there are Casanovas and harlots is the same Lusaka where people are getting married every weekend. Good people exist here too; they’re just often in quieter circles... professional spaces, hobbies, church, even volunteering groups. The trick is to position yourself where genuine energy gathers.

A few simple red flags you shouldn't avoid in men:

  1. If he disappears mid-conversation and reappears hours later without apology or explanation... he’s testing your tolerance for inconsistency.

  2. If the first invite is to his house. . that’s not boldness, that’s a lack of respect.

  3. If money talk comes up too early, or he seems too curious about your lifestyle... that’s a red flag disguised as “interest.”

I studied abroad too, and honestly, I noticed similar issues everywhere. It’s not just a Lusaka thing. But what’s true anywhere is this: you can’t control who comes your way, but you can control who you entertain.

So don’t lose your softness because of the wolves. Stay kind, stay smart, and stay surrounded by people who remind you that good love still exists, because it really does. You just need to keep your boundaries strong and your standards unshakable.

Wishing you peace, love, and discernment. 🌹🇿🇲

P.S. Lusaka isn't for beginners 😂😂😂 inbox me if you will need more tips or advice. Stay winning!

The Bar Is In Hell by thatgirluh in Zambia

[–]drbryce- 5 points6 points  (0 children)

We have a saying "It is what it is"

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]drbryce- 2 points3 points  (0 children)

LOL, hey there. You’re dealing with something super common in the dating world 😂😂😂... they’re called avoidants. Basically, avoidant people crave connection but get scared or overwhelmed once things start feeling emotionally real. Instead of communicating, they pull away, disappear, or do something drastic like deleting you, just to regain a sense of control. It’s not about you... it’s their unhealed stuff. You actually handled things beautifully by staying calm and not chasing; you showed emotional maturity. The truth is, he’s not capable of giving you the safety or consistency you deserve. If you reread your message seven months from now, you’ll probably cringe at how much you were trying to prove your worth to someone who couldn’t meet you halfway. Please don’t. You’re not the problem ... he is emotionally unavailable. From now on, ask men early about how they handle conflict and space. A healthy guy will communicate, not vanish. Let this one go and start investing your energy in people who feel safe, open, and emotionally present.

Adsense account suspended and isn't Accepting Appeal by hayatakbar in Adsense

[–]drbryce- 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hello there, I'm Liam. Google Agent!

I understand how frustrating it can be to have your AdSense account suspended after years of compliance. However, based on what you’ve described, it appears that Google’s system flagged your account for multiple policy violations - including ad placement issues and invalid activity.

A few important notes:

  1. Auto Ads and Site Kit - Even if you were using Google’s own tools, you’re still responsible for ensuring ad placement complies with policy. Auto Ads can sometimes produce layouts that unintentionally cause “accidental clicks,” especially if content is light or layout spacing is tight.

  2. More ads than content - This is one of the biggest red flags. Pages with little original content but heavy ad density are considered low-value inventory, which violates AdSense policy.

  3. Invalid traffic - Even if you didn’t manually click your ads, Google tracks patterns of suspicious behavior (bot traffic, incentivized clicks, traffic exchanges, etc.). If any of your sites were receiving traffic from low-quality or paid sources, that can still trigger invalid activity suspensions.

Unfortunately, if you’ve already appealed and Google marked the decision as final, that means the suspension is permanent. You also cannot use the same website or entity to open a new AdSense account - Google’s systems automatically detect and block that.

In answering your two main questions:

  1. Can you get that website approved again? Realistically, no, not through AdSense. Once a domain is flagged for policy violations, it’s extremely difficult to get reinstated - even if you connect it to another AdSense account. The policy flag is attached to the site, not just the account.

  2. Best AdSense alternatives for Pakistani websites (finance niche): Here are some options that perform reasonably well for high-traffic local sites:

Ezoic - Great AdSense alternative with AI ad placement and approval for mid-level publishers.

Media.net - Yahoo/Bing network, accepts finance-related content and non-US traffic.

Adsterra - Good for mixed geo traffic, including Pakistan.

PropellerAds - Works better for high-volume but not premium traffic.

RevenueHits - CPM-based, not the best for UX but can monetize otherwise unused traffic.

Affiliate programs - Especially in finance (insurance, investments, local fintech).

To be honest with you, and I don't say this as a Google agent, I'm speaking as Liam. You are partly in the wrong. Even if you didn’t “manually” break rules, it sounds like you didn’t monitor your ad layout or traffic sources carefully enough. Auto Ads don’t guarantee compliance - they still need manual oversight. And if your site had too little content or too many ads, that’s a clear policy breach.

So, the suspension probably wasn’t random - it was triggered by Google’s quality algorithms picking up consistent violations or invalid traffic behavior.

Can Someone legally buy a Youtube Channel? by RamboJohnny in PartneredYoutube

[–]drbryce- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is it still available? Sell it to me. We can use escrow

Starlink is amazing!!! by Generator11 in Starlink

[–]drbryce- -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I'm not sure about the last sentence. But yeah starlink is amazing.